[X&Y] What To Do If You're Not A "Natural" With Women
Published: Wed, 04/09/25
Updated: Wed, 04/09/25
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HARDLY ANY OF US ARE "NATURALS"
WITH WOMEN
WITH WOMEN
Okay, so one of you asked me a really good
question the other day.
"Hey Scot, what is the 'typical guy' who reads
your newsletters like?"
You might be anywhere from 18 to 89 (yes...89
is the oldest guy I've heard from so far via
e-mail).
You could live in pretty much any country on
Earth (from Afghanistan to Zimbabwe, literally).
No North Koreans yet, though.
Your current skill level could be total
total beginner, another world-class dating
expert, or anywhere in-between.
BUT...you're almost always smart, talented
and have a bright future.
You are a man of high character.
That is to say, virtually NONE of you are
total "basket cases".
Rather, plenty of you have just about
everything going for you--whether you
realize it or not--no thanks to a "limiting
belief" or two lurking here and there.
But the main thing you DON'T have in your
life yet is the right woman.
The overwhelming majority of you believe you
deserve her, and you have every intention of
treating her right once she's in your life.
Does it surprise you that most every guy I
coach 1-on-1 is razor sharp?
It shouldn't. It follows logically from
who the typical subscriber to this newsletter
is.
These guys put me to work for them
because they want to end the frustration.
They're sick and tired of it.
To this day, they ALL have improved their
fortunes with women.
What I hear most often is something to the
effect of, "This has exceeded my
expectations. I never imagined the full effect
of what life is like when women love me. I
should have gotten a handle on this YEARS
ago."
Those who step up and make a bold move
toward excellence are almost always the
ones who actually get there.
You see, being an effective coach means
relating to your previous experiences, your
current situation and your lifestyle.
So no, I'm no "natural". I know what it's
like to experience frustration with women.
But importantly, I also know what it takes to
turn that around for the better because I've
been there.
Knowing what is possible, my vision
for YOUR dating life might be bigger than
your own.
Let's face it though, all of that is
pointless unless I can impart the most
valuable skills to you also.
Fortunately, one thing I am a "natural"
at is teaching.
Perhaps most importantly of all, though, I'm
here because the one thing I'm most stoked
about in life is empowering more men all over
the world to live the dream in a way all too few
guys ever get to.
No doubt, when you put me to work for you I'll
give you straight answers that might be hard
to hear. After all, you will have hired me to
tell you what your friends often won't.
But you'll always know I've got your back.
I'll believe in your success with all of my
heart, and that will always come through
in our conversations.
After a bitter divorce back in 2002 I never
thought I'd find happiness with a woman ever
again.
Nowadays, the greatest woman I've ever met
and I have been going strong for over 19
years together.
And I had been dating the women I really
wanted for at least two years before
I met Emily.
Do the arithmetic there. See, it doesn't
take all that long to get real results,
does it?
But you have to DO SOMETHING to get the
ball rolling.
Right now I have two spots open in my
Ten-Plus coaching program.
Write me at:
...and tell me your story.
Or, you can reach out to me here:
https://www.scotmckay.net/schedule
I'd love to hear what you have going on.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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