[X&Y] Hello From Emily

Published: Mon, 04/14/25

Updated: Fri, 04/18/25



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HELLO FROM EMILY


Hi, guys. It’s me Emily today.

Scot handed me the mic, which
anyone who knows him already
realizes is rare!

But hey, I love talking to men who
really want to understand women
better too.

Believe me, we notice the difference
between a guy who’s going through
the motions and a man who gets it.

So howsabout a little "insider info"
from the female brain?

As both Scot and I talk about all
the time, we want you as a man
to lead...but with genuinely good
intentions, not simply to be in
control for the sake of it.

When a man takes initiative, makes
decisions, and shows he has some
direction in life it lights us up.

The best way I know how to put it
is we women want you to win.

We hear from a lot of guys who kind
of think we as women are looking
for reasons to "reject" them.

But a lot of good that would do us!

We’re rooting for you to be the
kind of man we can’t wait to say
"yes" to.

And the best part? I may be the
optimistic type (and I am) but
you're probably already that guy.

Women notice the little things more
than you think.

Not like in a judgy way or anything,
but we notice.

The way you carry yourself, your
attention to details, and of course
how you look at us.

That "how he looks at me" thing is
like a repeating theme in LOTS of
the movies women watch.

We know when you really adore us
as opposed to either just wanting
us sexually or even being afraid
of us.

Guys being afraid of us is not
something most women can
understand.

Lately, a lot of you guys have been
frustrated by women "ghosting" you.

I have to tell you, that's not just
a woman thing. Guys do that to the
ladies too, and it irks them just as
much.

But for women's part, they'll
usually not get flaky because you
are not “hot enough” or “funny
enough”.

Nine times out of ten?

It's because your energy just felt
sort of "off".

Lots of guys seem to be trying too
hard, or too timid to tell us what
they truly think or feel.

The example I think of first is
when a guy asks us on what we
think is a date, but then doesn't
show any interest in us as more
than friends.

It's like we KNOW this is a date,
but then it feels like "just friends".

Is it him, or is it us? We can't
tell.

That's when we awkwardly refuse
second dates, or stop answering
texts.

I know, not a good look, right?

But when you're unapologetic about
why you asked us out to begin with?

And then LOOK at us like you really
like us...not just want to USE us?

That's when we get a little thrill,
and tell our girlfriends about the
amazing new guy we met!

Oh well, that's already a lot.

Let me know if this was helpful at
all to you guys. Scot reassured me
like ten times that what I kinda
thought was pretty simple only
seemed like that to me because I'm
a woman!

If it's helpful, I can write some
more soon!


Have Fun,

Emily McKay

 

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