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IN THIS EDITION: Maybe you've had some personal challenges
of late. Should you wait before going out with women again?

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READER QUESTION:  "SHOULD I GET THIS ISSUE HANDLED
BEFORE DATING AGAIN?"


Hi Scot,
 
I'm real interested to hear your take on this.

I am a 50 yr. old man who has been out of the dating scene for a
while. I am ready to get back in, but I have been suffering from
some thyroid issues that make me extremely tired at times.

I have always been a robust guy, been active and athletic. I am
otherwise in great shape for my age.

What I am concerned about is I want a woman who is active, but
until I get my health challenge handled, I probably wont be able
to keep up with her
 
Should I wait until my health turns around before dating so that I
can deserve what I want?

Or should I go ahead and date now and mention my situation only to
women who I date more than a couple of times?
 
This is a bummer because there are times when even a low-key date
like dinner and walking around a mall can wear me out.
 

All the Best,

Milo (Glendale, California)



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Hello Milo:
 
Often times, you'll find mainstream dating advice that says to
sort out all of your excuses before pronouncing yourself
"ready" to date again. 

Well, I say you need not--and SHOULD not--wait until conditions
are seemingly perfect before dating again. 

For starters, the "perfect" time and situation will never really
happen.

But the more subtle reason is sometimes what we think are
major issues really aren't so much to women.
 
I clearly remember telling myself shortly after my divorce that I
needed to cut 30 pounds before I could expect to attract women.

It took a few months to do that, and I indeed didn't meet any women
during that time. 

As it turned out, women enjoyed my company when I finally got
back out there, so I initially felt pretty good about having waited. 

But the crazy thing is that I ended up gaining the weight back (no
thanks to focusing on my social life rather than eating right and
going to the gym, which is another newsletter altogether)...

...And women weren't any less into me. 

If anything, there was more interest--all because of improvements
I made on my "inner game".

So yes...get back out there and meet some women!

When you choose to tell them about your health situation is
dependent upon each individual scenario, I'd say. 

But I would agree it's not first-date conversation.  Nothing
medical is.