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FLIRTING EXPLAINED (AND MADE EASY)


What thoughts cross your mind when you hear the word "flirting"?

Be honest.

For years (make that decades) I used to equate the concept of
flirting with making the kind of remarks and/or gestures toward
women that would get you slapped for your efforts.

Images of construction workers whistling at female passers-by.

Unsolicited whacks on the tail.

Lines like "Hey baby, nice shoes..."

Know what I mean?

Basically, being called a "flirt" was never something positive back
when I was in school. At least, I didn't THINK it was. 

Except that in retrospect, all the guys who the girls would accuse
of "flirting" in an apparently irritated and/or even shocked tone of
voice also seemed to be the ones who got to go out with them.

The pattern was regular and predictable.

Was it that maybe the girls actually LIKED being flirted with, and
that my own misinformation about all "male behavior" equating to
"bad behavior" had clouded my logic?

Nah...couldn't have been. 

Flirting HAD to have been a bad idea if you wanted to be a "nice
guy". 

At least that's what I used to think.

But nowadays my perspective has changed.

It all started when I began to figure out that women talk about
flirting A LOT. In fact, women's dating advice is practically
obsessed with it.

Considering how much they talk about it, I realized it can't
automatically be a "negative" in their mindset.

The truth is that women, like men, want to know HOW to flirt...and
they want to know WHEN to flirt. 

Moreover, they really do want to know how to respond positively to
men who are flirting with them.

That means their go-to solution isn't necessarily as straightforward
as, "slap the guy silly, stomp away angrily and call security."

That wouldn't require nearly as much writing on the subject from
"lady gurus".

Go figure.

So here's the deal.If women WANT to be flirted with, then it
follows logically that the real definition of what flirting is must
somehow be different than "unsolicited, unwanted sexual
advances".

And it is.

There is a HUGE, GINORMOUS difference between flirting
and sexual harassment. 

The real definition of flirting is not only VERY different than
what most of us as guys assume it is, it's also disarmingly simple.

Ready?

"Flirting" is simply any interaction of any kind with MOTOS
(members of the other sex) that would flat-out feel wrong or
awkward were it directed to someone of the same gender.

Granted, I'm assuming heterocentrism here, but I trust you get
my point.

It's not necessarily overtly sexual communication.

It's simply different than how heterosexual members of the same sex
tend to interact with each other.

If you see a woman coming the other way and smile at her, you
probably wouldn't have smiled that way at another guy.

We all know that if you lock eyes with a man and hold the gaze, it
signals potential hostility.  So you'd probably avoid that
scenario.  But if you lock eyes with a woman and hold it, that's
different.

If you're checking in at the airline counter and the woman asks for
your ID, you might joke with her that she's probably wondering if
she's old enough to hang with you.  Innocent enough...but not exactly
what you'd say to a man behind the counter.  Right?

If you're shopping for clothes and ask a particularly hot woman who
works there to recommend some stylish threads to "make you look
good", and she obliges, my guess is that you'll interact with her
along the way a bit differently than you would were some dude
helping you.

In fact, you'd probably tell the guy who works there that you were
"just looking" and take your chances on your own.

Why?

Because that's different.  It's just not the same when someone of
the same gender helps you with stuff like that.

I think too many of us as guys are uptight about flirting, if not
downright scared of it, because we treat it as a black-and-white
issue.

In other words, we talk ourselves into believing we've either got
to "go direct" in expressing sexual interest in a woman OR keep
what's in our imagination a secret.

What if you started looking at the grey area?

What if you made a habit of realizing that simple banter with women
doesn't necessarily have to be sexually charged in order to be
flirting? 

Could you potentially see how by changing your mindset you can
quickly and easily set yourself apart as a MAN rather than some
neuter creature...all the while without being creepy, sleazy or
pushy?
 
What if you began to free yourself to interact with women in a way
that's different than how you interact with other guys?

Does that sound good?  I Thought so.

And here is the wild part:  I bet you already do exactly that.

Every day.  Probably without even realizing it.

95% or more of us as guys are on auto-pilot insofar as interacting
with women "differently" goes.

In other words, it's likely that you already have more practice and
are probably better at flirting than you guess.

Now, don't get me wrong.  If you are one of the 5% out there who
absolutely, positively and robotically responds to any and every
human being in the same manner all the time, you probably need to
loosen up.

In fact, call me immediately and let's get that handled.

But see, knowing how most of us think, my guess is that about 80%
of you guys reading this are assuming you're part of that 5%.

And you probably are not.

Test me here.  The next time you leave the house, pay careful
attention to how you interact with men compared to how you interact
with women.  My educated guess is that you'll note clear
differences that you may not have even noticed before.

That's because you're a flirt.  And you're hard-wired to be,
practically from birth.  Seriously. 

Heck, even babies flirt with MOTOS by nature.  Just watch that
little tiny girl in the next booth try to get your attention the
next time you're at a restaurant.

Flirting is certainly not limited only to hot women you are
attracted to, let alone only to women you've just met.

Since it's not necessarily sexually charged, just about anyone or
anything female could potentially be responded to "differently".

And they should be responded to "differently"...even if you've
known them for fifty years. 

It's all about making women smile.  It's about making them
comfortable with you.  It's about giving them the distinct
privilege, accompanied by the subtle thrill, of having a MAN in
their presence.

Now, with THAT final piece of the puzzle in place, you can now see
how what I'll call "stage 2" flirting--the kind that involves a little
more sexual zing--is a natural outflow from this different style of
communication with women.

But as a man, you can modulate how that goes by leading as you
interact with women. 

For instance, you might say something fun and challenging to
brighten her day.

How does she respond?

If she responds in a manner that is decidedly different than how
she might respond to a fellow female human being, then you've
found a willing accomplice.

If she's stone cold and about as neuter as a Styrofoam cup...
well, maybe not.

But if she responds powerfully to your leadership in the
conversation, you can then train yourself to recognize that as
potential interest of the decidedly non-neuter kind. 

At that point, get her number.  Make plans to see her again.

Do something rather than leave her hanging.

Because if you do not do something, you'll disappoint her.  

Oh, and by the way, in case you haven't figured it out yet, all of
this logic works in reverse.

Have you been sitting around lately complaining that women should
"show more interest" in guys and/or "make it easier" for you to
approach them?

From now on, you know that if a woman is interacting with you in
any way that's different from how she would typically deal with
another woman, then you've got all the info you need.

Moreover, whenever women act feminine toward you, they're flirting
with you in their own inimitable way.

After all, she probably won't whistle like a construction worker,
grab your crotch or use some line on you.  At least probably not. 

So with that in mind, give all that I've shared with you a try.  I
promise you'll be blown away.

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