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IN THIS EDITION: What kind of women do you believe are out there?
Be careful how you answer and make sure you're well informed
before drawing conclusions, because a shocking truth awaits...

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THE ALMIGHTY "NOW"


Why do we "settle"?

I mean, who wants to end up with someone who isn't
really who you always dreamed of?

Yes, it often comes down to low self-esteem.

But it's often also about rationalizing the end to some
kind of fear-based issue we're feeling NOW.

For example, "Somebody is better than nobody".

Or, "If we only had two incomes around here, I'd be
out of a serious bind."

But once the pain subsides, the decision to be with
someone who is ultimately WRONG for you remains.

Long-term, that's WAY worse than whatever you
were fearing in the moment months, years or
decades before.

Gentlemen, we've GOT to plan for the future.

We've GOT to get our ducks in a row NOW, or else
a whole world of hurt awaits down the road.

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THE "BACHELOR HERD"?


The other day I was visiting a particularly well- traveled forum in
the men's dating advice world when several posts caught my eye.

All centered around a common theme:  How all women---especially
American ones (according to American guys, of course)--were
basically lying manipulators who'll cuckold you and take all your
money someday.

This group of guys was part of the "Men Going Their Own Way",
which is a well-known echo chamber by now.

It was like a train wreck.  I didn't want to look, but I couldn't
help myself.  And the more I read, the clearer the picture became.

To say these guys were a little...um...bitter was an understatement.

Unfortunately, the threads continued for pages and pages, all in
a chorus of high-fives and hand pounds.

There was not one dissenting viewpoint represented.

It was then that it occurred to me...and a chill went up my spine.

All the guys who would potentially disagree weren't
hanging out in that forum complaining.  

They were too busy out enjoying the company of great
women.  

Men all over the place are getting exactly what they prepare for
from women.  

Rest assured, there are plenty of women out there who are warm,
generous, playful, fun, virtuous and--yes--faithful AND beautiful.

Some even have their own six-figure incomes and don't really need
your money.  Seriously.  Most are great in bed too (because
they deserve to be).  

Can you believe that?

Or, like the #MGTOW do you think that I'm a naïve dreamer
who's kidding himself?  

Following that line of logic, do you also think Emily is less than
genuine?  

Are friends of mine who have, like me, dated hundreds of women
each only to ultimately select one great woman all fooling
themselves and doomed to life in "The Matrix"?

Well, whatever lets you sleep at night.

Except if this indeed describes your mindset,  I'd bet it's really
keeping you awake at night.

After all, what if it's all true?  

What if there really ARE great women out there?  Deep down you
probably know there are indeed.  What you may not know is that
there is far, far less competition to ultimately win their hearts
than you think.

Here it is:  You really are attracting into your life exactly the kind
of woman you expect to meet...whatever she's like.

This really isn't a "Law Of Attraction" thing either, necessarily.

In reality, it's all about leadership.

Lookit.  If you have no respect for women and believe they are
generally selfish, manipulative, morally bereft beings who are only
good for the purpose of sexual release, then so be it.  

That's your choice. And if so, you deserve what you want.

You'll continue to meet a steady stream of women who tend to
believe that "all men are dogs", that you "only want one thing" and
that you're inherently untrustworthy and must be tapped of your
natural resources before you spend everything on gambling and
"gentleman's clubs".

You'll grow more frustrated by man haters in equal measure with
the disdain you express for them.

But the truth remains true whether it's acknowledged or not.  

There indeed ARE great women out there who respect and actually
LIKE men, and want to be good to us.

But a woman like that is not about to get mixed up with a guy who
doesn't believe she exists.  

This is an "equal opportunity" principle, too.

No man who respects women and has mastered the art of igniting
femininity is going to put up with a woman who hates men.  

That's because he has reserved the right not to have to.

The most breathtaking part of this whole scenario is how focused
one's tunnel vision can become in a very short amount of time.

Sooner than later, if you choose to believe that all MOTOS
(Members Of The Other Sex) are bad news you are going to b
one lonely dude...and a sexually frustrated one, too, for that
matter.  

All because your core belief will have become, in a very real way,
your reality.

Then...you'll gravitate toward the "bachelor herd" of #MGTOW,
not unlike what happens with males in other mammalian species
who have lost the privilege of mating with the females.

Demented and sad, isn't it?  I mean, hasn't homo sapiens
evolved to a higher level of social intelligence than that?

So why doesn't everyone--man or woman--wake up to what's going
on?

The answer is a simple one.  Blame is the path of least resistance.
 
Were someone to believe that there were MOTOS out there who did
indeed live up to a higher standard, he or she would have to look
squarely in the mirror.  

And that, friends and neighbors, is often more painful to bear than
the loneliness of a world where all MOTOS are pretty much the
enemy.

Or is it?  Who knows for sure?  It seems like many of us are too
lazy to test the premise...at all.  

Complaining is a lot easier than deserving what you want. 

If so, don't be surprised when (you guessed it) it's only the
complainers and those who are like-minded keeping each other
company on the forums.  

Their female counterparts will be over on those daytime talk
shows cackling and ranting about how terrible men are.  

Here it is:  "Men going their own way" are followers.  They're
reacting to angry women rather than proactively leading as men
of strength and character.

In essence, they're actively (and in many cases proudly) portraying
the exact opposite of what it means to be a man.

They're following the lead of women...and the women who hate
them, no less.

Yeah well, don't be that guy.  Losing hope and becoming a follower
is not automatic.  You can choose NOT to fall for the hype.  

Do you have the guts as a man to step up and claim leadership over
your right to deserve great women in your life?

If so, you are already further along the path to deserving the highest
echelon of women on Earth than most men, shockingly enough.   

If NOT, then you'll keep on gettin' what you've always gotten...
whatever type of woman that is.

You'll have to excuse me now.  Emily is telling me she has a cold
beer and a "pleasant surprise" for me.

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