[X&Y] How To Be A Cooler Guy...Instantly

Published: Fri, 04/04/25

Updated: Fri, 04/04/25


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IN THIS EDITION: Can you become
a cooler guy in the blink of an eye?

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TODAY'S TOPIC IS A REALLY
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HOW TO BE A COOLER GUY...
INSTANTLY


Today I've got one of those rare but
wonderful nuggets of knowledge that
can actually bring you immediate
gratification.

That's right...INSTANT results. There's
no hard work, practice or memorization
necessary.

It's a simple mindset adjustment
that'll make everyone you meet stop
and think to themselves, "Man, is
that ever a cool guy."

Here it is:

Be INFORMED and INQUISITIVE
when interacting with others.

So what does that really mean?

As promised, it's simple.

Being perceived as cool is not only
about coming off as sharp and
interesting, it's even MORE about
making the person you're talking
to FEEL sharp and interesting him
or herself.

So first off, if you have some
knowledge about what's interesting
to that person, that will reassure
them that you find their gig
interesting. You therefore build
rapport.

Weirdly, a lot of people try to
HIDE whatever knowledge they have
of another person and/or their
interests out of fear that it'll
make them seem like a "fan boy".

They worry about skewing the
balance of personal power in the
other person's direction.

But see, it's being INQUISITIVE
that restores balance, actually
giving YOU the power even as you
make the other person like you
better.

That's because while you, in
essence, offer that you know
SOMETHING of what interests him
or her, you also allow for the
other person to illuminate YOUR
interest with even more information.

You give THEM the chance to look
like an expert.

So then, you've got just enough
knowledge about the person to
engage them intelligently up
front, BUT you are also all
about allowing them to
demonstrate how amazing they
are to you.

It's not like you've obsessed
over this person and what he or
she is passionate about.

It's just that you're neither
in the dark about it or as
much of an expert as they are.

Voila...the next thing you
know the other person is busy
working for YOUR approval,
even as he or she thinks
you're wonderful for validating
him or her straightaway.

To drive home the power of this
approach to relating to others,
let's consider the opposite:

IGNORANCE combined with
ARROGANCE.

Think about it. Is there anyone
who could possibly be harder to
endure socially than someone
who thinks he's better and
smarter than everyone else,
but who is actually dead wrong?

Right after the unfortunate
Boston Marathon bombing years
ago, certain media outlets
published photos of two teenaged
boys who appeared to fit the
description of who police were
searching for.

It wasn't long before the two
kids were completely cleared of
any wrongdoing.

Yet, for weeks afterward they
and their families were fearing
for their lives because of
certain dumb asses who didn't
get the memo and were posting
threatening messages to them
on Facebook.

Some were spewing invective
even while lecturing them on
how to be a nicer human being.

Others were telling them that
they hope they rot in jail...
or hell.

Some went so far as to issue
death threats.

That's "ignorant arrogance"
for you.

Fast forward to nowadays, and
um...you see more of this
weird phenomenon out there
than ever, don't you?

Is it cool to sit in judgment
of others to begin with? Of
course not.

But when someone does that
from a position of complete
misinformation it flat-out
makes most normal people's
blood boil.

That's just exponentially more
irritating.

Nobody in that scenario ends
up looking cool, do they?

For sure, I completely get
there are quite a few women
out there who indulge in the
height of "ignorant arrogance"
pretty much habitually, just
because of their looks.

And my guess is that often
serves as a miracle cure for
"beauty vision" in the eyes
of many self-respecting guys.

Meanwhile, being INFORMED and
INQUISITIVE makes everyone in
the picture look good.

As such, it wins friends and
influences people.

Make the decision right now
to be that guy. Watch your
social life improve right
before your very eyes as a
direct result.

I can tell you with 100%
certainty that your fortunes
with high quality women will
improve as well.
 

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