[X&Y] "What If I Have Nothing To Offer Her?" [Reader Question]

Published: Mon, 11/18/24

Updated: Thu, 11/21/24


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IN THIS EDITION: You really want to meet a
certain woman, but you keep "failing to deploy".

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"I HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER HER"


Hi Scot,

There is this girl I'm really tripping for, but the truth of the
matter is I have not summoned the courage to walk up to
her because she's a high class girl and I have nothing to
offer her for now.

But each day I see her, it keeps hurting me that I have
done nothing yet.

Please brother, what should I do?


Emeka  (Nigeria)


P.S.  I like your program so much, please keep it up
because it's helping folks like me. Say hi to Emily.



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Hello Emeka:

 
Thanks for writing, man.  Emily says, "Hi back".

We'd love to make it over to Nigeria someday for a visit.  That
would be a great adventure, for sure.

But anyway, listen...a LOT of guys write me who are in a
situation very similar to yours.  Your e-mail in particular really
captures it perfectly, so I immediately knew I should answer you in
a newsletter.

So here goes...

For starters, one thing I really can't tell from your message is
whether the "things" you feel you can't offer are material ones or
whether you're talking more subjectively.

But when you get right down to it, that's sort of beside the point.

Contrary to what most guys think, having material possessions (and
bestowing them on women as gifts) is NOT what creates attraction.

And remember, without attraction you could give her the moon and
the friggin' stars and she'd either just smile, say "thank you" and
walk away or just flat-out refuse them because she'd feel guilty
accepting such lavish goodies from a man she wasn't so into.

Meanwhile, every single "big four" man walking this planet already
has far, far more to offer a great woman than he might think.

He's got what women really, truly WANT.  Are you that type of guy? 

He's a man who is masculine in the way women define it (as opposed
to "macho"). 

That means, among other things, that he makes solid decisions,
handles fear with courage, has a plan both in the moment and
long-term and passionately pursues his life purpose.

He's a man who knows what it means to recognize a woman's best
interests and to protect her.  As such, he causes her to feel safe
and secure in his presence.

And if a woman is "high class" like the one you have your eye on
is, then she'll recognize a man of solid character.   He'll be the
one she can depend on to be her Rock of Gibraltar weeks, months and
years into the future.

All of that is what literally makes a woman stark, raving HORNY for
you.

Now, with that said, I have two amazing bits of great news for you.

First, every single iota of what a "big four" man is all about is
FREE to acquire.  It won't cost you a naira to BE that kind of man
OR to represent those traits to women.

Second--and I say this with 100% sincerity--if you can look in the
mirror and truthfully consider yourself a man of character who has
a woman's best interests at heart and wants to treat her right,
you're already WAY, WAY ahead of the vast majority of other men on
this Earth.

Ironically, it's often the BEST men out there who find themselves
concerned with whether or not they're "enough" for a great woman.

So it wouldn't surprise me in the least if you're actually the kind
of man this woman would LOVE to meet.

Just ask yourself these important questions:  "If I don't deserve
her, what kind of guy WOULD?  And if the 'big four' is what women
want, then what's HE got going for him that I don't?"

That pair of questions usually brings about a major revelation for
most guys:  "If I don't end up with her, than who SHOULD?"

The honest, objective answer to that question is usually NOBODY.  

But somehow, the vast majority of us brainwash ourselves into
believing that having a high quality woman by our side is something
that OTHER guys get to experience, not us.

I ask you, though...given that practically ALL OF US suffer from that
"Too Good To Be True Syndrome", then who's left for this woman to
actually go out with and build a relationship with?

SOMEONE has got to date her, right?

That SOMEONE may as well be you.

That, of course, brings me to an important component of character,
which is the fourth component of the "big four". That's courage...which
is what you admit to lacking, at least for now.

I trust that considering matters in light of everything we've just
discussed will encourage you...literally.

With that, you'll be able to boldly approach that amazing woman and
simply trust that being a "big four" man is ENOUGH.  

And if for some reason it's not, you'll also be able to trust that
it's HER problem, not yours. 

You're better off with a woman who knows what "high quality" means
and is looking for it in a man.

Yes...it really is that simple.   It all starts with, "Hello, I'm
Emeka", spoken by a true "big four" man.

You've already figured out the alternative.  That's continuing to
back down from the challenge at hand.  

And yes, ultimately the pain of not believing in yourself enough to
step up and meet that woman will haunt you WAY more profoundly and
for a longer period of time than anything she can say or do to you
after you summon that courage and actually meet her.

Most guys I know tend to have harsher memories of the women they
DIDN'T have the guts to meet at all than they do of any woman who
responded to them poorly AFTER actually meeting them. 

Always keep that in mind.  Trust you're the kind of man a great
woman should want, and boldly live without regret.
 

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