[X&Y] Do This Within 30 Seconds Of Meeting A Woman
Published: Sat, 07/20/24
Updated: Sat, 07/20/24
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WHAT'S INSIDE: Here is something you can do during the first
thirty seconds of meeting a woman that is guaranteed todramatically increase the number of successful interactions you
have.
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HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED IF IT'S A BODY LANGUAGE
THING?
THING?
I get calls and e-mails from guys who are concerned their body
language is holding them back from real success with women.
They're convinced they must be sending some non-verbal signals
to women that send the wrong message or even creep them out.
It's as if some "hidden detractor" is blocking attraction before they
even get the chance to interact with women.
Nothing could be more frustrating, right?
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the books on body language and/or facial expressions that you
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This is not the same old take on the same old-school body
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What's going on here is revolutionary enough that I invited Rob
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DO THIS WITHIN THE FIRST 30 SECONDS OF MEETING A WOMAN
When you approach a woman, there's an uncomplicated strategy that
has to be the world's easiest way to make your very first
interaction with her go way better than it would have otherwise.
When you meet her, you simply do this: Split it in half.
First, get your mind out of the gutter. I'm not implying anything
overtly sexual here.
And don't worry, I'm not going to go on a rant about "going Dutch"
with women on dates either. You should know me better than that by
now.
So let's get to what I AM talking about.
You see, our first impulse when we see a woman we want to meet is
to think of what we want to say, and then rehearse is a few
(hundred) times.
From there, of course, we've got to be sure to remember that it's
just a conversation instead of a competition and actually gather
the stones to go talk to her.
Assuming we do so, if we're indeed expecting to be effective in
meeting a woman for the first time we'll generally say something
like, "Hey, my name is Scot. I saw you from the other side of the
room and knew I just had to meet you."
There's nothing particularly wrong with that plan.
Plenty of women all over the fruited plain would practically melt
if a great guy went about meeting her in that manner.
But you can do way better.
How?
Well, for starters, when it comes to the very first thing you say
to a woman, you guessed it: Split it in half.
Next time try this.
Walk up to her, introduce yourself...and STOP.
Resist every urge you have to finish the great opener you've
rehearsed.
Discipline yourself...and wait.
THEN, listen for her to tell you her name in return.
Maybe she indeed will. Or maybe she won't.
She might simply say, "Oh...hi" or something.
But either way, you've just increased your chances at getting
somewhere with her.
Why?
Well, let's assume for a brief moment she doesn't give you her name.
Fine.
Remember a couple of weeks ago when I shared with you how having
been taught "never to talk to strangers" has affected all of us as
a culture?
We never really unwire that habit once it's drilled into our heads
as kids, right?And subsequently, it's really easy for us to read that "deer in the
headlights" look when we break the silence with a stranger--
especially a sexy woman--as irritation, disdain or even disgust.
especially a sexy woman--as irritation, disdain or even disgust.
So we often throw in the towel right there, thinking she's already
NOT attracted, when all we have actually seen is a normal human
response to, well, having been "talked to by a stranger".
Since sharing that whole concept LOTS of you have told me
you've had real-world experiences that corroborate it.
The question then arises regarding how to deal with that.
Well, cutting how you plan to start your conversation in half
effectively creates a magical buffer zone for that initial (and
perfectly natural) "stranger shock" to happen in.And after she gathers herself and responds, you simply continue
with the rest.
I assure you that the second thing you say will be received by her
with FAR more comfort than the first.
As a result, you'll instinctively read her body language as more open
and you'll keep going forward where you may have wussed out in
the past.
Sweet.
But it gets better.
What's everyone's favorite word...including beautiful women?
Their own name.
So let's go back to the example, this time assuming she does
indeed give you her name.
Now you've been empowered in a way you couldn't have been
before...unless she had a name tag on, which you can't always count
on, obviously.
Then you continue with something to the effect of, "Well, I
couldn't help but notice you from across the room and wonder what
you were like. And I thought to myself that if I didn't go over
and meet Melissa, neither of our days would be as bright."
Money.
What you've accomplished is demonstrating potential interest
without telegraphing pre-approval.
You've simultaneously served notice that a MAN is in front of her--a
creature of the other sex.
All the while, though, you've put the onus on HER to impress YOU.
Not bad.
AND...she's already heard the sweet, intoxicating (and some would
even say hypnotic) sound of HER name on your lips.
I'm not kidding in the least when I tell you that once you've said
that much to Melissa, the "heavy lifting" is DONE.
See, I've been reading the e-mails you guys send me asking how to
project masculinity and confidence absolutely ASAP when meeting a
woman.
By taking your initial opener and "splitting it in half", you get
over the "talk to strangers" issue even as you seamlessly engage
her in a real conversation.
She hears her own name, further increasing her comfort level along
with her intrigue.
AND you get the message across that this is more of a potential
"movie moment" with a real man in her presence than a simple
request like, "Uh...what time is it?", etc.
From then on, you can act normally.
Seriously. All that's left is to have a conversation...on any inane
topic you'd like, really.
As always, if you can ask her open-ended questions to get her to
talk about herself, all the better.
But there's already no chance you'll be seen as neuter, and
you'll not have to worry about wrecking the moment because it's
already happened.Just talk to her from there like you would anyone else, see whether
or not you actually like her, then get her number and call her
later.
Uncomplicated...without the pressing need to prove your masculinity
to her any more, at least for now.That die was cast from the second line you ever spoke to her. From
there, both of you can truly relax and enjoy.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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