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WHAT'S INSIDE: Here is a simple and practical
way to make her feel more comfortable with you
from the very start...which always leads to GREAT
things.

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YES, A LOT HAS CHANGED. BUT IT HAS
CHANGED FOR EVERYBODY


It has always been said that the one constant
is CHANGE.

But when it comes to what has changed about
how men and women relate, the speed and extent
to which everything has changed is so frustrating
that all most men can do is laugh.

But you laugh differently when you understand
what is going on...and what to DO about it.

That's the kind of power tomorrow night's
Masterclass For Men is going to give you:



Tomorrow Night: What Has Changed



Weirdly, the changes--especially in recent years--
have affected EVERYONE, yet most guys tend to
feel like they're the ONLY one out there who's
left scratching their head.

After all, who exactly ASKED for all of this?

Dating sites and apps are more frustrating
than ever. So how are you supposed to meet
women?

Speaking of which, we keep hearing how
women are all looking for a "movie moment",
but walk around looking and acting like they
don't want to be bothered.

I mean, we're in a "pandemic of loneliness"
here, and at least on the surface women seem
to LIKE it that way.

If you DO get a woman's number, do you have
to fall for the "text trap", or do you dare to
actually CALL her?

Nowadays it's more likely she just gave
you her Instagram and asked you to "follow"
her.

And have you noticed that even though old
worn-out PUA tactics are LONG gone, nobody
has ever given you anything to REPLACE them
with? What's up with that?

As far as sex goes, is this still "hookup
culture", or are you going to get in trouble
for even expressing sexual interest?

Even how people HAVE sex has changed. Are
you in on the secrets there?

And what's the "end game", anyway? Fewer
people see the point of relationships at all, let
alone marriage or having kids.

These days, many of the so-called "women" out
there might not even be REAL.

All of this just scratches the surface, of
course.

In tomorrow night's Masterclass For Men
we'll cover just about every area of change
that you can think of, insofar as it affects
YOUR success with women:



Tomorrow Night: What Has Changed



This Masterclass For Men is guaranteed
to clear up what so many men are so
frustrated by nowadays.

And if you're just getting back out there
after a divorce or breakup, this Masterclass
is an absolute MUST.

After all, not only is it mission-critical
to decode what has CHANGED, where you
REALLY claim victory is when you know
what HASN'T changed.

Nail even SOME of this down and you'll
captivate women in ways they are practically
STARVING for nowadays.

Seriously...women themselves don't even know
what they're missing out on...until YOU
navigate both the societal changes AND her
her timeless, primal needs like a CHAMPION.

If you're not excited about the possibilities
that are hiding in plain sight for you by
now, you might want to check your pulse.

Find out everything that will be covered,
grab your ticket, and join us tomorrow night:



Tomorrow Night: What Has Changed



As a special bonus, I'm ALSO going
to give you BOTH of my most recent audio
programs, Women And AI and "Yes, And..."
because they're so relevant to the conversation.

As always, if you can't make it tomorrow
night, that's no problem at all. The complete
Download Portal will be there for you the
next day, as you've come to expect.



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DO THIS AND SHE'LL FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE WITH
YOU IMMEDIATELY


"It's like we've known each other for TEN YEARS, not TEN
MINUTES."


Those are the magic words indicating a woman is completely
comfortable in your presence.

As we've talked about before, a major linchpin of the "big four"
along with confidence, masculinity and character is the ability to
cause a woman to feel safe and comfortable in your presence,
aka "inspiring confidence".

If she's attracted to you but doesn't feel safe around you she
won't answer your phone calls and/or actually go out with you,
despite any signals she sends that she likes you.

Women are "security seeking creatures".

They are more circumspect when it comes to potential for
physical harm than we are. It's amazing how many women live
their lives in fear.

When in doubt, we should err on the side of helping a woman
feel safe and comfortable...from the very moment we meet her.

There's not really a "stage", as some PUAs suggest, during
any particular interaction with a woman that you "build comfort".

It has to be in effect from the very first second and remain
throughout your entire relationship with her.

Now obviously, when starting a conversation with a woman you
want to get her to talk about herself rather than doing all the
talking, especially if you end up going on and on to her about
yourself. We've covered that extensively in the past.

Here is a golden strategy when making conversation with a
woman to help her feel more comfortable with you.

It's simple but magical, easy to remember, and will transform
your fortunes with women.

When getting a woman to talk about herself be sure to
avoid "why" questions, especially in response to something
she says she did or something she prefers.

Whenever we ask someone "why" they did something or
prefer something or have a certain opinion on something it
comes off as if we're questioning their judgment or even
belittling them for it.


Examples:


Her:  "Well, I work for Insurance Company X."

You:  "Why did you choose to work there?"


Or...


Her:  "I drive a little Volkswagen Beetle."

You:  "Why would you drive one of those?"


"Why" questions put someone on the defensive.  That's
NEVER a secure feeling.

The worst part about a "why" question is it signals potential
confrontation and/or "silent" judgment.

Since the perception you're thinking negatively about her is
"under the radar" and as yet unspoken, the net negative
impact on her comfort level with you is actually WORSE than
if you had told her you thought her job or her car were terrible.

Ironic, isn't it? After all, most of us don't intend to come off
that way. In our mind, we're just asking open-ended
questions and making all the right moves.

Contrast the vibe surrounding "why" questions with that
created by simple teasing, which doesn't come off as
confrontational.

This is because she knows where you stand and presumes
you're purposefully bantering with her for the sake of pure
playfulness.


Examples:


Her:  "Well, I work for Insurance Company X."

You:  "That's a shame. Company Y is who I go with, so now
you can't get me an extra discount using your feminine charm."


Or...


Her:  "I drive a little Volkswagen Beetle."

You:  "Oh geez...what a GIRL car. I bet you'll even trade it in for
a minivan someday when you have a bunch of babies."


If teasing banter isn't really a part of your personality, no
worries.  You can focus instead on asking "what" or "how"
questions instead of "why" questions:


Examples:


Her:  "Well I work for Insurance Company X."

You:  "Really? What exciting superhuman heroics do you
perform on the job all day?"


Or...


Her:  "I drive a little Volkswagen Beetle."

You:  "No kidding? How do those things handle on the
racetrack? I would think if you drift it too hard around the
corner the daisies would fly out of the vase on the
dashboard."


OK, OK...obviously, I've got too much "teasing banter" in my
DNA to leave well enough alone.

But note how "what" and "how" questions indicate more of a
curious intrigue on your part than signaling imminent
confrontation like "why" questions do.

It's all about her emotional response to the nature of the
conversation YOU are leading.

If she feels she genuinely intrigues you, she'll feel MORE
comfortable with you.

Contrast that with what she'd feel if you were to challenge
her in a confrontational way with "why" questions.

If you are a masculine "big four" man who creates attraction by
your very presence (tone of voice, how you carry yourself, being
relaxed, etc.) then using "what" or "how" questions instead of
"why" questions will be like pure catnip to women.

Finding a man who actually cares about who she is and what
she is into in addition to what she looks like is every beautiful
woman's dream.

Note that I've not mentioned gushing compliments her way or
interjecting "sexual innuendo" into the conversation.

I solemnly promise your masculine presence PLUS simple
intrigue--even free of any focus on sexual themes--WILL
intrigue her in return.

After all, she's following your lead. Deserve what you want.

Sexual interest will follow soon enough, and likely WAY sooner
than if you forced the issue.

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