[X&Y] First Meetings Vs. First Dates
Published: Sun, 09/22/24
Updated: Sun, 09/22/24
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WHAT'S INSIDE: What is the REAL secret
behind "first meetings" vs. "first dates"?
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MASTERCLASS FOR MEN: ALL THE UNFAIR
ADVANTAGES
Wednesday, 25th September @8pm EDT (GMT -4)
https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/mc-september-2024
Now more than ever, I'm amazed by what
people are led to believe.
But I shouldn't be surprised.
Reading the same headline over and
over has been proven to influence how
people perceive "truth".
When it comes to men attracting women,
by FAR the biggest example is:
"Only tall, rich men with 6-pack abs
who look like Brad Pitt get women."
(Have you ever noticed it's always Brad
Pitt who gets singled out? Weird.)
After hearing that a few hundred
times, most of us as men basically
assume we have to win the "genetic
lottery" to have any chance with
the women we really desire.
But like in most other areas where
media mind control is a factor, a
little critical thinking skill goes
a LONG way.
For example, let's say you're indeed
a rich man. You "get women" because
of the $$$ by your name.
But YOU didn't get the girl. Your
MONEY did.
There are countless examples of how
unfulfilling that is, and how badly
it ends.
Tall guys? Handsome guys? "Buff" guys?
I can tell you from over 18 years of
experience that MANY are DATELESS.
Meanwhile, all you have to do is look
around. There are LOTS and LOTS of
"normal" guys with AMAZING women.
What's more, their WAGs absolutely
ADORE them.
How did SO MANY men "beat the system"
like that?
This month's LONG overdue Masterclass
For Men will reveal over 42 "hidden"
advantages that "normal" guys have
over even the "genetic lottery winners":
MASTERCLASS FOR MEN: ALL THE UNFAIR
ADVANTAGES
Wednesday, 25th September @8pm EDT (GMT -4)
https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/mc-september-2024
If you've connected the dots here, you
already realize that the secrets I'm
revealing in this Masterclass are
mission-critical...even if you did win
the "genetic lottery".
You don't have to master all 42 of them.
It only takes a few of them to start
enjoying a MASSIVE and VERY REAL
edge over most other men out there.
When you start captivating women's
attention more powerfully and more
often than before, THAT'S when you'll
realize exactly how life-changing
this Masterclass truly was.
Get your ticket here, and lift the veil
on 42 "hidden" advantages most men
will never figure out on their own:
MASTERCLASS FOR MEN: ALL THE UNFAIR
ADVANTAGES
Wednesday, 25th September @8pm EDT (GMT -4)
https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/mc-september-2024
Can't make it live on Wednesday night?
No worries...there will be a fully-stocked
Download Portal there for you shortly
after the event.
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Assuming there ARE differences between a "first meeting" and a
"first date", what are they?
For all intents and purposes here, we'll treat the term "first
date" as referring to an event where both the man and the woman
KNOW there's a romantic spark going on.
A "first meeting", on the other hand, is a meeting between a man
and a woman where any romantic intent is still undecided, or at
the very least hasn't been verbally clarified yet.
For example, if you ask out someone you work with, she's
going to know you're interested in her, and you can safely
guess she's at least potentially interested in you.
After all, you've already MET each other before.
But if you've been e-mailing some chick online back and forth
and finally pull the trigger on seeing what she's like in person,
THAT get-together would be a "first meeting".
In that case you're actually MEETING for the FIRST time.
Fair enough?
Okay, then.
On the surface, you might imagine it would universally ROCK
to be on a "first date" rather than a "first meeting". After all,
the intentions are out on the table.
But not so fast.
Here are two compelling reasons why "first meetings" might
result in GREATER OVERALL DATING SUCCESS because,
perhaps ironically, they can actually lead to BETTER "first
dates":
Sure, someone you've never met before could have completely
misrepresented herself, resulting in an awkward situation when
you're finally face-to-face.
But let's assume things go well.
Because you had never met the woman before, you correctly
planned a brief, inexpensive meeting just to pre-evaluate each
other.
You know, a morning rendezvous at Starbucks for 30 minutes
before you both had to go to work, for example.
Short and sweet...with a hard stop.
Since things went well, you KNOW already that there's attraction.
When you say you want to see her again and she agrees, you've
immediately got something to LOOK FORWARD TO.
And compared to the situation when two people who've KNOWN each
other for a while (or even a little while, for that matter) go on a
"first date", this is ALL BRAND NEW.
The particularly intense "anticipatory energy" that ensues all but
ensures that your actual "first date" will be practically ELECTRIC.
She'll be like a little kid at Christmastime counting down the
minutes.
That doesn't suck.
OK, here's where the "ninja genius" of going on a "first date"
AFTER going through the motions of a "first meeting" really grabs a
hold of your collar and shakes you.
Check it out. Since you've ALREADY agreed to see each other again,
you KNOW there's some mutual attraction there.
As such, the dreaded "first date pressure" is completely in the
rear-view mirror (or should be, at least).
You can actually plan something somewhat "date-ish" (e.g. ice
skating, not "Morton's - The Steakhouse") with confidence, pretty
much assured that a TOTAL disaster is likely not looming ahead.
Oh, and by the way...psychologically, such a "first date" will FEEL
like a "second date". It's as if the whole "first date" ritual
was BYPASSED completely.
This means, among other things, that if she doesn't usually "kiss
on the first date", she might kiss you on THIS one after all. Get
the idea?
So let's sum this up.
When you go out with someone you know socially already, you've got
to make sure you get all aspects of a full-on "first date" down
pat. That can involve a lot of pressure...if you let it.
But when you DON'T know someone very well, you should have a "get
to know you meeting" first. In that context, brevity and the low
cost factor aren't only acceptable, they're EXPECTED.
So in that "first meeting" scenario, you get the uncomfortable
(i.e. bad) aspects usually associated with a "first date" out of
the way QUICKLY and WITHOUT HASSLE.
Then, you're ACTUAL "first date" with that person is highly
anticipated but pressure-free (i.e. good). Let the "fireworks"
begin.
Outstanding. Chalk one up for online dating.
=====
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behind "first meetings" vs. "first dates"?
=====
MASTERCLASS FOR MEN: ALL THE UNFAIR
ADVANTAGES
Wednesday, 25th September @8pm EDT (GMT -4)
https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/mc-september-2024
Now more than ever, I'm amazed by what
people are led to believe.
But I shouldn't be surprised.
Reading the same headline over and
over has been proven to influence how
people perceive "truth".
When it comes to men attracting women,
by FAR the biggest example is:
"Only tall, rich men with 6-pack abs
who look like Brad Pitt get women."
(Have you ever noticed it's always Brad
Pitt who gets singled out? Weird.)
After hearing that a few hundred
times, most of us as men basically
assume we have to win the "genetic
lottery" to have any chance with
the women we really desire.
But like in most other areas where
media mind control is a factor, a
little critical thinking skill goes
a LONG way.
For example, let's say you're indeed
a rich man. You "get women" because
of the $$$ by your name.
But YOU didn't get the girl. Your
MONEY did.
There are countless examples of how
unfulfilling that is, and how badly
it ends.
Tall guys? Handsome guys? "Buff" guys?
I can tell you from over 18 years of
experience that MANY are DATELESS.
Meanwhile, all you have to do is look
around. There are LOTS and LOTS of
"normal" guys with AMAZING women.
What's more, their WAGs absolutely
ADORE them.
How did SO MANY men "beat the system"
like that?
This month's LONG overdue Masterclass
For Men will reveal over 42 "hidden"
advantages that "normal" guys have
over even the "genetic lottery winners":
MASTERCLASS FOR MEN: ALL THE UNFAIR
ADVANTAGES
Wednesday, 25th September @8pm EDT (GMT -4)
https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/mc-september-2024
If you've connected the dots here, you
already realize that the secrets I'm
revealing in this Masterclass are
mission-critical...even if you did win
the "genetic lottery".
You don't have to master all 42 of them.
It only takes a few of them to start
enjoying a MASSIVE and VERY REAL
edge over most other men out there.
When you start captivating women's
attention more powerfully and more
often than before, THAT'S when you'll
realize exactly how life-changing
this Masterclass truly was.
Get your ticket here, and lift the veil
on 42 "hidden" advantages most men
will never figure out on their own:
MASTERCLASS FOR MEN: ALL THE UNFAIR
ADVANTAGES
Wednesday, 25th September @8pm EDT (GMT -4)
https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/mc-september-2024
Can't make it live on Wednesday night?
No worries...there will be a fully-stocked
Download Portal there for you shortly
after the event.
=====
FIRST MEETINGS VS. FIRST DATES
Assuming there ARE differences between a "first meeting" and a
"first date", what are they?
For all intents and purposes here, we'll treat the term "first
date" as referring to an event where both the man and the woman
KNOW there's a romantic spark going on.
A "first meeting", on the other hand, is a meeting between a man
and a woman where any romantic intent is still undecided, or at
the very least hasn't been verbally clarified yet.
For example, if you ask out someone you work with, she's
going to know you're interested in her, and you can safely
guess she's at least potentially interested in you.
After all, you've already MET each other before.
But if you've been e-mailing some chick online back and forth
and finally pull the trigger on seeing what she's like in person,
THAT get-together would be a "first meeting".
In that case you're actually MEETING for the FIRST time.
Fair enough?
Okay, then.
On the surface, you might imagine it would universally ROCK
to be on a "first date" rather than a "first meeting". After all,
the intentions are out on the table.
But not so fast.
Here are two compelling reasons why "first meetings" might
result in GREATER OVERALL DATING SUCCESS because,
perhaps ironically, they can actually lead to BETTER "first
dates":
1) You Create An Extra Level Of Anticipatory Energy
Sure, someone you've never met before could have completely
misrepresented herself, resulting in an awkward situation when
you're finally face-to-face.
But let's assume things go well.
Because you had never met the woman before, you correctly
planned a brief, inexpensive meeting just to pre-evaluate each
other.
You know, a morning rendezvous at Starbucks for 30 minutes
before you both had to go to work, for example.
Short and sweet...with a hard stop.
Since things went well, you KNOW already that there's attraction.
When you say you want to see her again and she agrees, you've
immediately got something to LOOK FORWARD TO.
And compared to the situation when two people who've KNOWN each
other for a while (or even a little while, for that matter) go on a
"first date", this is ALL BRAND NEW.
The particularly intense "anticipatory energy" that ensues all but
ensures that your actual "first date" will be practically ELECTRIC.
She'll be like a little kid at Christmastime counting down the
minutes.
That doesn't suck.
2) The Pressure Is Off The Table
OK, here's where the "ninja genius" of going on a "first date"
AFTER going through the motions of a "first meeting" really grabs a
hold of your collar and shakes you.
Check it out. Since you've ALREADY agreed to see each other again,
you KNOW there's some mutual attraction there.
As such, the dreaded "first date pressure" is completely in the
rear-view mirror (or should be, at least).
You can actually plan something somewhat "date-ish" (e.g. ice
skating, not "Morton's - The Steakhouse") with confidence, pretty
much assured that a TOTAL disaster is likely not looming ahead.
Oh, and by the way...psychologically, such a "first date" will FEEL
like a "second date". It's as if the whole "first date" ritual
was BYPASSED completely.
This means, among other things, that if she doesn't usually "kiss
on the first date", she might kiss you on THIS one after all. Get
the idea?
So let's sum this up.
When you go out with someone you know socially already, you've got
to make sure you get all aspects of a full-on "first date" down
pat. That can involve a lot of pressure...if you let it.
But when you DON'T know someone very well, you should have a "get
to know you meeting" first. In that context, brevity and the low
cost factor aren't only acceptable, they're EXPECTED.
So in that "first meeting" scenario, you get the uncomfortable
(i.e. bad) aspects usually associated with a "first date" out of
the way QUICKLY and WITHOUT HASSLE.
Then, you're ACTUAL "first date" with that person is highly
anticipated but pressure-free (i.e. good). Let the "fireworks"
begin.
Outstanding. Chalk one up for online dating.
=====
(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2024. All Rights Reserved.
Forward this newsletter to a friend, and help
build this worldwide movement of over 100,000
men reclaiming their masculinity, standing as a
positive role model and deserving the high
quality women we want.
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