[X&Y] 5 Guys I'd Never Let Meet My Sister
Published: Mon, 11/04/24
Updated: Mon, 11/04/24
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IN THIS EDITION: Are you the kind of
man a woman should be with, or should
she run away?
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NOW...GET RESULTS IN ADVANCE
You can feel it in the air. Even though we're
widely considered to be "post pandemic",
people are still on edge.
There's fear and even straight-up anger
out there.
The trend I've seen lately only points to
one conclusion:
We as men want to reclaim the focus,
the purpose, and indeed the power
we feel has slipped from our grasp
over the past few years.
And certainly, we're all wondering what it
will take to get back to meeting and
attracting women...especially the RIGHT
woman.
Well, as of today--right here, and right
now--my pledge is to empower you with
at least ONE very real and personalized
action item you can use TODAY.
That's the guarantee when you arrange
your free 25-minute Results In Advance
call with me here:
Results In Advance
Yes, you can expect at least one
practical step to getting your
breakthrough in 2025.
This will emerge specifically from our
conversation, and will likely NOT be a
takeaway you could have arrived at
from merely reading a book or listening
to a podcast.
This is new...and the guarantee is real.
Results In Advance
Obviously, if I can recommend next steps
like the right X & Y Communications
programs or even a personal coaching
action plan, great.
But if it's just one small step toward a
major breakthrough that has been
eluding you all along, that's what you'll
take away from this conversation.
Results In Advance
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5 GUYS I'D NEVER LET MEET MY SISTER
I've noticed something really weird about the e-mails we get.
Whenever a guy writes us, he's almost always wondering how
to get a woman (or six) into his life.
But when a woman writes us, she is usually asking what to
do about a guy she's already dating.
By now you know Emily and I are equal opportunity dating
coaches. We believe both men and women can get things right,
and both can mess things up.
And there are representatives of both genders who have good
intentions with MOTOS (members of the other sex), and others
whose intentions are not so good.
So yes, I'll tell a woman exactly why she's screwing up her
relationship. And I'm not shy about it.
But don't kid yourself. Other times I'll tell her to drop
everything and run away from the guy she's seeing.
So my question to you today is a poignant but important one:
What would I tell a woman you're dating to do about YOU if
she called me and asked?
Here are five guys I universally tell women to say "next" to:
1) "DISAPPEARING GUY"
If only I had a dollar for every woman who has ever written us
wanting to know what to do about a guy who's dropped off the face
of the Earth.
Yeah, well...you and I already know he's no longer interested.
For sure, he should have been man enough to give her the
straight truth about there being a better match out there for her
than him.
But most of us as guys would rather avoid the potential emotional
drama of being forthright with a woman than to man-up and do the
respectable thing.
Seriously...if a woman likes you, then she really believes "you had
fun" and that "you'll call her" when you say you will. If you utter
phrases like that and don't do what you say you're going to, you
lack character. Period, end of story.
And if you lack character, then I'm not going to be shy about
telling women to forget about you.
2) "LYING GUY"
There was a hilarious commercial from a mobile provider where a
man and a woman are at a speed dating event. The man tells her
"all he wants is to settle down and have kids", but the woman
counters by reading his bio statement that reads the opposite.
From there, everything he says turns out to be in direct contrast
to what he's said elsewhere.
I don't personally believe all men are liars like some "lady guru"
dating coaches tend to assert. But there are some of us who
perpetuate that belief, much to the chagrin of the guys out there
who have integrity.
This really is a case of the bad apples spoiling the whole bushel.
The bottom line is if you've been telling women whatever you
think they want to hear just to get in their pants, I'm going to
recommend to the women you've been seeing that they keep
them on...just like I'd tell you to watch your wallet if a woman
was whispering empty "sweet nothings" to you.
3) "NEUTER GUY"
Look, if you're not coming off as a masculine man, you're not
attracting women. Sexual polarity is what keeps you from hearing
the dreaded "just be friends" talk.
Women deserve to feel sexual attraction every bit as much as you
do.
So when women write us with soul-crushing guilt because they're
dating a "great guy" whom they "just don't feel it for", we explain
exactly why they feel that way and lift the guilt of kicking him to
the curb off their shoulders.
Never hide your masculine presence because you think it'll turn
women off. The opposite is true, as long as you're not pushy or
predatory about it.
4) "LITTLE BOY GUY"
You should always be a man who shows responsibility as a
provider, protector and a leader.
Women have every right to never settle for a guy who
demonstrates anything less.
When women tell us how frustrated they are by a guy's double-talk,
bad decisions, lack of a plan, inability to make her feel safe
and/or overall flakiness we affirm her frustration and assure her
there's another guy out there who really "gets it".
That's the guy she should be with instead...a mature man, not a
child.
5) "SUBTLE RED FLAG GUY"
The more I think about this one, the more I'm tempted to just call
him "Manipulative Guy".
Anyone (man or woman) who shows you a glimpse of what he
or she is like in hopes you'll remain optimistic they're not really like
that is just grooming you up to accept whatever they inflict upon
YOU later.
We've heard from women who see a "really, really nice guy" verbally
abuse a waitress or a relative early on but dismiss it in the
moment. Sure enough, once there's more water under the bridge
between them he starts verbally abusing her also.
The point of this exercise is to give you some 20/20 foresight. I'm
all about helping you WIN with women from the very start.
If some of what I've written hits home, that's a GOOD thing.
Please don't take it personally. Use it to correct your course and
thrill women's brains out instead of making them write to Emily.
Rest assured that if you're a "big four" man who is confident,
masculine in the way women respond to, able to make a woman feel
safe and comfortable in your presence and has strong character
I'll be sure to tell a woman she'd be absolutely crazy not to
treat you right and do what she could to keep you interested.
And yes, it would be up to you whether you stayed with her or not.
That's no coincidence.
=====
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men reclaiming their masculinity, standing as a
positive role model and deserving the high
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IN THIS EDITION: Are you the kind of
man a woman should be with, or should
she run away?
=====
NOW...GET RESULTS IN ADVANCE
You can feel it in the air. Even though we're
widely considered to be "post pandemic",
people are still on edge.
There's fear and even straight-up anger
out there.
The trend I've seen lately only points to
one conclusion:
We as men want to reclaim the focus,
the purpose, and indeed the power
we feel has slipped from our grasp
over the past few years.
And certainly, we're all wondering what it
will take to get back to meeting and
attracting women...especially the RIGHT
woman.
Well, as of today--right here, and right
now--my pledge is to empower you with
at least ONE very real and personalized
action item you can use TODAY.
That's the guarantee when you arrange
your free 25-minute Results In Advance
call with me here:
Results In Advance
Yes, you can expect at least one
practical step to getting your
breakthrough in 2025.
This will emerge specifically from our
conversation, and will likely NOT be a
takeaway you could have arrived at
from merely reading a book or listening
to a podcast.
This is new...and the guarantee is real.
Results In Advance
Obviously, if I can recommend next steps
like the right X & Y Communications
programs or even a personal coaching
action plan, great.
But if it's just one small step toward a
major breakthrough that has been
eluding you all along, that's what you'll
take away from this conversation.
Results In Advance
=====
5 GUYS I'D NEVER LET MEET MY SISTER
I've noticed something really weird about the e-mails we get.
Whenever a guy writes us, he's almost always wondering how
to get a woman (or six) into his life.
But when a woman writes us, she is usually asking what to
do about a guy she's already dating.
By now you know Emily and I are equal opportunity dating
coaches. We believe both men and women can get things right,
and both can mess things up.
And there are representatives of both genders who have good
intentions with MOTOS (members of the other sex), and others
whose intentions are not so good.
So yes, I'll tell a woman exactly why she's screwing up her
relationship. And I'm not shy about it.
But don't kid yourself. Other times I'll tell her to drop
everything and run away from the guy she's seeing.
So my question to you today is a poignant but important one:
What would I tell a woman you're dating to do about YOU if
she called me and asked?
Here are five guys I universally tell women to say "next" to:
1) "DISAPPEARING GUY"
If only I had a dollar for every woman who has ever written us
wanting to know what to do about a guy who's dropped off the face
of the Earth.
Yeah, well...you and I already know he's no longer interested.
For sure, he should have been man enough to give her the
straight truth about there being a better match out there for her
than him.
But most of us as guys would rather avoid the potential emotional
drama of being forthright with a woman than to man-up and do the
respectable thing.
Seriously...if a woman likes you, then she really believes "you had
fun" and that "you'll call her" when you say you will. If you utter
phrases like that and don't do what you say you're going to, you
lack character. Period, end of story.
And if you lack character, then I'm not going to be shy about
telling women to forget about you.
2) "LYING GUY"
There was a hilarious commercial from a mobile provider where a
man and a woman are at a speed dating event. The man tells her
"all he wants is to settle down and have kids", but the woman
counters by reading his bio statement that reads the opposite.
From there, everything he says turns out to be in direct contrast
to what he's said elsewhere.
I don't personally believe all men are liars like some "lady guru"
dating coaches tend to assert. But there are some of us who
perpetuate that belief, much to the chagrin of the guys out there
who have integrity.
This really is a case of the bad apples spoiling the whole bushel.
The bottom line is if you've been telling women whatever you
think they want to hear just to get in their pants, I'm going to
recommend to the women you've been seeing that they keep
them on...just like I'd tell you to watch your wallet if a woman
was whispering empty "sweet nothings" to you.
3) "NEUTER GUY"
Look, if you're not coming off as a masculine man, you're not
attracting women. Sexual polarity is what keeps you from hearing
the dreaded "just be friends" talk.
Women deserve to feel sexual attraction every bit as much as you
do.
So when women write us with soul-crushing guilt because they're
dating a "great guy" whom they "just don't feel it for", we explain
exactly why they feel that way and lift the guilt of kicking him to
the curb off their shoulders.
Never hide your masculine presence because you think it'll turn
women off. The opposite is true, as long as you're not pushy or
predatory about it.
4) "LITTLE BOY GUY"
You should always be a man who shows responsibility as a
provider, protector and a leader.
Women have every right to never settle for a guy who
demonstrates anything less.
When women tell us how frustrated they are by a guy's double-talk,
bad decisions, lack of a plan, inability to make her feel safe
and/or overall flakiness we affirm her frustration and assure her
there's another guy out there who really "gets it".
That's the guy she should be with instead...a mature man, not a
child.
5) "SUBTLE RED FLAG GUY"
The more I think about this one, the more I'm tempted to just call
him "Manipulative Guy".
Anyone (man or woman) who shows you a glimpse of what he
or she is like in hopes you'll remain optimistic they're not really like
that is just grooming you up to accept whatever they inflict upon
YOU later.
We've heard from women who see a "really, really nice guy" verbally
abuse a waitress or a relative early on but dismiss it in the
moment. Sure enough, once there's more water under the bridge
between them he starts verbally abusing her also.
The point of this exercise is to give you some 20/20 foresight. I'm
all about helping you WIN with women from the very start.
If some of what I've written hits home, that's a GOOD thing.
Please don't take it personally. Use it to correct your course and
thrill women's brains out instead of making them write to Emily.
Rest assured that if you're a "big four" man who is confident,
masculine in the way women respond to, able to make a woman feel
safe and comfortable in your presence and has strong character
I'll be sure to tell a woman she'd be absolutely crazy not to
treat you right and do what she could to keep you interested.
And yes, it would be up to you whether you stayed with her or not.
That's no coincidence.
=====
(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2024. All Rights Reserved.
Forward this newsletter to a friend, and help
build this worldwide movement of over 100,000
men reclaiming their masculinity, standing as a
positive role model and deserving the high
quality women we want.
The Definitive Facebook Group For Men
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