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WHAT'S INSIDE: She's ready and willing to get frisky with
you...sooner than you ever thought. Now what?

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6 IMPORTANT STEPS WHEN SHE'S READY TO HAVE SEX
WITH YOU


I've sensed the need to write about the subject of today's newsletter
for quite some time, yet I've been reticent to because I don't believe in
being "sex focused". 

Ultimately, being on a desperate mission to bed a woman as soon as
possible after meeting her is a newbie mindset.

Truth:  Guys who are trying to "get laid" tend to be the least laid
guys I know.  I've said that before, and it's true. 

But that doesn't keep most of us from dreaming of that shining moment
when some sexy little vixen grabs us by the shirt collar very early
in the relationship and wonders aloud, "How long are you going to
make me wait?"

But here's what's arguably the cruelest irony in the dating world.

If and when that actually happens, most guys freak out and fall into
"epic fail" mode.

Crazy, huh?  That's why deep down I know this newsletter needs to
be written.

Sometimes a woman really will make it clear that she's horny for
you and ready to act on it.

And yes, that CAN happen as soon as the first time you ever meet
her.

You asked for it, you got it...but many of you have no idea what to
DO with it.

So more often than not for the uninitiated, the moment is doused
with cold water...often followed by mutual embarrassment and a door
slammed loudly on the way out.

If you find all of this inherently horrifying, rest assured that I've got
six excellent ways to keep your head about you when all about you
would probably lose theirs, as Rudyard Kipling once famously put it.



1)  Realize She's Dead Serious


If a woman makes it clear she's sexually willing, she means it. 
It's for real, and it's not "too good to be true".

Now you just have to talk yourself into believing that, regardless
of how preposterous the notion has become after years of NOT
observing any occurrence of it in the wild.

In today's world if you're masculine in the way a woman defines it
AND make her feel safe and comfortable in your presence you're
going to get acquainted very quickly with the reality that plenty
of women want sex early and often.

Don't worry, if you're generally dealing with normal women who
you're meeting in normal ways, any fear that she's going to turn
out to be a prostitute and demand money from you afterwards is
probably unfounded.  Relax.



2)  She's Going To Want This To Seem Like It's All Your Idea


Mark this.  Right when you suspend your disbelief that this is
really happening and get to the part where you start peeling each
other's clothes off, she's probably going to place her sexy little
lady-paws on your chest, look up at you with a doe-eyed gaze and
say, "Are we really going to do this?"

At that point you might say, "Uh...no, no...actually we don't have
to if you don't want to."

Or...you'll confidently announce, "Yes.  We absolutely ARE going to
do this."

Either way, she'll follow your lead...feeling either just a little
bit dirty and embarrassed if you chose the former strategy, OR
completely validated and off the hook for appearing "forward" in
her own mind if you chose the latter.

Take responsibility and lead like a man.


   
3)  Validate Her With Your Words


It's helpful if you keep your composure as opposed to seeming
completely overwhelmed.  That's an understatement.

Treat the situation itself as a "matter of fact" occurrence, even
as you treat HER to being admired in a much more overtly tangible
way.

Validate her beauty, her sexiness AND her decision to get physical
with you.  Don't make fun of what she's doing, how soon she's doing
it or how she looks naked.

Whatever you do, avoid judging her.  It's not a good idea to blurt
out that she's the only woman who's ever thrown herself at you like
that, that you're not sure this should be happening, or anything
similar.



4)  Don't Judge Her Silently, Either


The most breathtaking irony of actually getting sexual with a woman
very early on is that most guys, despite having hoped it would happen,
end up thinking less of her because of it.

Most women have already figured out how this dynamic works, which
is a major reason why they often wait extra-long before having sex
with guys they're attracted to.

The crazy part is if you have it in your mind that a woman who enjoys
sex is a "slut" or somehow degraded by her sexual openness, she's
going to sense it.

Many guys--especially those who fall into the dreaded "analysis
paralysis" loop rather easily (if not habitually)--have such judgmental
thoughts written all over their faces.

The truth is that women have a right to be sexual as much as you
do, despite their gender.  It's time to check that "Madonna/Whore
Complex" at the door.



5)  It's Fully Possible That You Really Do Have A Primal Effect On
Women That Other Guys Can't Match


The first negative thought that creeps into many guys' heads when a
woman is "fast" sexually is, "Wait a minute...if she's doing this
with me, how many other guys has she done this with?"

OK well, see "Madonna/Whore Complex" above.

But that aside, imagine how relaxed you'd feel by comparison if you
could honestly believe that you--yes YOU--really did inspire this
woman to lose her willpower and inhibitions because she just flat-out
hasn't felt what she's feeling all that often...if EVER.

Yes, women have a penchant for saying things like, "Oh wow, I never
do this" or "I can't believe this is happening...it never happens" as a
sort of protection mechanism.

But when you've inspired uncontrollable horniness in a woman who
typically takes her sweet time getting physical in a relationship,
you'll know the difference.

There's usually a nervous energy there and a sense of reckless
abandon in the name of emotional overflow that's unmistakable. 

Considering most mortals just aren't potential Academy Award
winners, you can trust your gut feeling here most of the time.



6)  Realize Up Front That You Don't Have To Do This


Recognize the simple fact that sometimes sex really shouldn't
happen so fast.  It may fall onto you to make the right decision,
which you have every right to make.

If you know her beliefs generally prohibit her from engaging in
non-marital sexual activity, understand that if she breaks her
moral code there's going to be inevitable consternation involved
sooner than later. 

Similarly, if she's married (including "separated"), if you think she's
getting too emotionally involved too quickly, if you don't have
condoms and/or you sense she's interested in getting pregnant
by you you've got to be man enough to pull the plug on the
"chemistry lab".

Again, keeping your head in the moment is a sign of maturity and
will thereby serve you well in making good, solid decisions.  

You don't have to blow her away by saying anything harsh.  Tell
her you're just as turned on as she is, and then simply state the
practical case for showing some restraint for now.



File those half-dozen ideas away securely, gentlemen.  The more of
a "big four" man you become, the more likely you are to need
them...possibly as soon as tonight.

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