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IN THIS EDITION:  When you learn this skill, you tend to turn
female friends into more than "just friends".

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SO GOOD I GOT A COPY FOR MYSELF


Okay, I don't usually talk like this but...

Go directly to this page and SKIP EVERYTHING until you get to
all the bullet points with blue check marks about a third of the
way down the page:



Click Here And Scroll Down To The Good Part



I have to tell you. Those check marks should be GOLDEN instead
of blue.

You won't even need me to explain to you WHY that's true.

Just read the first several and you'll instinctively realize what your
world will soon be like when you can do this for women in the bedroom.

It'll hit you like a ton of bricks that you are going to be SET FOR
LIFE with completely mind-boggled, intensely satisfied women biting
their lower lips and begging for your attention.

I'd print a few of the check marked bullet points here for you to get
a load of, but it's so raw and NSFW my e-mail service would probably
block the messages.

Let's just say that NO MAN she's ever been with has ever even
THOUGHT about doing ANY of this stuff...

...any and all of which will set her off with that unmistakable (and
deeply satisfying) look of "shock and awe" women get when you're
doing something EXTREMELY right in the bedroom.

(You know you live for those moments, just like I do...right?)

I'll just spell it out for you...

By the time I got to the 5th check mark about the "vacuum" effect
that makes her explode in ecstasy for you, I slapped the desk and
gave in to my curiosity.

I had to have a copy of this mayhem-causing ridiculousness for
myself.  (Well, for Emily, really.)

It just felt like a moral imperative.  How dare she and I miss out
on this now that I know it exists?



She Gasps And Marvels At You In Wide Eyed Shock



This is all-new from one of the most legitimately brilliant
sexperts out there, and I fully admit this guy has figured out
stuff that most of us would never have stumbled upon in
our entire lives.

I think you'll agree our women deserve it:



We'd ALL Have To Be Crazy To Miss Out On This



(Oh, and after I got my own copy of it, I convinced
Justin to give you guys a special deal on it for
the weekend.  You can thank me later, after you
realize how drastically well it works!)



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HOW TO HOLD A WOMAN


Today, I'm going to let you in on a powerful secret to being the
man who is suddenly--even out of nowhere, possibly--THE guy who all
the women in your social circle are somehow left thinking about
ALL THE TIME.

And interestingly enough, what I'm about to show you will become
even more powerful to know when women are NOT in their best frame
of mind.

For it to work especially well in your favor, she can be a little
peeved, frustrated, scared or even sad.  It doesn't matter.

What is this magic skill? 

It's how to hold a woman.

That's right.  You've got to have skills when it comes to hugging
women, basically.

Don't laugh.  Because if this sounds like sissy stuff to you, we've
got work to do in the Chick Whispering department.

Here's the deal:  In order to be the standout among all the other
guys in your social circle in the eyes of women you know, you've
GOT to be that ONE GUY who knows what it means to represent being
her "knight in shining armor".

I think you've heard about that one before.  It's a fantasy that
ALL WOMEN play in their head over and over again.

And when does a woman feel like she could USE a "knight in shining
armor", anyway?  You guessed it: 

When she's "in distress".  When things aren't going so well.

Fortunately for you, knowing how to hold a woman will make you that
guy she needs on the spot. 

And it's easy to learn, meaning you can access your new found skill
ON DEMAND once you have it down.

So exactly why is knowing how to embrace a woman the key here?

First of all, as with all things related to women [Ed. note:
Yes...he said "all"] safety and security are #1 on her mind.  

When you show up with masculine confidence, your ability to INSPIRE
CONFIDENCE in her is what separates the guys who succeed with women
from those who scare 'em all away.  (Even literally...as discussed
above.)

And women who aren't having the best day WANT to be held...preferably
BY A MAN. 

But not just ANY man.  It has to be by a man who genuinely has her
best interest at heart.

Now if you're just trying to "get some" from women, don't expect to
be their "go to guy" when they need a hug.  She'll see through that
100% of the time.

So that's the first step.  Free yourself of any needy "agenda" with
regard to what actually getting to "touch her" might potentially
lead to. 

By the way, welcome to a BIG PART of what women mean by
"emotionally available".  They mean "emotionally aware" and "able
to express". 

That's ALL they mean, too.

No "crying over flowers" or anything like that.  They're referring
to a man who TAKES CHARGE and GETS IT whenever emotions are
considered.

When you know that a woman in your social circle is not having the
best day, you can simply position yourself in front of her, gaze
into her eyes and give her a compassionate look that shows you "get
it".

Incredibly, you usually don't have to say a word. 

When she looks back at you, all you do is open your arms...even just
a bit.   And that's where it all starts.

Sure, sometimes you may find yourself asking, simply, "What's
wrong, [insert name here]?"  If you inspire confidence as mentioned
above, she'll pour out her heart to you... at least some.

When she's done, THEN you open your arms to her.

And when you hold her, you hold her with one arm around her
shoulders and the other around the middle-to-lower part of her back.

Importantly...do not pat her on the back as you hold her.

Psychologically speaking, when someone pats you on the back when
they hug you, it sub-communicates personal discomfort. 

Think about it.  The "bro hug" is invariably punctuated by big
slaps on the back.  That's because we guys really aren't so into
hugging each other much, are we?

But the "pat on the back hug" also signals the same thing to women:
discomfort.  And if she senses you are uncomfortable with
comforting her, I think you can fill in the blanks.  It's not going
to end well for either of you.

It's also important to remember not to concern yourself with
pressing your hips against hers or anything else that's a blatantly
sexual move.

That said, hold her JUST A BIT more tightly than you might have
guessed was okay.  Don't "bear hug" her, but serve notice to her
that this is a REAL HUG, not some mere "social grace" or whatever.

The last thing to remember is allow her to be the first to let go.
Don't shortchange her.  Be PRESENT for as long as it takes.

And that's all there is to it.

From there, here's the magic:  Be sure to pay attention.

Is SHE slapping YOU on the back?  If so, be extra careful about not
coming off as sexually motivated just yet.  It may not be that
she's uncomfortable with YOU, it may be that she's uncomfortable
with HUGGING YOU.  See the difference?

So hold it together and LEAD.  Again, wait for her to let go.  If
she's not enjoying being held by you, she's either going to bail
early or bail before even embracing you.  Think about it.

On the other hand, is she holding you even more tightly than you
are holding her?  Is she pressing her hips against yours of her own
accord?

If so, either or these is a tremendously positive sign she could be
attracted.

At that point, you may wish to move your top hand to behind her
head and rest her on your shoulder.   And YES...this is indeed a
bona fide iteration of David D.'s notorious "kiss test".  If you're
touching her hair, you could theoretically kiss her.

If she still holds on, keep holding on also...as directed.

If she holds her body even closer to yours about ten seconds into
the embrace, roll with it without flipping out.  Again...keep your
composure and remain focused on comforting her.

And if all of those checkboxes have been marked, here's the final
coup de grace:  WHEN you sense she's finally ready to let go, you
kiss her on the forehead as you part from the embrace.

She'll probably look you in the eye and smile.  She might thank you
(which would say a lot about her character). 

She MIGHT even go so far as to blatantly announce that you "give
great hugs" or even that "that was the BEST hug EVER".

But "Oh...wow" is still the reigning champion in my mind as far as
desired responses go. 

And here's another thing...No matter how tempting it is to kiss her
at this point, DON'T. 

You've come too far at this point to BLOW IT by turning this whole
moment in that direction. 

As "Seven Habits" guru Stephen Covey once said, "The main thing is
to keep the main thing the main thing."  And the main thing here,
at least for now, is to inspire confidence by comforting her. 

After all, you've just successfully seared into her consciousness
that YOU are a man to be reckoned wit.

She WILL think about you constantly from now on, and she MAY even
fantasize about marrying you. 

Sound extreme?  I've lost count of the number of times I've heard a
woman say she knew a guy was "The One" from the moment they first
embraced.

And like I've said before, you may not be ready to get married just
yet and you're DARN SKIPPY not going to marry all the women you
meet.

But when you represent what quality women want in a great man, you
instantly become the CHOOSER instead of the CHASER. 

And you'll be able to CHOOSE which women in your social circle
you'd like to spend more 1-on-1 quality time with if you know how
to hold a woman properly.

Listen, I get it.  I know how much stuff like "escalating kino" and
giving women massive orgasms is drilled into your mind these days.

But knowing how to embrace a woman meaningfully is a "lost art".
And by "meaningful", I mean that it MEANS something TO HER.  

And since what we're discussing here is a "lost art", a lot of us
are losing when it comes to women.

I challenge you to take what I've shared with you here, knowing
that nobody else on Earth is coming at things from this perspective,
and put it to work for you.

If you do, I can assure you that you'll get an up close and
personal object lesson in the VAST difference between being a MAN
who is her "knight in shining armor" versus "just a friend" whose
shoulder she can cry on. 

There's a big, BIG difference between starting out as friends with
women in your social circle and remaining "just friends". 

And I just showed you a fantastically effective way to quarterback
which direction things move in.

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