[X&Y] After The Dinner Date She Goes To Another Guy's House

Published: Fri, 12/01/23

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WHAT'S INSIDE: One guy picks her up at 7 pm and "wines
and dines" her. He drops her off at 10 pm, at which times she
goes over to ANOTHER guy's place for a "booty call". Which
guy would you rather be? Don't answer until you read this...

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Why is there so much focus on "pick up" out there? 

Truth be told, it's probably because it's the very first step to
getting to know a woman. 

And since most guys don't have that down yet, it makes sense to
start there.

Fair enough...I guess.

But let's get real. Let's say you actually succeed at meeting a
woman and creating some attraction there.

Then what?

How do you make sure she'll stick around for as long as you'd like
her to?

And...if you DO make her your girlfriend, how will you be the kind of
leader in that relationship who she'll always respect? 

Let's face it, as important as ALL of those factors are, almost
nobody ever talks about ANY of them.

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to achieve real, measurable success with women in every way than
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And now, on to today's decidedly edgy topic. Make sure you read
on because if you think you know what I'm going to say you just
might be in for a big surprise...



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WHICH GUY WOULD YOU RATHER BE? (ANSWER CAREFULLY)


The other day I got an e-mail from a guy that caused me to sit back
and think for a second.

Basically, the problem he was having went something like this.

He had a certain woman he'd been seeing who he sort of liked, but
who mostly came over to his house late at night.

They were "friends with benefits" for the most part.  All they
usually ever did together was have sex.

Meanwhile, out of nowhere, some other guy had suddenly appeared in
her life.

She was starting to go out with him on a regular basis.  And since
he apparently had a lot of money, he had been taking her to nice
restaurants on weeknights and so forth.

So over the past week or so she was starting to arrive at his place
on most nights a little later than usual.  You know, after her "date" with
the other guy was over.

His question to me was a simple and starkly straightforward one.

"Scot man, how can I get her to STOP seeing that other guy all the
time?  I mean, I can't compete with him!"

Okay, so are you getting the picture here?

And did you hear the unmistakably harsh sound of a needle
scratching across a record right after hearing the dude's question
to me?

If you did, that's fully understandable.

After all, you've probably read the exact same warning I've seen
about a million times, issued by pickup artists all over the world
with the express purpose of striking fear into the hearts of "Nice
Guys" everywhere:



  "Are you taking women out for expensive dinners and buying them
  things...but never getting any 'sexy time' with them? 

  Well guess what? 

  She's probably going over to SOME OTHER GUY'S house for good,
  hard, passionate, toe-curling, multi-orgasmic sex RIGHT AFTER YOU
  DROP HER OFF.

  So ask yourself...which guy would you RATHER BE?"



...And my guess is that you've fallen into the trap of believing that
it's way better to be the "bad boy" type of guy who's got the
"booty call" workin'.

After all, most of us start out seeking dating advice to begin with
because we're sick of being "sexless boyfriends", at best, with
women who ultimately "JBF" us.

But wait a second...what's this?  

Now we're confronted with the reality of that OTHER guy
registering a complaint of his own.

For his part, he's not feeling so hot about the idea of his female
companion of choice spending the first part of her evenings with
"Mr. Nice Guy", either.

What, is he worried that his gal is going to somehow get roped into
an exclusive relationship and start making babies with the other man,
causing him to lose out on the nice arrangement he has with her?

You bet he is.

Why?  Because it's possible that might happen, whether it seems
unlikely to the majority of pickup artists out there or not.

Hey, whatever fears relate best to one's own situation are the ones
that keep him up at night...regardless. 

In other words, whatever YOUR "worst case scenario" is, that's what
you'll spend time worrying about.

So now, having seen the scenario from both perspectives, which guy
would you REALLY rather be, given the circumstances?

Think about it.

I don't know about you, but I wouldn't be particularly excited about
being in either of their shoes.

And if you're anything like me, you wouldn't be either.

The bottom line is that NEITHER of those guys--the one "wining and
dining" her OR the "friend with benefits"--really, truly has that
woman's full attention.

And we as men don't like being in that position very much, no matter
WHAT our "relationship" with a woman we're into looks like.

Add it all up and the whole blasted mindset surrounding this
"either/or" quandary is suspect.

So then, I invite you to think "out of the box" for a minute here.

The BEST case scenario, vis-à-vis your choice of WORST case
scenarios described above, is to have a woman who you enjoy social
outings with and THEN also take back home with you to enjoy a
passionate, multi-orgasmic sexual relationship with.

Is this really so hard to figure out?

Be a solid, "big four" man who is confident, masculine in the way
women define it, able to make a woman feel safe and comfortable in
your presence and who consistently demonstrates strong character.

What will you get in return? 

A woman's FULL attention. 

She'll need not go anywhere else...for ANYTHING.

Remember also that if she's a high quality woman, it's NEVER going
to be about the lobster dinners OR the cheap sex for her, anyway.  

Rather, it's going to be about finding someone who she's truly and
generally compatible with, and then getting on with the business of
enjoying life together.

Similarly, it's time we transformed our thought process to where we
expect well-rounded greatness not only from ourselves but also from
the women we select.

That way we end the madness of starting less-than-holistic
relationships. 

At the same time, we kill that nagging feeling that some other guy
is going to come along and "complete the puzzle" that we seem to be
missing pieces to.

That kind of peace of mind is priceless.
 

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