[X&Y] The #1 Most Curable Reason Why Men FAIL With Women
Published: Mon, 06/23/25
Updated: Tue, 06/24/25
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YOU DESERVE WHAT YOU WANT, BUT
YOU'VE GOT TO TAKE IT
How To Handle Competition From Other Men
Wednesday, June 25th at 8pm EDT
Whether it's in your career, in your social
life or with women there's one constant
you can count on:
If you want it, and it's worth having,
then other men what it also.
Like it or not, that's how we as men are
hard-wired. Everything is a competition.
But what if that just doesn't sound like
you?
What if you've always kind of accepted
what comes to you without expecting
much?
After all, you're a decent dude and the LAST
thing you want to do is come off as some
sort of bully.
I mean, what if you're the kind of guy who'd
just rather avoid confrontation altogether?
Well the hard truth is MOST of us as men
men nowadays settle for much less than we
deserve.
Why? Because we err on the side of
caution in competitive situations with
other men.
In many ways, that's how post-modern
society has influenced us.
But have you ever noticed it's the same
dominant men who seem to get all the
attention, get the promotion at work, and
(of course) get the girl?
Well, it's YOUR turn.
This Wednesday night's Masterclass For
Men is when you finally go to the head of
the line, for a change:
How To Handle Competition From Other Men
Wednesday, June 25th at 8pm EDT
Hey, I completely get that it's not like
you're out there literally getting sand
kicked in your face.
This isn't the playground. This is the
REAL world with REAL adults.
That means you have to handle that guy
who's subtly making you look bad at
work...mostly because he wants your job.
You have to outgun and outmaneuver so-
called "alpha" guys to get the girl.
And yes, once you get her you need to
know EXACTLY what to do when some
other d-bag starts chatting her up.
What if I told you there are real,
practical secrets to doing ALL of that
and more?
Best of all, you don't have to become
some sort of "Idiot/Jerk" to get it done.
In fact, you can make everyone else
respect you and even LIKE you more
BECAUSE you're getting what you want:
How To Handle Competition From Other Men
Wednesday, June 25th at 8pm EDT
This event happens in just over 48
hours.
THIS WEDNESDAY, June 25th at 8pm
EDT.
If you don't get what you want, some
other guy will. It's your turn.
As always, if Wednesday night isn't
good for you, no problem.
The Download Portal will be there for
you shortly afterward.
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THE #1 MOST CURABLE REASON WHY MEN FAIL WITH WOMEN
Almost invariably, guys I talk to are genuinely good men with a lot going
for them. That goes whether they are actively spending time with women
at the moment or not.
I've noticed an odd pattern, though.
The pattern is this: They get rejected...A LOT. And they flat-out
cannot understand why even average women are repeatedly blowing
them off...online and offline.
After all, they've got so much to offer. What's up with these women?
Can't they see that?
Well, here it is: YES...those women most certainly CAN see that.
And that's exactly the problem.
What?
Here's what I mean.
To make the point, let's draw a picture of the quintessentially perfect
guy who should have no "limiting beliefs" whatsoever.
Consider a successful professional. Let's say he's 35-years-old,
in peak physical condition and financially stable. Better yet,
he's got the "big four" in full effect.
But perhaps he's getting over "Mr. Nice Guy" stuff, or he's coming
off a brutal break-up that has knocked him flat.
For some reason, he's not enjoying a wildly successful dating life
at the moment.
So based on advice he picked up somewhere along the way, he
decides to go after some "average" women online to warm up his
skills, and perhaps build his confidence.
Well, that ends up going nowhere. NOBODY responds. Not one
woman.
His confidence takes a massive nosedive.
His head spins. Clearly his pictures sucked, his profile wasn't
sharp enough and his first-emails lacked something, right?
Or his way of approaching is all wrong, his body language is
sending all the wrong messages, or...who knows?
So he tightens everything up and goes for a second round.
Yet, all he hears in return are pins dropping and crickets chirping.
Dejected, he GIVES UP.
Well, guess what?
His initial self-assessment was 100% correct. He does have quite
a lot to offer a great woman.
The problem?
He wasn't going after the caliber of great women he deserves.
Instead, he e-mailed women he considered "average" enough that
they were sure to like him.
For that matter, maybe he struck up conversations with them in the
supermarket, also.
It doesn't matter where it was, online or offline.
Ironically enough, it's likely that these women DID like him.
But they probably were also left to wonder, "What on Earth does a
guy like THAT want with a woman like ME?"
Yep...these are the thoughts that go through some women's minds.
If you think I'm kidding you should read Emily's e-mails sometime.
Women who don't value themselves as highly as they should seriously
avoid showing interest in the sharpest guys or giving them approval.
They automatically assume ulterior motives, and that's IF they
don't somehow believe that the guy's profile (could that be your
profile?) is a fake or a scam.
Raise your hand if you yourself have ever actually gone through a
"slump" online only to finally get a date and have a woman say, "So,
um....when's the REAL version of you going to jump out from behind
a bush? You're too good to be true."
If that has happened to you, here's the deal: You are settling
before you even get started. It's just as I've described above.
Now listen, this isn't something to beat yourself up over. The
"rejection" you are perceiving really could be a series of
backhanded compliments.
No joke.
In fact, I personally suffered through an embarrassingly long
stretch of this sort of thing myself.
But the breakthrough came for me when I realized it was time
to trust the process I had worked so diligently on.
It was time to fly without a net and actually start approaching
the very sharpest women out there, online OR offline.
I put my fire suit on, believe me. After all, like most of us, I
considered the highest-quality women too amazing to even
fantasize about.
But here's the thing. When I started focusing on the women I
really felt I deserved, great things started happening.
That's the breakthrough that resulted in solid response rates
online.
That's when I really started to raise the bar all around.
Why?
Well, simply enough, great women realize they deserve a
high-quality guy. And when he shows up, they take notice.
And guess what? Time and again I've watched guys I know
experience a similar breakthrough.
It all started for them when they put their thoughts of having lots
to offer a great woman into gear, once and for all.
So what's the deal? Do you suspect you are what a great woman
should want, but you aren't going after great women?
Are you feeling rejected, when in reality you've been intimidating
"average" women with your above average expectations?
Are your requirements in a woman betrayed by your unwillingness
to swing for the fence?
Do you not trust that the great ones really are waiting for you
to approach them?
Have you ever stopped to think that were you to get those
"average" women to go out with you, neither of you would be
happy?
Meanwhile, have you considered that the sharpest women are
often the most likely to go dateless?
Be a man. Lead. Deserve what you want. And give those great
women the rare, desirable experience in a man that they've been
craving.
My recommendation is to start doing it today.
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