[X&Y] What To Do When Your Buddies Hit On Your Girlfriend
Published: Sat, 05/31/25
Updated: Sat, 05/31/25
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IN THIS EDITION: You roll your eyes and can't
help but think, "here we go again..." One of your
acquaintances is trying to make time with your
girlfriend again, making you look bad in the
process.
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THE TOP 5% OF MEN KNOW THIS
My long-time friend Alex Allman from
Revolutionary Sex is BACK.
And let's just say he brought a bit of
an EDGE with him:
Alex Allman - The Power Switch
Yes, that is a pretty "up front" website.
But the important part is Alex has identified
5 "power traits" the top 5% of men do
to activate a woman's mating instinct.
We're not talking about the top of the
"genetic lottery" here.
We're talking about the 5% of men who
know what they're doing.
This is a golden opportunity to join them,
and finally experience what "animal
magnetism" feels like.
It's great to have you back, Alex. This
is powerful (and groundbreaking) stuff:
Alex Allman - The Power Switch
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WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR BUDDIES HIT ON YOUR GIRLFRIEND
"Scot, man...what if if one of your supposed 'friends' decides he
wants to try to steal your girlfriend from you?"
That's a question worthy of solid discussion. After all, it's a bummer
really when dudes you hang out with decide they need to compete
with you for your own girlfriend's affections.
As fortune would have it, I got an interesting e-mail from a woman
a while back. It relates directly to the topic at hand, so take a look:
Hi Scot,
I joined a guy I met recently and some of his friends at a BBQ, and
this was our first time hanging out.
The guy split his time between me and his friends, and encouraged
me do the same, while ensuring I had what I needed (wine, water)
and was comfortable (knew where the bathroom was, etc).
One of his friends was flirting with me and I enjoyed his company
and some gentle flirting back, but was always careful to focus on
the guy I'd come to meet when we were in proximity.
The other guy tried to subtly discredit his friend and to promote
himself, and it was clear he was competing for me.
The guy I'd come to see didn't rise to the bait, and even gave me
the choice of staying with his friends when he had to leave early
because he was working in the morning.
Needless to say the other guy encouraged me to stay, but I left
with the guy I'd come to see, and am very glad I did.
He showed confidence and character, always leaving the choice to
me, and ignoring the other guy's provocations. It made a VERY good
impression on me!
Yes, this is how most "normal" women would handle a similar
situation AND feel about it afterwards, particularly when they're
genuinely attracted to the guy they're with.
Contrary to what some guys believe, women aren't automatons
programmed to latch on to the latest guy to come on to them. They
usually aren't anywhere near that flaky (and if they are, stay away from
them).
To that end, look at the woman's reaction to both guys involved.
You might be a bit perturbed that she "flirted back" with the guy's
friend a bit, but ultimately you've got to give props to the fact
that he got nowhere with her.
The bottom line is that any guy in your social circle who tries to
put the moves on your girlfriend in hopes of perhaps "stealing" her
from you is going to come off as immature, at best, and flat-out
pathetic at worst.
Last I checked, neither immaturity nor being pathetic were
attractive to women.
And if the dude is trying to make you look bad in order to make
himself look better? Well, if that's the case then he's going to
look twice as ridiculous.
Like the real man who the woman who wrote me came to the party
with AND left with, you've got to trust the social process in a scenario
like that. There's no reason to get antsy about what's going on.
Any man who seeks to socially undermine your existing relationship
with a woman may as well scream out, "I'm jealous of my friend
because he's more successful with women than I'll ever be."
So relax in the confidence that the woman you came with is going to
be leaving with you. Otherwise, you're descending to the other guy's
level of insecurity.
Realize he's trying to get inside your head as much as the woman's.
If you can truly internalize that mindset you might even find it in your
heart to forgive offending acquaintances for their masculine weakness
--even if you hold their "friendship" at arm's length.
No matter what, however, I can promise things will turn out just
fine for you.
In fact, if you've succeeded at making a woman particularly crazy
about you such weird situations can become a legitimate source of
rich entertainment and personal gratification.
I remember one time I brought a particularly sexy redhead I'd begun
dating to a motocross race. To put it lightly, she generated quite a bit
of attention at a "sausage fest" like that.
One of my smart-assed acquaintances sidled up to her during one of
my races and said, "So...what in the world does a woman like you see
in a guy like Scot, anyway?"
Without diverting her attention from cheering for me, she
matter-of-factly replied, "Oh, he's amazing in bed."
Redhead was more than excited to recount the event to me first-hand
after I returned to the pit area. She was genuinely proud of herself for
making me look good in front of my "friend" who had apparently hoped
otherwise.
Let's hear it for women like that.
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IN THIS EDITION: You roll your eyes and can't
help but think, "here we go again..." One of your
acquaintances is trying to make time with your
girlfriend again, making you look bad in the
process.
=====
THE TOP 5% OF MEN KNOW THIS
My long-time friend Alex Allman from
Revolutionary Sex is BACK.
And let's just say he brought a bit of
an EDGE with him:
Alex Allman - The Power Switch
Yes, that is a pretty "up front" website.
But the important part is Alex has identified
5 "power traits" the top 5% of men do
to activate a woman's mating instinct.
We're not talking about the top of the
"genetic lottery" here.
We're talking about the 5% of men who
know what they're doing.
This is a golden opportunity to join them,
and finally experience what "animal
magnetism" feels like.
It's great to have you back, Alex. This
is powerful (and groundbreaking) stuff:
Alex Allman - The Power Switch
=====
WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR BUDDIES HIT ON YOUR GIRLFRIEND
"Scot, man...what if if one of your supposed 'friends' decides he
wants to try to steal your girlfriend from you?"
That's a question worthy of solid discussion. After all, it's a bummer
really when dudes you hang out with decide they need to compete
with you for your own girlfriend's affections.
As fortune would have it, I got an interesting e-mail from a woman
a while back. It relates directly to the topic at hand, so take a look:
Hi Scot,
I joined a guy I met recently and some of his friends at a BBQ, and
this was our first time hanging out.
The guy split his time between me and his friends, and encouraged
me do the same, while ensuring I had what I needed (wine, water)
and was comfortable (knew where the bathroom was, etc).
One of his friends was flirting with me and I enjoyed his company
and some gentle flirting back, but was always careful to focus on
the guy I'd come to meet when we were in proximity.
The other guy tried to subtly discredit his friend and to promote
himself, and it was clear he was competing for me.
The guy I'd come to see didn't rise to the bait, and even gave me
the choice of staying with his friends when he had to leave early
because he was working in the morning.
Needless to say the other guy encouraged me to stay, but I left
with the guy I'd come to see, and am very glad I did.
He showed confidence and character, always leaving the choice to
me, and ignoring the other guy's provocations. It made a VERY good
impression on me!
Yes, this is how most "normal" women would handle a similar
situation AND feel about it afterwards, particularly when they're
genuinely attracted to the guy they're with.
Contrary to what some guys believe, women aren't automatons
programmed to latch on to the latest guy to come on to them. They
usually aren't anywhere near that flaky (and if they are, stay away from
them).
To that end, look at the woman's reaction to both guys involved.
You might be a bit perturbed that she "flirted back" with the guy's
friend a bit, but ultimately you've got to give props to the fact
that he got nowhere with her.
The bottom line is that any guy in your social circle who tries to
put the moves on your girlfriend in hopes of perhaps "stealing" her
from you is going to come off as immature, at best, and flat-out
pathetic at worst.
Last I checked, neither immaturity nor being pathetic were
attractive to women.
And if the dude is trying to make you look bad in order to make
himself look better? Well, if that's the case then he's going to
look twice as ridiculous.
Like the real man who the woman who wrote me came to the party
with AND left with, you've got to trust the social process in a scenario
like that. There's no reason to get antsy about what's going on.
Any man who seeks to socially undermine your existing relationship
with a woman may as well scream out, "I'm jealous of my friend
because he's more successful with women than I'll ever be."
So relax in the confidence that the woman you came with is going to
be leaving with you. Otherwise, you're descending to the other guy's
level of insecurity.
Realize he's trying to get inside your head as much as the woman's.
If you can truly internalize that mindset you might even find it in your
heart to forgive offending acquaintances for their masculine weakness
--even if you hold their "friendship" at arm's length.
No matter what, however, I can promise things will turn out just
fine for you.
In fact, if you've succeeded at making a woman particularly crazy
about you such weird situations can become a legitimate source of
rich entertainment and personal gratification.
I remember one time I brought a particularly sexy redhead I'd begun
dating to a motocross race. To put it lightly, she generated quite a bit
of attention at a "sausage fest" like that.
One of my smart-assed acquaintances sidled up to her during one of
my races and said, "So...what in the world does a woman like you see
in a guy like Scot, anyway?"
Without diverting her attention from cheering for me, she
matter-of-factly replied, "Oh, he's amazing in bed."
Redhead was more than excited to recount the event to me first-hand
after I returned to the pit area. She was genuinely proud of herself for
making me look good in front of my "friend" who had apparently hoped
otherwise.
Let's hear it for women like that.
=====
(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2025. All Rights Reserved.
Forward this newsletter to a friend, and help
build this worldwide movement of over 100,000
men reclaiming their masculinity, standing as a
positive role model and deserving the high
quality women we want.
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