[X&Y] You Think Women Want This, But They Sure Don't
Published: Tue, 03/26/24
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IN THIS EDITION: Do you really have to make
sure every last one of your self-perceived
"sticking points" is handled in order to go out
with amazing women?
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LIKE GETTING LOCKED UP FOR A
CRIME YOU DIDN'T COMMIT
The "Just Be Friends" Zone - Get Out, And Stay Out
Tomorrow night March 27th at 8p EDT (GMT -4
The topic of tomorrow night's
Masterclass For Men is one of the
most talked about in the world of
men's dating and relationship advice...
...yet seems to be the one with the
FEWEST real, actionable answers
on how to solve it:
CRIME YOU DIDN'T COMMIT
The "Just Be Friends" Zone - Get Out, And Stay Out
Tomorrow night March 27th at 8p EDT (GMT -4
The topic of tomorrow night's
Masterclass For Men is one of the
most talked about in the world of
men's dating and relationship advice...
...yet seems to be the one with the
FEWEST real, actionable answers
on how to solve it:
The "Just Be Friends" Zone - Get Out, And Stay Out
Tomorrow night March 27th at 8p EDT (GMT -4
Since NO MAN is immune from
getting the dreaded "JBF talk" from
a woman, it's time to finally get to
the bottom of this problem.
It's like being exiled for a crime
you didn't commit, isn't it?
You're interested in her, and you feel
like you're doing all the right things.
But she "just isn't feeling it" toward
you.
If it happens once, it happens again...
and again...and again. It's a pattern
for most men it affects.
If only the dreaded "JBF Talk" came
with an instruction manual on how
to GET OUT of exile.
But usually women will leave you on
your own there, except for the faux
reassurance to "just be yourself,
and I'm sure you'll find someone".
What's up with that? I mean, even
as they make it crystal clear they
have ZERO romantic interest in you,
they'll tell you there's nothing wrong
with you.
They may not even know WHY
they're "not feeling it"...let alone
be able to form the words to
explain themselves.
Meanwhile, they'll try to smooth things
over by telling you you're a "great
guy".
They may even go to far as to
wonder why you're still single.
What could be more frustrating?
This has to STOP.
Well, in tomorrow's Masterclass
For Men, you'll discover WHY
women "JBF" men (HINT: there are
CLEAR patterns leading up to it).
But what's more, you'll emerge
knowing how to NEVER land in the
JBF Zone again to begin with.
And most importantly, you'll FINALLY
get 7 different ways to GET OUT...
even as most dating experts will
tell you there's almost no hope.
See what all will be covered and
secure your ticket for this popular
Masterclass here:
This Masterclass will not rehash old
advice that never worked to begin
with. Expect REAL answers to the
REAL issue.
If you can't make it tomorrow night,
that's no problem at all. The complete
Download Portal will be there for you
the next day, as you've come to
expect.
advice that never worked to begin
with. Expect REAL answers to the
REAL issue.
If you can't make it tomorrow night,
that's no problem at all. The complete
Download Portal will be there for you
the next day, as you've come to
expect.
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READER QUESTION: YOU THINK WOMEN WANT THIS, BUT
THEY SURE DON'T
Hi Scot,
I'm real interested to hear your take on this.
I am a 50 yr. old man, who has been out of the dating scene for a
while. I am ready to get back in, but I have been suffering from
some thyroid issues that make me extremely tired at times.
I have always been a robust guy, been active and athletic. I am
otherwise in great shape for my age.
What I am concerned about is I want a woman who is active, but
until I get my health challenge handled, I probably wont be able to
keep up with that kind of woman.
Should I wait until my health turns around before dating so that I
can deserve what I want? Or should I go ahead and date now and
mention my situation only to women who I date more than a couple of
times?
This is a bummer because there are times when even a low-key date
like dinner and walking around a mall can wear me out.
All the best,
Milo (Glendale, California)
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Hello Milo, and thanks for writing.
I hear stories similar to yours often. What you're struggling
with is common to almost everyone, at least generally speaking.
It's human nature for us to "wait out" our excuses until they're all
perfectly handled before dating again.
Well, that's the last thing you really want to do..
There will ALWAYS be some limiting belief. As soon as one
is conquered, another one is likely to sprout up in its place.
But the more subtle reason is sometimes what we think are
major issues really aren't so much to women.
I clearly remember telling myself shortly after my divorce that I
needed to cut 30 pounds before I could expect to date. It took a
few months to do that, and true to my "limiting belief" I didn't
date during that time.
Women indeed enjoyed my company when I did start dating, so I
initially felt pretty good about having waited.
But the crazy thing is that I ended up gaining the weight back (no
thanks to focusing on my social life at the expense of eating right
and working out, which is another newsletter altogether)...and I
didn't see any less interest from women.
If anything they were MORE interested, probably because of what I
had learned in the interim about how to understand what they're
really looking for in a man and how to create attraction.
I also remember thinking that no woman would EVER want to go
out with me once she found out I had a "crazy ex-wife". But lo and
behold, that never fazed any of the women I met in the least.
In fact, imagine the connection Emily and I enjoyed when we
realized that our respective exes were actually on the same
medication. Go figure.
So yes...get back out there and meet some women. The last thing
any woman expects you to be is "Mr. Perfect". Guys who come off
like that give women the creeps anyway.
Exactly when you choose to tell them about your situation is
dependent upon each individual scenario, I'd say. But I would
agree with your suggestion that it's not first-date conversation.
Nothing medical is.
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