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TOMORROW NIGHT: Charm And Charisma

Wed. 1/29 @8pm EST (GMT -5)

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THE ELUSIVE "IT FACTOR"


Whenever it is said someone has the
"It Factor", they're talking about something
intangible to the observer...but definitely
there.

It's a vibe--a presence--that makes someone
stand out in the best way possible compared
to everyone else.

It's VERY real.

And yes, it CAN be defined after all:

It's charismatic charm.

Being charming and charismatic are not
the same thing. But the two traits fit
together perfectly, and are a "magic
cocktail" of social success when combined.

Doors are opened.

Women are enchanted.

Other men follow.

Mistakes are forgiven as if you have a
secret "get out of jail free card".
Generally speaking, men with this dynamic
duo of traits live, well...a charmed life.

Tomorrow night's Masterclass For Men is
all about flipping the script on emanating a
charming, charismatic presence...turning the
intangible into practical reality:



MASTERCLASS FOR MEN: CHARM AND CHARISMA

TOMORROW, 29th January @8pm EST (GMT -5)

https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/mc-january-2025



So...why do so few men possess these all-
powerful qualities?

It's NOT because they're difficult or
complicated to attain.

It's mostly because there really hasn't
been a clear, actionable roadmap to
getting there.

Until now.

This Masterclass will deliver every secret
to being a truly charming and charismatic
man...including MANY you're guaranteed to
have never heard before.

Put even 10% of the steps you'll discover in
this Masterclass into practice and you'll:


  * Naturally cause women to
want more, more, more of you.

  * Influence your fellow men
to follow you.

  * Watch in amazement as more
opportunities are offered to you.

  * Notice your general quality
of life improve like gangbusters.


YES...it's ALL learned skill. Charm and
charisma aren't genetic, like so many
people assume.

And once you get it, you ARE "it". (See
what I did there?)

Seriously, when it comes to levelling up
just about every aspect of your entire
life, there's no more transformational
a skillset you can possibly acquire.

Join us for TOMORROW night's big event
and getchasum for yourself:



MASTERCLASS FOR MEN: CHARM AND CHARISMA

TOMORROW, 29th January @8pm EST (GMT -5)

https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/mc-january-2025



If you can't make it tomorrow night,
that's no problem at all. The complete
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8 REASONS WHY SO MANY YOUNGER WOMEN GO FOR
OLDER GUYS
 

One of the great things about this newsletter is that all kinds of
guys of all ages read it.

Some of you are 18 years old and just getting started with all of
this.  Meanwhile, the oldest guy I've heard from is 89, and yes
he's out there meeting women.

This makes it somewhat difficult for me to write about "age gap"
related stuff while keeping it relevant to most of you.

Today's topic is exceptional, though.  It's about WHY younger
women tend to go for older guys.

You see, if you're an older guy what I'm about to share should
empower you significantly.  By the time you're done reading, you'll
have a solid head start on what really does make you particularly
attractive.

But YES...if you're only in your late teens or early-to-mid-
twenties this will STILL prove immensely valuable to you.

After all, if you could somehow bottle up what you're about to hear
and take a big swig of it, you'd probably get ALL the women your
age (or any age, for that matter).

That's because it's not AGE per se that attracts younger women to
older guys.  Rather, it's what they bring to the table that most
younger guys CAN'T.  

If you represent the eight factors below effectively, women will be
more than happy to date a guy their own age...no problem.

So with that, here's the "magic list":



1)  They at least have a plan for doing something with their lives.


By now you know that AMBITION makes women hot.  Unfortunately,
most younger guys haven't really sorted out their identity, let alone
where they're headed in this life.

Once we as guys hit around twenty-eight or thirty years of age
however, something crazy tends to happen.  We start thinking more
about our life purpose and how to get on with getting the job done.

This is exactly what builds that all-important sense of security in
a woman.  Note that you don't exactly have to have arrived at
massive career success just yet, you just need to have a firm plan
and be on-track with it.

 

2)  They stop overreacting emotionally when something pisses
them off.


Younger guys tend to fly off the handle and lose their cool WAY
sooner than older guys do.

Sure, there are plenty of guys in their 30's and older who still
throw temper tantrums.  But let's face it, they're pathetic. 

They're NOT the older guys who attract younger women.

If you can't control your own emotions, you won't be seen as a
"protector" by women.  They won't be sexually attracted to
you...period.



3)  They don't get rattled by little problems.


Did you know that MTV reports a shocking drop-off in viewership at
around age 35?

There's a reason for this.  Whereas MTV's wildly popular reality
shows might have been intriguing in the past, something clicks in
the more mature mind.

Suddenly watching a bunch of twenty-somethings foment massive
drama out of the minutiae of daily life becomes a real eye-roller.

That's because when we mature, we realize it's a useless waste
of energy to care so much whether so-and-so is flirting with so-
and-so or not.  And if someone guzzles the last Dr. Pepper in the
fridge, we can get more...no worries.

Women are magnetically drawn to guys who don't sweat the small
stuff.  It's confidence inspiring, and that's irresistibly sexy to
them.



4)  They're unfazed by "bad ass" chicks


This is along the same lines as the previous one in that it's all
about not losing our cool over openly-displayed insecurity, except
in this case it's more directly about our interaction with women
themselves.

More mature men are far less likely to feel compelled to "match up"
with athletic, quick-witted and/or otherwise successful women. 

Instead, they focus on what's important...igniting her femininity.

Invariably, this fries sharp women's circuits.  After all, they're used
to a constant stream of men trying to out-do them.  Meanwhile, the
wiser and more effective approach is to call out her feminine
energy rather than trying to play one-upmanship with her masculine
side.

Older guys know you stay out of the "Just Be Friends Zone" by
making her feel like a woman.  It's really that simple.

Take a "devil may care" demeanor toward her bad-assery.  You can
appreciate it, but feeling like you have to compete directly against
it is the kiss of death.



5)  They do what they say they'll do.


I've heard time and again from older guys who are frustrated by how
"flaky" younger women are.  It can seem more likely than not that
they'll agree to dates and never show up.

Guess what?  That problem is NOT gender specific...and it's not very
masculine, either. 

"Good character", you'll recall, is one of the "big four" traits that
attract high quality women...and this gets to the very heart of the
matter.



6)  They take personal responsibility for their actions, their
decisions and yes...themselves. 


Being a "blamer" is a sign of immaturity.  Every man who has ever
made something of himself in this life has gotten over any natural
tendency to point the finger.

Nobody is EVER going to be more interested in your success than
YOU are, so the earlier you take the bull by the proverbial horns
and stop being a "slacker", the better.

And by "better", I mean for your professional life AND your love
life.

If you aren't in college or are going to college locally make it
your goal to have your own place and do your own laundry by the
time your 21st birthday rolls around, at least.  

If you're away at college, don't dare go home to live with Mommy
and Daddy after you graduate.  Buck up and make your own way as a
real man.



7)  They stop making knucklehead decisions that hurt
themselves and others.


Most young guys "live in the moment" without thinking about future
consequences.

As painful a truth as it is, the ability to make skillful life
decisions (aka "wisdom") is typically acquired over LOTS of time
and after LOTS of painful trial and error.

But there's just no doubt about it.  Women LOVE a man who has
things handled and who chooses the right path more often than not.

Averting disaster =  being an effective protector

This formula is especially true because young women are equally
myopic about the future as young guys are.  The difference is
that young women really like having a mature guy come along who
knows how to lead, and they joyfully let him do so.



8)  They're less self-absorbed. 


More mature guys consider how words and actions affect those around
them rather than living in their own little world.  

Shortsighted selfishness is the realm of the immature.  In fact,
it's a dead giveaway.

Younger guys are always going off about how someone "disrespected
them", or whatever. More mature men are over that, and over
themselves.  There are simply bigger fish to fry in this life.

And how do women view this?  Let's just say it's hard to be one
half of a great relationship when the world revolves around oneself
to the exclusion of everyone else.


To be honest, it's hard to even make a woman feel horny toward you
if it's unclear whether or not you have her best interests at
heart. 



9)  BONUS: They're less likely to be "Mr. Nice Guy"



So there you have it, plain and simple.

If you're older, you'd better get these right if you want to
succeed with ANY women, actually...let alone younger ones.

But if you master them, you'll watch your fortunes with women
of ANY age skyrocket.

And if you're younger, get this list down and you'll be a RARE
individual in a sea of immature fartknockers. 

How killer will it be to get rid of any chance you have of losing
the women you want to an older guy?

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