[X&Y] 3 Quick Online Dating Tips That Are Guaranteed To Work
Published: Tue, 01/23/24
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GET WOMEN TO WRITE YOU FIRST
Yesterday I reminded you about that audio in Online Dating
Domination 3.0 called Women Writing You First.
Since then you guys have been all over it, which is completely
understandable.
Remember, this is just one small part of the most complete online
dating toolkit there is.
Powerful modules like 50 First E-Mails, The Fast Track List and the
now infamous "Speak Up And Stand Out" profile system are still in
there, of course--along with an insider look at my own personal
profile that was active the day I wrote Emily on Match.com.
See the whole list of what's included here:
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And remember, for the next 24 hours only you not only get the
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That delivers you my complete online dating system for less than
what most guys pay for one bad date with the WRONG woman.
AND...with The Man's Approach you're fully equipped to meet
women offline as well.
You won't have to worry about bad dates with disappointing women
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In fact, how about I give you a few brand new online dating secrets
right here and right now? You know, just to give you a quick idea
of how powerful it is to get this right when nearly every other guy
doesn't.
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3 QUICK ONLINE DATING TIPS THAT ARE GUARANTEED
TO WORK
Let me tell you, I seriously LOVED online dating.
Once I soldiered through the first couple of rough years learning the
ropes (which ODD 3.0 saves you from having to do yourself), the day
finally came when I had the system down in a way few other guys
could hang with.
From there, it was all about selecting the absolute hottest women
in San Antonio, TX from the menu of Match.com options, writing
about ten of them at a time and fully expecting to hear back from
six to eight of them.
Then I'd move them to the phone, decide who my absolute favorites
were and then meet them in person.
Ultimately, it got to where I used online dating to "raise the bar"
from good to great.
Any time I decided to give one of the women I was dating the "Just
Be Friends" talk, I casually logged in and found myself in front of
more potential women to bring into my life than I could ever handle.
And then yes...one day I stumbled upon Emily's bright, sunny smile
on my computer screen and the rest is history.
I have to confess something to you, though...maybe for the first time
ever.
I really didn't want to quit online dating once I met Emily.
It's not that I wasn't sure I had found the right woman for me,
it's just that when you work so hard at something and finally get
really good at it, it's no fun to just suddenly give it up...cold turkey.
Not only isn't it any fun, it represents a major pattern interrupt
in one's lifestyle. It's a flat-out hard habit to kick, kind of like
quitting smoking.
I found out first-hand what professional athletes must feel like
after they've played their last game. And it sort of sucked.
So what did I do? Well, I did exactly what so many of those very
same NBA guys do when they've retired from the game.
I became a coach instead.
This is a big part of why I LOVE my job so much. I get to keep
doing the online dating thing, except now I get to empower a TON of
other guys like you toward even greater success than I ever dreamed
of.
This has made me into somewhat of an online dating "mad scientist"
over the past eighteen years, to be honest. It's no wonder that Online
Dating Domination 3.0 has now become the most stacked program I've
ever done in terms of content.
Well, being as quasi-obsessed with this stuff as ever, the gears in
my head never stop turning.
So every time I get on the phone with one of you guys for an Online
Dating Success Package, it's almost inevitable that something BRAND
NEW comes up.
Here are the latest three...hot off the press.
For your convenience, I've given you one that's out-of-the-box
practical, another that represents a more overarching mindset shift,
and a third that's an elaboration on something I've been teaching for
years.
Enjoy...
1) GIVE WOMEN A SIMPLE REMINDER (NOT WHAT YOU THINK)
Remember always, the main point of your online dating profile is
NOT to do all the heavy lifting. It's not even really to generate
sexual attraction.
The ONLY thing it has to do is create enough INTRIGUE to move
the interaction forward.
If you want a simple, reusable way to make it impossible for a
woman to resist getting in contact with you, drop this simple line
in your profile or first e-mail to her:
"Remind me to tell you the story of when..."
After the ellipsis, fill in a quick teaser for the most
preposterous story you've got. Swing for the fence. The only
caveat is that you want to make it something that doesn't throw
your status as a "big four" man into jeopardy.
In other words, "...got lost in a snowstorm in Lapland" is a good
one. "...got kidnapped by the Zeta cartel for double-crossing
their main guy in Nuevo Laredo", not so much.
2) TELL INCOMPLETE STORIES...ABOUT EVERYTHING
A massive mistake that men in particular make online is that they
tell their entire life story, from beginning to end.
I've seen first e-mails to women that would make Leo Tolstoy
jealous.
Seriously, spending over an hour custom-crafting a tome of
literature to a woman you've never even met before isn't only
creepy, it surgically removes ANY semblance of intrigue from the
picture.
The latter is perhaps the greater evil, believe it or not.
So from now on, tweak your mindset as such: NEVER give a
woman the whole story about ANYTHING, either in your online
profile or in your e-mail correspondence to her.
Instead of telling a complete tale in your profile, start a half
dozen or so incomplete threads instead. Give women something
to wonder about.
Leave room for a real conversation (and a potentially interesting
one, no less) to happen in the future.
The only caveat is you do indeed have to START the ball of
intrigue rolling with SOMETHING interesting.
Think of it this way. Which woman is more intriguing to you? Is
it the one who has no pictures at all? Or is it the one who has
six pictures of her sexy self--all with a completely different look?
You have no real idea what EITHER of them is going to look like,
but only the latter one really compels you to care, right?
3) QUIT RIPPING-OFF MY PILLOW FIGHT EXAMPLE,
ALREADY
Actually, I don't really mind. I realize it's pretty good.
Not only have hundreds (if not thousands) of guys used it almost
verbatim in their own respective profiles, I've even had to send a
"cease and desist" letter to another fairly well-known dating guru
who was teaching it as if it were his own.
I'm talking of course, about the magical line in my own personal
Match.com profile that was live the day I wrote Emily:
"If you start a pillow fight with me on a Sunday morning,
you're going to find the trouble you're looking for."
If you want to use it, go for it. However, what if you could come
up with something completely original but just as powerful?
That would be even better, right?
Well, here's how to do that.
First off, the "magic" of the pillow fight example isn't really in
the pillows, you see. It's all in the mental picture you're planting in
a woman's mind.
The combination of inviting her playful side, sub-communicating your
own sexually-charged nature in a somewhat subtle, engaging way and
setting off a more rambunctious sexual chain-reaction in her mind
is what's really important.
As such, if you want to come up with an equally effective example
for your own purposes, ask yourself this: "What's the very first step
of the fantasy?"
In other words, what's the "PG rated" prelude to what's quickly and
inevitably going to move in the "R rated" direction?
Using that logic, I can off the top of my head come up with a gem
like this:
"Let's go shoot pool for fun. I'll show you how to make a perfect
bank shot...as long as you promise not to distract me (much)."
Do you see what I did there? The image of a man helping a woman
learn how to shoot pool is iconically flirtatious. It's easy to
connect the proverbial dots and see how that simple billiards
lesson might rapidly degenerate into something much naughtier.
Describe the first step, and then let HER think about how she's
going to subtly stick her tail section out as you "help her"...just
enough for you to know what's going on.
Go ahead and give her some credit. She'll already be thinking
about both of you on TOP of the pool table.
So there you have it. Go and use those three tips to meet some
women online tonight.
And if you're more convinced than ever there's plenty more where
that came from in Online Dating Domination 3.0, you're 100%
correct.
I encourage you to make good use of that 50% off coupon code
while the gettin' is good:
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Be Good,
Scot McKay
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