[X&Y] What To Do If The Dating Advice You're Given Doesn't Work

Published: Mon, 01/13/25

Updated: Mon, 01/13/25



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IN THIS EDITION: Some businesses believe that if something isn't
working, they should do twice as much of it. Those businesses tend
to FAIL. Find out how that same principle relates to getting
better with women.

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"I LOVE EVERYTHING THAT'S WRONG WITH ONLINE DATING"


There...I said it. How's that for a dark (and eyebrow raising)
confession?

But it's true. And wait until you see how my story reaps big benefits
for you.

You see, back when I was online I got frustrated when women
totally misrepresented themselves in their pictures and profiles.

I'm sure you can relate.

I also realized that women ruthlessly erased messages from me
without even bothering to look at my profile...even though we might
have been great for each other in real life.

Does that one sound familiar, also?

The simple (and twisted) fact that even average women were
inundated with attention while the vast majority of men never got
any at all
wasn't lost on me either. (Or on you, I'm sure.)

Man, did that ever make my blood boil.

All of that crazy truth hit me like a ton of bricks when I first went
online.

And yes, I nearly quit...just like a whopping 95% of the other guys
out there who feel the pain.

But something incredibly pleasurable happened instead.

Sooner than later I emerged victorious.

I figured out how to CRUSH the obstacles.

I discovered how to OVERCOME the odds...even though I was "too
short", "too old" and not exactly photogenic.

Suddenly--as if out of nowhere, really--I figured out how to beat
the system
and make online dating work for me.

Since no other guys ever bothered to figure that out, there was an
amazing (but actually predictable) result: I started meeting nearly
ALL the women I wanted to meet the most.


That was going on for one reason, and one reason only: because
all the other guys online weren't only clueless, they were downright
stubborn about it.


(Okay, maybe that's two reasons. But you get the point.)

So yes...in one fell swoop I instantly started LOVING everything
that was WRONG with online dating.

After all, as long as that veil hadn't been lifted for other guys I held
a MASSIVE advantage.

But now it's your turn.

I'm passing the torch, and you get to take over.

Fast-forward nearly seventeen years...

Nowadays, I've long since met Emily and "retired" from online
dating.

That can only mean one thing.

I have no reason to hold back ANY of my secrets from you.

In fact, having been immersed in teaching this stuff for ages now,
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You'll be an instant genius at writing a profile that makes women
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Your pictures will stop female traffic.

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On Tinder, Bumble and Hinge you'll get swiped right as every other
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There's no better way to be the man high quality women want and
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LETTER FROM A READER:  SHOULD YOU KEEP DOING WHAT
DOESN'T WORK?



Hi Scot, I have enjoyed your free letters ever since I heard you
interviewed by David DeAngelo years ago.
 
I have gone out and approached over 10,000 women last year alone
and have done so more or less since my first bootcamp with a guy
called [withheld] in Europe.

I have written over 10,000 letters to women on online dating using
[another withheld]'s material.

I'm 44, a nurse, and studying to become a biologist. Since my
material situation is not great as a student, and neither is my
looks--I hope it really is as experts keep claiming, that lacking the
above will not be a major factor for most women.

I still have to learn how to "kiss-close" a woman even though I
lean in on high notes during interactions and if the woman pulls
back, I wait, and go for it again later again.

I just wonder how many years does it take to get this right,
normally?

Last summer I took another bootcamp at a dating company called
[yet another withheld] and again I was asked to walk up to women
and talk to them.

I find that very easy, but from there on nothing worked, so again I
talked to a lot of people including women, but I never experienced
any attraction.

Have you some advice other than keep doing what I'm doing, or is it
just that in the end it really is a numbers game?  If so, I must be
pretty close to a breakthrough!


Best regards,

Nigel (Bristol, UK)




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What's up, Nigel?  Man, am I ever glad you wrote me. 

It sounds like you're ready to end the frustration and find some
real answers
.

First of all, let me reassure you that success with women is
certainly not a matter of simply trying harder.  And I promise you
that attracting high quality women isn't a "numbers game". 

Guys who start attracting women tend to attract MORE women.
Meanwhile, those who fail to do so tend to continue in failure.

There's more to life than pickup, and you will never, ever
succeed at getting women to genuinely like you with techniques
alone, no matter how many more tens of thousands of times you
try what already isn't working.

Similarly, you'll never, ever be able to cut and paste a woman
whose profile you see online into your life.

I'm sorry you've spent your resources over the past few years on
that sort of stuff, but "kiss closing" isn't the actual goal.

Getting control over your dating life and being a chooser is.
Kissing women becomes an obvious afterthought at that point.

And that's true even if you're trying to "get laid", so bear in
mind that what I'm talking about is irrespective of lifestyle
choice.

What works when it comes to creating genuine, natural attraction
tends to do so whether you're looking for women for a fling or
for a long-term relationship.

Why?  Because women are human beings and they will generally not
respond to PUA tactics any more than anyone with even the slightest
amount of common sense will respond to being "closed" by a cheesy
salesman with a product nobody wants.
 
If you want a real, live woman to adore you, you've got to deserve
what you want. 

Pressing the "easy button" in terms of tricks, tactics or "quick
fixes" will at best land you "easy" women (read, women with low
self-esteem and therefore low standards).

And even THEN, the overall "success" rate leaves a lot to be
desired.
 
On the other hand, what's amazing to most guys is when you
become a man who attracts high quality women, you actually get
most of the rest of them to be intrigued by you also. 

If you think about it, that shouldn't really come as too big a
surprise.

It's just that you won't feel particularly compelled to have the
average ones around when the higher quality ones are available
to you.
 
Were you to take just the next three or four months to become the
kind of man women want, it really will take a fraction of the time
that learning and trying all the pickup artist stuff has taken you
thus far.

Isn't that ironic?  Searching for the ever elusive ultimate trick
with women is almost ALWAYS more time-consuming than
becoming a better man who attracts better women as a direct
result.

If for some reason that logic doesn't compute, look at it this way. 

You're in your mid forties, an age where people of late teens to
early-twenties should be able to look up to you as a father figure.

Moreover, you're in a profession where caring about human beings is
the primary goal.  Why not stay true to yourself here and be that
same kind of leader and protector when in the company of women
who attract you? 

It'll be attractive to them also, regardless of your looks and/or
financial condition--whatever that condition is, for what it's
worth, favorable or otherwise.
 
You wouldn't seek to "close" people who look up to you or who come
to you for care, so why treat the women in your life with any less
respect?

After all, one of them just might become very, very important to
you someday, right?

It's ALWAYS better to be an authentic "big four" man who is
confident, masculine as women define it, able to make a woman
feel safe and comfortable and--best of all--has strong character that
qualifies you for a healthy, happy long-term relationship. 

And believe me, even if you really don't want a serious
relationship with a woman right now, you may some day.

It's a great luxury to be able to choose not only which women you
want, but also what kind of relationship you'd like to have with
them.

 

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