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WHAT'S INSIDE:  Do you have the ability to attract women
you don't really feel it for at all, but never seem to get with
the ones you really want?  Here's what to do about it.

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"DUDE...WHAT?"


On Friday I introduced Voice Power.

It's already crystal-clear I should
have done this for you a LONG time
ago.

Response has been TREMENDOUS.

After all, how you use your voice as
a man is important not only for the
obvious reasons...

...It actually has a ripple-effect...

...Through your professional life...

...Through your social life...

...And when it comes to attracting
women, of course.

I mean, if English is your second
language, it's incredibly frustrating
to be asked over and over to repeat
yourself...by people who already seem
annoyed as a first impression.

And if you sometimes hear, "I always
assumed you were gay", that probably
has something to do with your voice
as well...and it's SURELY not helping
attract women.

Worse, if people tend to tell you you're
"too intense" or "no fun" that's REALLY
offputting...especially because you don't
WANT to come off that way AT ALL, right?

And WORST of all...it seriously sucks
when nearly EVERYONE you try to talk to
at social events cuts the conversation
off abruptly...or even awkwardly.

I mean...it's not like you did anything
on purpose in ANY of those situations,
right?

All of those are obvious clues Voice
Power is for you. And yes, you'll see
real-world results in just a couple of
sessions:



NEW: https://www.voicepowercoaching.com



BUT...did you know that if you're a
SHY guy, it's probably written all
over your voice...even when you're
making an extra effort to sound
confident?

AND...if you move to a new region
(or even a new country) there's MUCH
more to how your voice (and the words
you use) are affecting others than
than you might think.

Let me tell you, for YEARS I could
relate personally to SO MANY of the
painful scenarios I brought up above.

But having gotten it all handled to
the point where I host top-ranked
podcasts, emcee pretty major events
and even to play-by-play announcing
for two sports...

...I often ask myself what took me
so long?

The power of your voice is THE power
that overcomes ALL others as a man.

Believe me, if I can transform my
whole world through fine-tuning my
voice, so can you.

Two sessions is all it takes:



NEW: https://www.voicepowercoaching.com



So...what if you suspect your voice is
costing you lost opportunities, but can't
exactly put your finger on WHY?

Voice Power Coaching can help you get
clarity on that, too...and turn things
around.



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WHAT IF YOU ONLY ATTRACT WOMEN YOU'RE NOT
ATTRACTED TO?
   

If you're like lots of guys I've talked to over the years,
you can get lots of women interested in you.

There's only one caveat...and it's a BIG one. 

You indeed have a knack for creating attraction in women,
just as long as you're NOT attracted to THEM in the least.

Sound familiar?  Frustrating isn't it? 

The sheer number of men who report this phenomenon
is significant enough that I've decided to address it here,
once and for all.

If you count yourself among those guys, you're going to
be really happy you opened this e-mail from me today. 

That's because I'm about to snap you out of that funk
you've been in--all with a short burst of undeniable,
irrefutable facts.

To paraphrase none other than Kenny Powers, "Listen
up, because I'm about to [mess] your head up wit
some truth."

Hold on...here we go.

Alright then, imagine the most attractive woman you can
think of.

She can be someone famous or someone in your
personal social circle.  It doesn't matter for the purpose
at hand.

Okay, now ask yourself this question:  Is she only
attractive to UNattractive men? 

Here are a few more questions, just to drive the
point home.

Is there a cut off point where any guy past some
mediocre measure of personal attractiveness to
women WON'T find this hottie attractive anymore?

Those are pretty brain-dead questions, when you
think about it. The answer to both, most certainly, is
"of course not". 

The most attractive guys out there who are wildly
successful with women will usually AGREE with the
opinion of even the most dateless guy out there on
who's hot and who's not.

Granted, nobody is universally attractive to everyone,
but certainly the trend will remain steady across the
board, won't it?

Well sure it will.  You instinctively know this because
you've talked to all sorts of guys about all sorts of
women over the years, right?

Since we're on a roll, here's yet another question.

Now think about a less attractive woman.  Is it ONLY
the guys who seem to have their pick of the hottest
women who aren't so into her?

Nonsense.  Again, it's obvious that the opinions of
guys who don't do as well with women will trend in
that direction also.  

Wow, right?  The logic at play here isn't exactly
genius-level, is it?

Women who are generally attractive to guys are
attractive to ALL SORTS of guys.

Putting the proverbial shoe on the other foot like
that makes the truth of the matter flat-out OBVIOUS,
right?

Indeed.  

Now here it is:  you guessed it...none of this stuff
is gender-specific. 

The same logic we're using here applies to YOU
if you're attracting ANY women at all with ANY
degree of consistency, no matter WHAT you happen
to think of them.

Here's where the rubber meets the road:  If you can
get a certain cross-section of women to be hot for
you, chances are EXCELLENT that a high
percentage of women in GENERAL will be attracted
to you.

Yes, even the ones you personally find attractive.

Similarly, if you can get ONE hottie to be crazy
about you, it's not a fluke.  You can get OTHERS to
want you also.

All told, you're either igniting femininity with your
masculinity, or else we need to work on that.
 
Simply stated, if you think only the women you're
NOT attracted to like you, then you've got to get over
the "too good to be true factor" in your head.  

That logic just doesn't add up.

Instead, leverage the logic that DOES add up--
which we've been considering here--and start talking
to the women you really want as you would any
other woman. 

That comes with practice.  And by that I mean
practicing with ALL women you happen across in
normal day-to-day life, not just the ones who interest
you sexually.

Let the pattern of attraction you've experienced in
women you're indifferent toward create an indelible
HABIT of expecting women in general to be
delighted by you. 

Then, start raising the bar with regard to your
interest level in the women you strike conversations
with. 

Take very careful note that their response to you--
including the subtle flirtation--is very likely the same
as you've seen from other women who didn't float
your proverbial boat as much.

From there, tell yourself it's okay to quit the excuses
that have led to "failure to deploy" in the past.

Remember the simple logic we've covered today,
and run with it from now on. 

Stop looking for negative signs that just aren't
there and acknowledge that you're having very
similar interactions with most women you meet,
regardless of how attractive you find them.

Start trusting what you plainly see, and stop
psyching yourself out.  

Incredibly, you may just find that the women you are
most excited about are actually EASIER to talk to
because they're so eager to meet a guy who's not
so afraid of them for a change.

Before you know it, you'll finally find yourself in the
company of women you're genuinely excited to be
with.

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