[X&Y] If THIS Doesn't Motivate You To Meet More Women, NOTHING Will...

Published: Sat, 07/13/24

Updated: Sat, 07/13/24

 
 
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IN THIS EDITION:  Here's one key example of an unforgettable
experience of the kind you'll wish NEVER happened.  Don't be that
guy...
 
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THE #1 SEX QUESTION GUYS ASK


When it comes to sex, I'm asked one BIG question over and
OVER again.

It's not about size and it's not about stamina.  It IS, however, so
completely "not safe for work" that I can't really even discuss it
in this newsletter.

Fortunately, however, this guy is willing to throw it all out on
the table (literally) and give you the straight-up, no B.S. answer
you've been looking for:


 
#1 Sex Question All Guys Seem To Ask



Yes, it's on the borderline of being too much for this newsletter. 

But it's also something that will get women addicted to you.

Best of all, hardly any men at all even know it's possible, let
alone how to make it happen.  

Enough talk...see for yourself:


 
#1 Sex Question All Guys Seem To Ask



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IF THIS DOESN'T MOTIVATE YOU TO MEET MORE WOMEN,
NOTHING WILL


A while back, a man named James met a woman he particularly
liked during a Ten-Plus Live weekend.

He was able to successfully continue the interaction with her
later on...and was thrilled about it.

But here's the thing.  At first, James had left that interaction without
getting her number. 

When the chips were down, he got what I call "second stage fear or
rejection" and bailed out of the conversation.

Ultimately, he didn't want to risk the warm-fuzzies of having had a
girl be nice to him.  Asking for her number would have done that.

After all, what if she denied him?  That would only feel as if he had
sort of postponed the "inevitable" rejection.

It's as if he convinced himself the "what if?" fantasy was somehow
better than finding out what the real potential there was.

I was left no other option than to ask him how honest he was being
with himself.

What would be more painful...knowing that he essentially wimped out
and let himself down or, well, anything that woman could say or do
to "reject" him?

The answer in his mind was a no-brainer, so he went back in there
and did the right thing...ultimately with positive results.

That next level of euphoria would never have happened had he not
made the RIGHT decision to believe in himself.

And hey, you know what?  Even if something socially catastrophic
had happened when asking the woman for her phone number (e.g. she
put him off in some extra-rude way), that wouldn't have been a big
deal in the long run.

At the very least, it wouldn't have been nearly as damaging as
"rejecting" one's SELF.

How do I know this?

Well, besides the repeated stories I've heard from guys
corroborating the whole phenomenon we're discussing here as legit,
I can actually relate to it myself.

Now granted, I know what it means to show respect and to honor a
woman's space without being creepy or weird.  

And of course, I know how to be charming.

All of that may have contributed to the simple reality that I
honestly, seriously cannot remember the last time I was summarily
"rejected" by a woman and forced to take the "walk of shame".

I'm not saying it's never happened.  

It's just that I can't REMEMBER the last time I left an interaction
with a woman without something positive having happened.  In other
words, IF it happened I must have gotten over it pretty quickly.

But here's where it gets weird.

I remember a certain little cutie at the county fair in Arizona who
seemed perfect for me.

I can tell you what she was wearing.  

She even had a tell-tale burn on the inside of her right calf that
surely indicated she LOVED riding on motorcycles.   

Yeah, I know...it's a little weird to find that attractive.  But hey,
that only means she must have been even MORE potentially perfect
for me, no?

And most of all, I remember completely BONKING at the line when it
came time to boldly walk up and meet her.  

I came up with a lame excuse, and the world will NEVER know what
could have come from it had I met her.

The memory of it all is still crystal clear, despite the fact that it
happened over twenty years ago.

And that wasn't an isolated incident, unfortunately.

One time I was flying back home through Houston on a Friday
afternoon.

Standing in line with me at the airline's customer service desk
during the brief layover was a devastatingly cute brunette who I
might have designed myself if I had the power to.

Our eyes met and she flashed me a warm, sexy and friendly smile so
bright that it burned a permanent imprint of itself into my memory.

Minutes later she was seated just several meters away in the
waiting lounge, where we both waited at least an hour.

She got on the same flight as I did, likely headed home to San
Antonio as well, seeing as how it was a Friday afternoon and she
was dressed in business attire.

After the flight landed she walked up the jetway directly in front
of me.

And time after time I backed off from introducing myself to her.  
 
That was fourteen years ago.  I still hadn't learned my lesson.

It's all rather depressing, isn't it?   

Well, having pretty much "crushed it" by comparison that fateful
morning I met Emily for the first time at IHOP, I can find it in
my heart to forgive myself for the peccadilloes of the past.

But believe me, I've met guys who've beaten themselves up so
hard over this very same sort of thing that it messes with their
heads (and their dating lives) for decades.

Gentlemen...take it from the voice of experience here.  Go and meet
that woman next time.  Not only does SHE want you gather the
stones to do it, deep down so do you.

Truly, there's nothing she can do to hurt you any more than the
haunting questions of "what might have been"...and those last
forever.

Nothing any woman can do to "reject" you will ever hurt more
than the pain of rejecting yourself.
 

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