[X&Y] Settling Is For Suckers
Published: Mon, 11/17/25
Updated: Mon, 11/17/25
=====
WHAT'S INSIDE: Do you have dating
options you don't even realize are there?
=====
"I REALLY WANNA BE OVERRATED"
- Quiet Riot, Metal Health
You know this guy. He's everywhere,
everyone likes him, and women talk in
hushed tones about him.
But when you get right down to it, he
hasn't really, actually DONE a whole
lot more than anyone else.
He's just reaping all the benefits. On the
job, in his social life, and with women.
For sure, he knows exactly WHY he's
enjoying all the attention and favors he's
getting.
He's had a PLAN all along.
On Wednesday night, you'll gain access
to that entire blueprint for yourself.
You'll discover all the ways that great
brands become iconic and etched into
the consciousness of an entire society.
And you'll find out how that DIRECTLY
translates into how YOU can become
iconic yourself.
It's not like you have to become some
sort of "global influencer".
What I'll cover works BRILLIANTLY in
your social circle, your profession or with
sexy women in your neighborhood:
Masterclass For Men: Unforgettable
No more women "not feeling it". Instead,
they can't stop thinking about you.
Go from laboring anonymously to being
uniquely unforgettable.
Get credit for your accomplishments,
and turn that into more opportunities.
We've ALL been told that attracting
women comes down to STANDING
But until now, we've lacked the action
steps for doing that the RIGHT way.
That all changes this coming
Wednesday night, November
19th at 8pm EST. Join us for this
month's Masterclass For Men.
See what's included, complete with
weirdly-appropriate AI graphics, and
score your ticket to this long-overdue
event here:
Masterclass For Men: Unforgettable
This is one of those topics that
EVERY man can reap immediate
benefits from, and that crosses
over into nearly EVERY aspect of
life:
Masterclass For Men: Unforgettable
Thanksgiving is next week, so the
Masterclass is indeed THIS week.
Remember, as announced yesterday
I'm giving you last November's Masterclass
as a special bonus.
That's Handle The Holidays, yours
FREE. That makes this a 2-for-1.
I'll even give you that immediately.
And for the first time ever, you'll also
get a full month of the new VAMANOS
app to ask questions. Also FREE.
Masterclass For Men: Unforgettable
Can't make it Wednesday? You don't
have to miss out on becoming iconic
and unforgettable.
Grab you ticket now, and the fully
stocked Download Portal will be there
for you shortly after the event.
=====
SETTLING IS FOR SUCKERS
Most men don't have a large pool of women to choose from
who are clamoring for their attention.
That's why so many end up marrying the first (and often
the only) person who is willing to "put up with us".
Invariably, that leads to having "settled".
"Settling" in turn leads to zero fulfillment from the relationship.
Guys who "settle" will always have their nose pressed to the
window gazing at greener pastures outside.
If you think that sucks, imagine how his wife must feel.
She is likely to become very bitter knowing that she is not
enough for him.
Feeling inadequate--let alone BEING so--is a humiliating
existence.
And of course, a man who has "settled" likewise feels
humiliated. Even others know he could have "done
better", and sometimes they speak up about it.
So who has the more miserable existence? The woman
who is forever feeling slighted or the man who is longing
for better...all the while embarrassed to be seen in public
with his partner?
I don't know and I don't care, frankly. The question is really
moot.
The point is YOU don't have to be EITHER ONE of those
people.
In your case, since you are reading this newsletter, you're
on your way to having more options.
As such, you are virtually eliminating any possibility you
will end up "settling", as indeed most other guys do.
Instead of taking whatever you can get, even if only for a
single date, you'll have CHOICES.
This is THE key earmark of dating success. You are truly
attractive to women and are doing things right.
At that point, all that's left is to give yourself permission
to EXPLORE those options.
In my opinion, when you have the choice of numerous
worthy women, you should be dating several of them at
once...
...UNTIL you not only a clear picture of what you want in
a mate, but also until you've actually identified and
attracted the right woman
You don't have to sacrifice character or integrity in order
to do this effectively.
Your reputation as a man of integrity and class is not
at stake simply because you are getting to know lots
of women more often (and more efficiently, frankly) than
you used to.
=====
NOTE: How to date multiple people at once with dignity
is discussed in greater detail in The Leading Man:
https://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/theleadingman
=====
If you are only comfortable dating one person at a time,
then sure...it will be easier for you to manage your dating
life.
There's no fault in that, per se.
Yet, I maintain that life is simply too short to stick with
one potential partner you are unsure of until being fully
sure she is not what you want.
"Serial dating" isn't only woefully inefficient, it's more
stressful and I'd argue less fun...at least until you've got
the woman you KNOW is right for you in your life.
The only way to quickly gain an accurate perspective on
what your ultimate partner will be like is to date as many
women as you can.
Unless and until you do that, all of your conjecture about
what you want is merely unproven speculation, isn't it?
So then, to maximize your success in this most important
area of your life, leverage the options you have towards
a greater sense of who you want to be with long term.
Otherwise, you'll not only LOSE OUT on a wealth of
opportunities with women, you'll take WAY too long to
find the one you really, truly want.
=====
(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2025. All Rights Reserved.
Forward this newsletter to a friend, and help
build this worldwide movement of over 100,000
men reclaiming their masculinity, standing as a
positive role model and deserving the high
quality women we want.
The Definitive Facebook Group For Men
Check Out The Videos On YouTube And Subscribe
The Mountain Top Podcast...Subscribe And
Leave A Review
This e-mail newsletter is a free service of X & Y Communications.
It is never sent to those who have not asked for it. If you
believe you have been sent this message in error, please use the
link below to remove yourself from our mailing list.
The Mountain Top Podcast...Subscribe And
Leave A Review
This e-mail newsletter is a free service of X & Y Communications.
It is never sent to those who have not asked for it. If you
believe you have been sent this message in error, please use the
link below to remove yourself from our mailing list.
X & Y Communications LLC
20403 Encino Ledge #591313
San Antonio TX 78259-1313
USA
Unsubscribe | Change Subscriber Options