[X&Y] Say This When Meeting A Woman. It's Perfect.

Published: Fri, 02/07/25

Updated: Fri, 02/07/25



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SOMETHING PERFECT TO SAY WHEN MEETING A WOMAN


I figured it was time for a haircut yesterday, so I went to the same
chick who cuts my hair as usual.

It was late afternoon on the day after a major holiday, and she
had been busy as hell on her feet all day. 

The simple truth that she was pretty much spent and ready to go
home was written all over her face.

When my turn came, it occurred to me to say a phrase I've had
in my back pocket for several years now, for use on just such an
occasion.

"So...what do you know that's good?"

She responded with a rather forlorn, "Good?  I'm going to have to
think about that one."

Without missing a beat I said, "Well, I'm not interested in hearing
anything bad, so out with it."

Gazing upward in a quick moment of thought, she looked back at me
and shrugged.  "Well, the weekend is here, huh?"

"That's GOOD" , I said, probably with a slightly victorious grin on
my face.

The corner of her mouth turned up ever so slightly.  She laughed
out loud, in a way that was eerily reminiscent of how women often
laugh right after they've finished crying.

Success.  I had "brought out the playful" in her. 

It works virtually every time. 

Now remember, I can't take a whole lot of credit for this whole
exchange.  It just sort of came to me a few years ago when I
first tried it.

But looking back on it, the real value of opening a conversation
with a woman in the manner I just described is that it pretty much
eliminates any reasonable possibility of getting a negative
response in return, doesn't it?

Think of it.  If you ask ANY red-blooded human being (female or
otherwise) "what they know that's good" and get a surly, negative
or even insulting answer, what can you immediately conclude?

If you said, "it's THEM and not ME, for sure" give yourself a
prize.

Check it out...just about anyone can find himself or herself in "a
mood" after a long, frustrating day.  If you say any old generic
thing to someone in that state, it theoretically might not end well.

But when you casually, but directly get them on the track of thinking
of what's GOOD, most decent people WILL check themselves before
ripping you a new one verbally.  

Anyone but a raging psychopath would feel horrible if they didn't.

By now you know that I'm not much into memorizing "openers", at
least in the tired, old pickup sense.  But sure, go ahead and try out
the strategy I just suggested for yourself and let me know how it
goes.

It's simple enough, and when you get right down to it it's not
really about the order of the words or even the "line" itself at
all.  It's about the vibe.

Mean and negative people suck, and most people DON'T want to be
downers, whether they think they can help it in the moment or not.

But I think the real beauty of asking, "What do you know that's good?"
is that it leads in a positive direction, yet in a way that
subcommunicates masculine confidence and character rather than
some sort of lame "Mr. Nice Guy" neediness.

What we're talking about here is lightening a woman up AND igniting
her femininity, all in one easy step.

I've recently started to refer to that magical combo as "warm levity"

And what do you know?  That's good.
 

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