[X&Y] How To Know For Sure What Kind Of Woman You Want
Published: Sun, 07/21/24
Updated: Wed, 07/24/24
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WHAT'S INSIDE: When it comes to women, are you
absolutely SURE you know exactly what you WANT
and DON'T WANT? Here's a simple way to know.
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ALL THE RIGHT MOVES
It's been about fourteen years ago now since
I heard about Rob Brinded for the first time.
To be completely honest, I had no idea what
to think. He was saying some of the weirdest
things ever.
Apparently, he had been working as a trainer
for a British Premier League football club, his
specialty being human movement.
That's right. He has this rare and interesting
gift of being able to look at a guy and tell how
he might be able to play his sport better...just
by making adjustments to how he MOVES.
But here's the thing. Rob's unique skills are
equally, if not even MORE effective at helping
you become more attractive to women.
That's why I invited Rob to join the X & Y
Communications team a while back...and it
was one of the best decisions I've ever made.
I'm sure you've long since noticed that what
really catches your eye about a woman is how
she MOVES.
There's a certain slinky, feminine, graceful
even feline characteristic to the women who
really turns our head, right?
Well guess what? The allure generated by
movement is NOT gender-specific.
Rob has a study that shows that women are
far more tuned in to how a man moves than
we've ever imagined...probably even more
than WE as guys are when we notice women.
So what am I saying here?
Simply put, if how you carry yourself, how
you gesture when you speak and especially
how you WALK aren't attractive to women,
YOU won't be attractive to women.
And on the other hand, if you've got all of
that in your favor you're UNSTOPPABLE
when it comes to creating attraction.
Tragically, this is what most guys never
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often.
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HOW TO KNOW FOR SURE WHAT KIND OF WOMAN
YOU REALLY WANT
You already know that I talk a lot about deserving what you want.
A big part of doing that involves taking the measures necessary to
be the kind of man the woman of your dreams is dreaming of.
And that, in and of itself, is a step most of us fail to take in
this culture of "immediate gratification" and "quick fixes".
But based on my interactions with both men and women, there's an
even more shocking aspect to how people go about relationships.
The vast majority of us have no idea what we really want.
We may feel as if "we'll know it when we see it" or something like
that, but beyond ticking the obvious checkboxes (i.e. "um...really
hot and kind of fun to be with, I guess.") we don't ever objectively
identify the exact details of who the woman of our dreams really is.
Maybe it's because there's a stigma around being "too picky".
Or possibly it's because we've been brainwashed to believe that
either 1) nobody really ever gets who they want, or worse...
2) ...that we're "shallow" for having high standards in certain
areas, or all of them.
Well, let me support you 100% in being "too picky". And if
anyone ever tells you you're "shallow" for wanting it all, send
him or her to me. I've got your back.
So with that formality out of the way, what do you do to make
sure you're on the right track here?
Simple. You make an Excel spreadsheet.
In it, you list the TOP TEN traits you deem important in a woman.
I don't care what they are. You are the sole judge of what's on
the list.
All that's really important is that they're important to you, and
that they're incrementally measurable rather than binary.
For example, "emotional stability" or "sexual attractiveness" would
be fine choices.
"She's from Italy" or "she's Southern Baptist" wouldn't be. Those
are simply "yes" or "no" answers.
Once you've got ten solid criteria in mind, make a column for each
trait.
Then, in each of several rows below type in the name of a woman
you are currently dating or want to date. You can even list women
you've known or dated in the past for reference.
Once you have the names written down, rank each woman from
1-10 under each respective trait in accordance with how you feel
she measures up to the ultimate standard you have in mind.
For what it's worth, this exercise will only really work well for
you if you're willing to actually issue "10"s where deserved.
A mindset where you think that "nobody ever deserves a ten for
anything because that's perfection" isn't really useful here, as
you'll see in a second.
So for the purposes at hand, get an idea of what would be the
optimal real-world situation for each respective criterion and
set a realistically attainable yardstick.
For example, you might have "financially well-off" as a criterion.
It would be reasonable to score a woman with a six-figure income,
no credit card debt and an 750 credit score as a "10".
She wouldn't necessarily have to be an international billionaire.
Remember, you're dealing with real women here and looking for
the best one for you.
Then, add up the sub-scores for each of the ten traits for each
respective woman. Out of 100 possible points, each woman will
have a "grade".
Now I know what you're saying. This sure seems like a stone
cold way to evaluate women.
Well it may look that way at first glance, but most of us as guys
tend to evaluate women very subjectively.
Going purely by a "seat of the pants" impression of how much we
like a particular woman can get a bit confusing--or even
misleading--when we know plenty of them, can't it?
This is especially true when ALL of those women are subjectively
fantastic, and ALL of them are completely different as individuals.
The "whitelist" I just described to you is a way of grounding your
mindset, so you can effectively temper your subjective, emotional
response to women with factors you've decided were important
ahead of time.
Notice I said, "ahead of time". No fair making your whitelist
AFTER you start dating someone.
Even though I did suggest running the numbers for previous
girlfriends as a point of reference, trust me when I tell you it's
almost impossible not to skew the criteria in your whitelist and
how you weigh them in favor of women you WANT to score well if
you already know them and like them.
So for that specific reason it's best to have a clean slate.
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