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WHAT'S INSIDE: What good is getting
up the nerve to approach a woman...only
to "bonk" when it's time to make
conversation?

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VOICE POWER COACHING STRAIGHT-UP
WORKS


Back in October I introduced a new coaching
package specifically about maximizing the power
and attractiveness of your VOICE.

Since then, guys who have taken advantage of it
have brought all sorts of unique challenges...
and every one of them has gotten results.

Yes, it's affordable. It generally only takes two
sessions to get a REAL breakthrough:



Voice Power Coaching

https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/voicepower/



So far, the guys I've worked with have a LOT going
for them (which is nothing new). They simply want
to supercharge their overall success...with women
and in life in general.

A recurring theme is that too many men are hinting
they've been "beaten down" in their voice. That
blind spot in particular is costing them BIG TIME.

If you suspect that's what's going on, YES...that
can get fixed in just two sessions as well.

Whatever is the case, if you want your voice to
work FOR you instead of AGAINST you, this is for
you.

Voice Power Coaching goes WAY beyond simply
attracting women:


* Increase Voice Projection, Power And
Presence

* Build Vocal Confidence And Authority

* Voice Masculinization/Eliminating Effeminate
Voice Features

* Elocution And Pronunciation

* Accent Reduction And/Or Enhancement

* Voice Flow And Cadence

* Cultural Transition/Idiomatic Expressions

* Mastering Voice Qualities Of An Influential
Leader


Or even...


* Eliminating Fear Of Public Speaking

* Public Speaking Strategy And Skill

* Live Event Announcing, Master Of
Ceremonies, Sports Play-By-Play

* Voice Training For Broadcasting/
Podcasting


If you've been considering a voice coach,
get all the details here:



Voice Power Coaching

https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/voicepower/



You can still get in on the launch price
for two full sessions, which is a
solid deal.

If you want to talk it over first to make
sure Voice Power Coaching is right for
you, that's fine by me as well:



FREE 15-Minute Intro Call



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5 UNBEATABLE TIPS FOR BETTER
CONVERSATION WITH WOMEN


So let's say you've grown a pair and started
a conversation with a woman you've had
you're eye on all night.

You've introduced yourself, and she has
responded with a smile and told you her
name.

That's where most guys completely draw
a blank.

It's as if all the killer things to say in any
situation that you had memorized just
turned to vapor and disappeared into thin
air.

Well, as painful the memories that my
example conjures up may be, I've got
excellent news.

There are at least FIVE objective, concrete
ways you can make sure such a disastrous
situation never happens again:



1)  Observe


The first mistake that guys typically make
when starting a conversation with a woman
is to get SO focused on "what to say next",
that they forget to simply look around at
what's going on.

Perhaps ironically, being observant usually
leads to countless natural, logical places
you could immediately go with a
conversation.

What's different or intriguing about her?

What is she doing?

If you're at the supermarket, what's in her
shopping cart?

It doesn't even need to be about he
directly. What music is playing? What's
happening across the room that's worth
noticing?

ANYTHING based on real-time observation
in the moment will work a LOT better than
searching through the file cards in your
brain in "panic mode" searching for the
right line to drop on her.



2)  Listen


Another casualty of working SO hard inside
your head to come up with something to
say is that you forget to LISTEN.

Have you ever been in a conversation
where the other person was clearly
thinking the whole time about what to say
next that he or she completely missed every
single thing you said?

Yeah, well...so has she.  And it's about as
uninteresting to her as it is when it happens
to you.

Remember...after you give her something to
talk about (see above), let her talk. 

If and when you pay real attention to her,
you're bound to come up with about a dozen
directions you can take the conversation
from there.



3)  Keep It Positive


I have a friend to talks about guns and
death almost all the friggin' time. 

It's fascinating to watch people leave him
standing by himself at parties once he gets
going with the "Faces Of Death" references.

Whatever you do, don't be a "Face Of Death".
Keep the topic of conversation light and
centered around bringing a smile to her face.

Needless to say, being a "hater" is kind of a
downer too. Save any complaints you have
about anything for whatever reason for the
appropriate customer service department.

Girls just want to have fun.



4)  Lower The Pressure


Talking to women is nothing like selling
aluminum siding door-to-door.

Tattoo that on your long-term memory.

It's not a race to see how fast you can get
her phone number, and for Pete's sake
(whoever he is) banish the thought of
"escalation" from your mind...at least for
now.

It's just a conversation. It's not a
competition.

This isn't about whether she'll "accept"
or "reject" you and it's also not a contest
to see how soon you can get to first base.

Relax and take inventory as to whether
or not you even LIKE her for a few
moments.

She'll appreciate that.

By the way, if you LEAD with a "low
pressure" vibe--being sure to keep 18"
away from her at first, etc.--she'll
follow. And she'll like you.

You are never automatically creepy,
weird or pushy simply because you're
male. 

You're only creepy, weird or pushy if
you're creepy, weird or pushy. 



5)  Know Funny, And Look For It


Rest assured, you don't have to be a
comedian to attract women.

But you SHOULD get acquainted with
what makes laughter happen and be
\on the lookout for it.

Examples include exaggeration, play
on words (i.e. puns) and twisting
thoughts around in a way nobody
expects.

One of my favorite examples of the
latter was written by comedian Emo
Philips:

"When I was young, I used to pray to
God for a bicycle. But then I realized
God doesn't work that way, so I stole
one and asked him to forgive me."

Importantly, you don't really have to
TRY to be "funny". Just knowing what
funny looks like can be immensely
valuable in and of itself.

Said another way, take "having a
sense of humor" literally. Be able to
sense when humor is present.



Hey, guess what? It happened again
in yet another newsletter. What do you
know...every single bullet point above
is NOT gender-specific.  

Keep all five in mind when hanging
out with other dudes or even in
business meetings (including job
interviews) and you'll be well on
your way to achieving social mastery.

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