[X&Y] Is This What A Man Is Supposed To Look Like?
Published: Sat, 11/23/24
Updated: Sat, 11/23/24
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IN THIS EDITION: Today's man is in crisis. We've somehow lost our
field-vision into what being a man is truly supposed to look like.And is it even our fault? After all, more of us than not don't
even have a solid example to follow.
But the high-quality women of the world sure wish we did. Read on...
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IS THIS WHAT A MAN IS SUPPOSED TO LOOK LIKE?
A while back I had the rare and highly sought-after chance to go over
some market research done by MTV networks. In it, the state of the
modern man was broken down into fine detail.
I mean, this research must have cost hundreds of thousands of dollars
to produce.
Yet there it was...on my desktop, obtained by purely legitimate means.
And after devouring page after page, one of the findings that jumped
off the screen and latched onto me like a pit bull was this:
"Over 50% of all North American men, across all socio-ethnic
demographics and regardless of age, do not have an identifiable
role model."
In other words, most of us have no idea what a real man even looks
like.
The more I thought about it, the more I started to realize that MTV's
money might actually have been well spent. As hard as it is to admit,
I believe what's written in their report to be an accurate statement.
Being immersed as I am in what I do for a living, I've found myself
thinking a lot about that haunting statistic as I look around at what's
being taught to guys out there.
We're told that the yardstick by which we might measure "success"
as a man is the guy in a bar or club who can get the most phone
numbers.
Meanwhile, the NBA MVP, hip-hop artist du jour or actor in the
latest action flick is who we want to emulate...at least for the
moment while we're watching that particular channel.
It has been over thirty years now since then NBA all-star Charles
Barkley proclaimed, "I am not a role model", thereby stirring
controversy.
Given the intent behind Sir Charles' words, I don't see where the
"controversy" is. As he basically said, he's not supposed to be
raising other parents' kids, they are.
But even today nothing has changed. We still behold guys who do
cool outward stuff and decide they're the ones who we want to be
like.
However, the guy on TV, the silver screen, the basketball court--or
yes, the club--can't teach us how to be a man.
They can only do something we wish we could do. It's all "outer
game".
So what do we do? We try to copy what we see, and even if we
are successful at doing so we're still left empty.
That's because deep down within us, at our inner core, nothing
changed.
Listen, it's no joke that most of the high-profile pickup-artists and
seduction teachers from ten years ago have long since gotten
married and fathered children.
That's because after you master pickup and after you realize you
can get phone numbers you're still often left wanting more.
And in this case "more" means a history with a great woman.
Having that great woman back you 100% in your ambitions. And
maybe even having the legacy of a great kid or two.
Let me tell you, watching my boy Scot Jr. grow up as clearly a
"chip off the old block" is as sobering as it is amazing.
I love watching him grow up and do terrific things. It's immensely
rewarding.
But the sobering part is it's up to me to make sure he doesn't
become a "statistic".
One of the most meaningful things to me in life is that my boy is
going to have a true role model, even if it takes all of my energy
to be that man for him.
And you know what? As long as I breathe oxygen (and probably
beyond) the die has been cast. That boy sees me as his role model
already whether I like it or not.
The craziest part of all? Watching me interact with my son makes
Emily hot. Wow...it's like catnip.
Why do I tell you all of this?
Because if you want to start making women want you--and I'm talking
about genuine, high quality women of character here--then you'd
better not be a "statistic" either.
You had better rise above average. Because "average" hasn't a clue
what REAL MAN looks like.
And, following logically, "hasn't a clue" turns off high quality women.
Do you want to know why women are joining together in the battle
cry of wanting their "real men" back? I've just explained it to you.
Bear in mind I'm not talking about angry women and "man haters"
who aren't fit to be one half of a healthy relationship. Who cares what
they think and what kind of message they're attempting to brainwash
you with.
I'm talking about the kind of woman you actually desire. They're the
ones who are frustrated by no real men showing up.
So here's the good news. It's never too late to "go back in time"
and recover what belongs to you already...your birthright as a man
who was born to attract women:
Seriously, gentlemen. You can't "be like Mike" and expect that to
be enough.
If you want to be a woman's hero--if you want to be your son and/or
daughter's hero someday--you've got to be a REAL MAN at the core.
Consider the greatest men in history.
They weren't the fastest runners. They weren't the ones beating
their chest the hardest. And they certainly weren't the ones "bagging
the most chicks".
They were the confident, masculine men of character who knew how
to empower those around them.
They knew how to handle tough situations...and did.
They knew how to make everyone around them feel just a bit better
about themselves...and did. And they knew how to inspire confidence
...not just in women, but even in their fellow men.
And the women loved them for it just the same.
Nobel laureates. Heads of state. Captains of business. Changers
of the world. All "big four" guys like I just described.
I've now had more reports than I can count on both hands that The
Master Plan is something "every man should have the chance to hear".
So right now, I'm going to make that happen. For just 24 hours longer
I'm going to give you The Master Plan for a full 50% off:
That's right. You get it for half-price...about as much as one bad
dinner date. The coupon code masterplan50 is already embedded
in the link to the order page.
And if The Master Plan has the impact on you that it has for other
men who have acquired it already, then this could be the greatest
investment you'll ever make.
You'll want to go through The Master Plan multiple times until
you've truly become the ultimate version of your authentic,
masculine self:
Being a "man" on the surface doesn't count.
Presence beats performance every single time with women. They
don't care what you say or do. They want to know who you are.
And being a "big four" man is what's going to propel you above the
fray of the clueless every single time. True, real-world greatness
is found there.
It's what makes a high quality woman hot for you, and it's what's
going to make your son someday want to be like you.
Don't let them down:
And I'll talk to you again soon. Have a great weekend.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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