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WHAT'S INSIDE:  Could it be true that women are actually MORE
attracted to you already than YOU believe could be possible?

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When it comes to sex, I'm asked one BIG question over and over 
and OVER again.

It's a HUGE mystery to nearly every man.

It's not about size and it's not about stamina.

It IS, however, so completely "not safe for work" that I can't really
even discuss it in this newsletter.

Fortunately, however, this guy is willing to throw it all out on
the table (literally) and give you the straight-up, no B.S. answer
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Yes, it's pretty "edgy".  But it'll also get women to follow you
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CRAZY HARSH REJECTIONS?


All of us are inspired when we hear stories of belief in the face
of doubt.  Movies like "The Pursuit Of Happyness" [sic], "Rudy"
and "Hoosiers" all come to mind.  

The characters in each respective flick are repeatedly told that
they would or even should fail, yet their sheer will and
determination carries them to wildly successful victory against all
odds. 

It's human nature for us to LOVE these movies.

So why, then, is it also human nature for us to do the exact
opposite when is comes to our dating lives? 

Why do we so often choose illogical DOUBT in the face of logical
BELIEF when it comes to approaching women?

I mean, realistically speaking, the symptoms of this disorder
often extend well past the meeting stage into first dates,
second dates and possibly even into 50 year marriages.

Here's a case in point.

This week I was engaged in a discussion about online dating
involving the finer points of sending emails to women. 

While common wisdom suggests that a first email that goes
unreturned signals disinterest, I happen to believe that the
most popular women online are often so inundated with messages
that they'll respond ONLY to second attempts at contact. 

Such women are wise to rote cut and paste first emails from
lazy, unimaginative men and therefore want to know who is really
interested enough to make a legitimate effort. 

While "always" is a precarious term to use when dealing with real
people, my personal field testing has shown that women will
respond to a well-placed and effectively written second email well
over 50% of the time.

My friend vehemently disagreed and said he refuses to send second
emails to women. 

After all, he's got "proof" it doesn't work. 

He proceeded to pull up an email from one woman who responded to a
second email of his with, "Don't you get it?  'No answer' means
'NO INTEREST'!" 

As it turns out, ONE EMAIL from ONE WOMAN had such a profound
impact on him that it shaped his entire opinion on the
matter...negatively. 

Are you kidding me? 

Never mind the fact that I could pull up probably fifty or so
positive responses to second emails from my own personal online
dating "files"...including one from (ahem) Emily.

Compare that to but a few emails sent back to me by women that
read similarly to his.

In his mind, "facts" remained "facts".  The ONE email he had
received was THE decision maker in his mind.

To further illustrate the weirdo point I'm making here, I heard
from a guy a few days ago who believe that he needs "a Harley and
lots of tattoos" in order to attract any woman in his hometown.  

Guess what?  Surprise...he has neither of those boxes checked.  

Meanwhile, I strongly suspect that even if he had a FLH Softtail
in his garage and his entire left arm was "sleeved" he'd find
yet another excuse that was equally compelling in the face of
continued lackluster results with women.

What leads me to believe that?

Only this.  Within the past week I've not only heard from guys who
think they're too short to attract any women at all, I've also
received an email from another guy bemoaning how women complain
that it "hurts their necks" to talk to him because he's 6'4". 

That's right.  In his mind, were he only shorter, he wouldn't be
dateless.

What this all comes down to is that we as humans "tree hug" our
limiting beliefs at times to a point where all objective reason
goes out the window.  

Simply put, when we feel like believing something to be true we
only need a single shred of evidence in order to pronounce it so.  

Consider the following example of "X" approaching "Y":



  X:  "Hello, my name is Bill, what's yours?"


  Y:  "Uh...my name is 'Unavailable', dork.  Now get outta my face and
  quit harassing me before I call the cops.  No woman could possibly
  find a total loser like you anything less than utterly disgusting!"



X then proceeds to shy away from approaching another woman all
night (or all year, or all decade). 

Why?  After this single brutal episode, his self-esteem is
shattered and he himself believes in the all-conquering
universal "truth" of what he has just been told...by ONE person.  

Conversely, however, had the woman responded in a powerfully
positive way, Mike may have been left thinking, "I'm invincible!
All women LOVE me!"

Either way, logical fallacy is at play here.  There is almost never
any valid way to pronounce absolute truth upon a variable situation
based on a single event:



  "ABC airlines crashed last year.  Therefore I'm never flying ABC
  airlines because they always crash!"


  "My very first date after the divorce was a disaster.  I'm through
  with dating."


  "My last girlfriend proved to by psychotic.  All women are crazy!"
   


Or how about THIS gem, courtesy of the opposite gender:



  "The last guy I went out with couldn't keep his paws off of me on
  the first date.  All men are dogs!"



Hey-o!

Now, while it's perfectly natural for a bad experience here and
there to "harsh our buzz", the most poignant aspect of this issue
is that some people can be confronted with a steady stream of
evidence to the contrary of any negative limiting beliefs they
happen to hold...and still not snap out of it.

That's right, once they've got a death grip on a certain limiting
belief, even a mountain of evidence to the contrary won't change
their mind.

For example, I can't tell you how many beautiful women Emily and I
have heard from and/or spoken to who viewed themselves as "ugly"
and/or "worthless". 

The reason for this?  Well, of course, that's the last thing their
ex-husbands told them before leaving. 

Meanwhile, such women were typically busy at the same time turning
heads so fast that guys were getting whiplash. 

Perhaps this topic has hit home for many of you.  What are your own
limiting beliefs that are restricting you from a wildly successful
dating life? 

More importantly, how did those limiting beliefs get there? 

If you take an honest look at the "problem" you are likely to find
that the opinion of a very small minority has shaped your thoughts.

Meanwhile, many women just might find your self-perceived
"limitation" nothing short of endearing. 

In their mind, it just might be what makes you unique and
intriguing...that is, if they're really focusing on it much AT ALL.

Perhaps you can relate to what I'm saying.

If so, then why is it you are more comfortable with limitation than
with empowerment?  

Could it be that when you see what's unchangeable about yourself
e.g. your race, your height, your first language, your age, etc.)
and use it as a convenient excuse for your failure with women, you
thereby allow yourself to become passive with regard to your
potential success with women?

If you open your eyes and look around, you'll no doubt see guys who
have the very same "limitations" you perceive yourself to have with
truly terrific women by their sides.

That's because no matter what you're like at your basic core, the
very best version of who you are WILL be attractive to plenty of
women--and very likely the same ones you'll be attracted to as well.

Why not begin to see yourself as others truly see you and lose the
logical fallacies?  This is one of the very cornerstones of
deserving what you want. 

 

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