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IN THIS EDITION: You don't always have
access to all the information you think you
need, do you? The good news is neither
does everyone else...including the woman
you have your eye on.

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IT GOT WRECKED, AS PROMISED


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I promised this month's Masterclass
For Men would wreck men's dating
advice as you know it.

That's exactly what happened.

I revealed over 40 different practical
ways to make technology work FOR
you instead of AGAINST you, for a
change.

No more "swiping yourself stupid" on
dating apps...

...and certainly no swearing allegiance
to AI:



Masterclass For Men - Beyond Dating Sites And Apps

https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/mc-july-2025



These are all next-gen ways to use the
smartphone and computer you already
have to actually, finally meet REAL
women in REAL life.

No more "dating online"...and the systemic
disappointment and frustration that went
along with it.

Like I told the guys who attended last
night, there will NOT be an Online Dating
Domination 4.0.

Last night's Masterclass was a forklift,
not a mere evolution.

The best part is every bit of it is 100%
intuitive, requires zero "tech wizardry"
and has actually been hiding in plain
sight all along.

But NOBODY has been thinking out-of-
the-box...until now:



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https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/mc-july-2025



The Download Portal is now LIVE, so
you get immediate gratification. No
waiting.

Even if you start using 10% of what's
covered immediately, I guarantee you
will start talking to more women AND
start meeting them in real life:



Masterclass For Men - Beyond Dating Sites And Apps

https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/mc-july-2025



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HOW I BEAT THE WORLD CHAMPION (TRUE STORY)


I don't talk about it much in this space, but years ago I used to
race BMX.

Although the sport was begun by kids on Schwinn Stingrays
imitating motorcycles, it's come a long way since then and is
basically Ben Hur on bicycles. Maybe you've seen it in the
Olympics.

So one time I made the main event at a national level race and
beat the World Champion. It was a wire-to-wire victory, actually.

That's 100% true. And it sounds pretty impressive, right?

But wait a minute...what if I told you that wasn't the whole
story?

In other words, I left out the details.

Well, one of the reasons why BMX racing is such an intense sport
is that once you make the finals (or "main") you get one chance to
make it or break it with seven other guys--all your own age and
skill level. It's a 40-second war on wheels, and any outcome is
possible because people crash all the time.

Sure enough, you've already guessed one major detail I omitted
from the story. The guy I beat had actually mistimed the gate in
the big race and crashed before he even got rolling:

That doesn't change the facts. My name still appeared ahead of his
in the final results.

But it's also not like I overpowered the dude, flashed mad skeelz he
couldn't touch and stuffed him in a garbage can.

Quite honestly, every other factory-sponsored badass in that final
smoked me like a cheap cigar. I got seventh place.

But hey, those aren't the details that matter if you ask me. I beat
the World Champion...at his own game, no less, which is the good
part.

One of my friends also beat one of the top guys in the USA in a
State Championship race for a similar reason. The fast guy had
wiped out in the last turn.

My friend conveniently told everyone that he had "passed him like
he was lying there".

Again...lacking a few key details.

So obviously, this newsletter isn't about what I do in my spare time.
It's about succeeding with women. That means this whole idea
of either giving or getting "no details" has to relate in some way.

Indeed it does. In fact, I'd say it does so in at least THREE ways:



1)  When She Doesn't Respond Favorably To You


Sometimes you approach a woman and she isn't interested in talking
to you. Either that or she balks at giving you her phone number at
the end of the conversation.

Most guys would call that "rejection". But he plain truth is there's a
good probability that what happened is NOT a reflection on you
personally, especially if you weren't pushy, weird or creepy.

Maybe she's got a boyfriend, for real. Maybe she's had a rough day.
Maybe she's a lesbian. I've even had a woman tell me that she
didn't talk to a guy once because she had just eaten onions and was
self-conscious about her breath.

Think about it...a woman doesn't necessarily OWE you any of those
details, does she?



2)  When A Guy Is With Her


Man, how many times do we see a woman with another guy and
automatically assume she's unavailable?

But see, in those situations the only real "detail" you're given is
the two of them happen to be hanging out together.

During a recent trip we were on a boat with several other "couples".
One was an older guy with a pretty young woman. Just when
Emily and I were convinced that the guy had done pretty well for
himself, we found out the chick was actually his daughter. Go
figure.

You can bet lots of guys you see with women are tagging
along with co-workers or having lunch with sibling.

In those situations, hang back and be observant for a couple of
minutes. You may discover more details that way.



3)  When She's Curious About You


Have you figured out why the guy in those "Most Interesting
Man In The World" commercials is so blasted intriguing?

You got it...no details.

You see his pet mountain lion jump up onto the counter as he's
cooking dinner, or you see him riding on an elephant in some
exotic place.

Beyond what's seen in those rapid-fire snippets of film, you know
nothing...and that creates intrigue. What the heck is going
on there?

Intrigue works powerfully in your favor when attracting women.

Most guys put several blatantly obvious pictures of what they're
most proud of on social media and tell lengthy stories.

Instead, try putting ONE rather subtle picture of you doing
something amazing and give NO DETAILS.

And when you're actually on a date with a woman you like, try
casually (and indirectly) alluding to amazing stuff in passing and
let her ask you for the details. Then give her only a few before
changing the subject back to her.

The mistake almost all men make is to give women all the
information in the world about themselves, even if she doesn't
need or even want to hear it yet.

Be different. Save the details until she's beside herself wanting
to hear them. If you're INTERESTING, she's going to be
INTERESTED, if you get my drift.  It works.



Hey, I know it's tough not knowing everything before getting into a
certain situation. And I realize sometimes it's even tougher to
avoid giving a woman we really like ALL the details we can.

But I have to tell you, one of the first and best ways to get over
fear of "rejection" is to realize it's not always about YOU,
regardless of what it might look like.

And similarly, one of the first and best ways to conquer being an
approval seeker is to stop giving women all the details up front.

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