[X&Y] How Does She Get Away With That Stuff?

Published: Tue, 09/17/24

Updated: Tue, 09/17/24

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IN THIS EDITION: Why is it that we let women pretty much get
away with ANYTHING...as long as we're sexually attracted to them?

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HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED IF IT'S A "BODY LANGUAGE"
THING?

I get calls and e-mails from guys who are really concerned that
it's their body language that's holding them back from real
success with women.

How they carry themselves clearly isn't working.

In other words, they're convinced that they MUST be sending some
non-verbal signals to women that destroy attraction or even creep
women out...before they even talk to them.

Well, check it out. Based on what I've seen, you can read all
the books on body language and/or semiotics that you want, but
NOTHING is going to get you focused results with women like what
X & Y Communications coaches Rob Brinded and James Knight are
teaching:

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This is not the same old take on the same old-school body
language teachings you've already read over and over again.

What's going on here is revolutionary--and it's coming from
two guys who've had billionaires and high-profile pro athletes
come to them in order to get their own ducks in a row.

These guys is the REAL DEAL, and since I first introduced them
(and their WEIRD discoveries) to you I've gotten nothing but
phenomenally positive feedback from you.

So much so that Rob and James are team members here at
X & Y Communications.

That's because what they'll show you works automatically
within your physique...completely unconsciously. You don't
have to do (or memorize) anything at all.

It works POWERFULLY, and it works QUICKLY (all for a mere
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for private coaching):

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If you somehow haven't had a chance to look yet, prepare to be
left slack jawed by what you're about to see.

Just to prove how mission critical this is for every man to get
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You know what? I'll also give you Massage Your Date as part
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This will go for the next 48 hours only.

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HOW DOES SHE GET AWAY WITH THAT STUFF?

Hi Scot, well I'm just giving this a try and see how it goes.

I've dated some girls, not a lot like the amount you guys talk
about, but enough to kind of know what I want.

I'm 32 years old, consider myself a good-looking guy, funny, caring,
smart, athletic, and many more attributes.

My friends tell me I'm such a waste, cause they see that I could
attract a lot more women than I do, but approaches are tough for
me.

Anyway I was starting to go out with a couple of girls, with no
interest of dating anyone long term.

But then one showed up. This one was not like the others.

She had something that just captivated my attention like no other
girl I've ever dated.

I felt very strongly about her and this was really strange for me.

So I asked her out, had a great time, then again and again, and as
time passed I just fell in love with her.

She was everything I was looking for, like the famous "this is the
one" type, but there was something weird every time we'd go out we
had a great time, but at the end she behaved kind of defensively.

So I thought it was 'cause she works as a model, she has to be sure
I was serious about her. So I told her that she could trust me, and
I wasn't going to play with her.

And then she told me she was on this long distance relationship
with some other dude.

I know he's not right for her based on some stuff she told me, but
she said that she didn't want to tell me about him 'cause she was
really interested in knowing me.

But she couldn't finish her relationship with the other guy 'cause
of all the time, and bla bla bla, all this crap that she really
didn't tell straight out what it was.

So I thought "no big deal", I'll pull the big guns and she'll see
the big difference.

So I did all the things I learned from your stuff and other
material, and she kept going out with me, having a great time,
being very comfortable with me until the end of the date or the
time we'd spend together.

And every time I tried to kiss her or get closer she pulled away
and became kind of cold.

I started to feel a little like I was in Groundhog Day, or 50 First
Dates...great start, great date and really crappy finish.

Now any other girl I would of just said "screw this and move to the
next".

The problem with this one is I feel we are so perfect for one
another for the long run so I can't get myself to blow her off.

At the same time I can't take it anymore, but her porcupine
attitude (you know soft on one side and on the other...ouch) is
driving me crazy.

Any words of wisdom and experience?

Sven (Sweden)

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Hello Sven:

First of all, glad you are enjoying the material and that it has
helped you. We love hearing that.

Now, let's get down to business.

As David DeAngelo once said, you're going to have to "give her the
gift of missing you". That is right on point in this situation.

As difficult as it sounds, you are going to need to tell this woman
that you are not going to stand in the way of her relationship with
her "boyfriend" anymore.

Then, you let go. Seriously. No kidding.

Am I crazy to tell you this? Not at all. Here's why.

Right now she gets to "have her cake and eat it too".

She gets her long-distance boyfriend PLUS someone to hang out with
locally.

So you end up being the "sexless boyfriend", which is like being the
"JBF" that she actually *does* want to be friends with...odd as that
sounds.

You can get what you want out of this situation, but you have got
to be a MAN first and tell her you will not put up with the
duplicity.

Ironically enough, that display of leadership and strength may be
exactly what she has been looking for to feel confident choosing
you instead of the other guy...once and for all.

She needs to know you WANT this, but also that you will also not
put up with the current situation.

Yes, you're making it easier for HER to choose you, but you're also
indicating that YOU are a chooser as well. That's going to be a new

and welcome situation for her to find herself in.

So then, think about it. Who would you REALLY rather be in this
situation, you or the other guy?

Believe me...he's a lot more concerned about you than you are
him.

Two caveats, however.

First, I'm also assuming that the LDR she's in is non-exclusive by
design. Otherwise she's a cheater. Run away.

Second, I'm also assuming that you're not exactly spending a ton
of money on her. If she's getting a "meal ticket" from you here,
then you need to turn off the spigot and see if she still sticks
around.

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