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IN THIS EDITION: What force is more powerful in your life, character or cowardice?
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I'VE BEEN HOLDING BACK ON YOU
This morning I announced that VAMANOS now has "dark mode" for those dimly-lit nighttime venues, and also now can speak nearly any language you need it to.
The features are all very cool. But it's the benefits that matter, and until now I've mostly focused only on a few of many.
Yes, you can talk to it exactly like you can talk to me, and it'll answer like I would.
Yes, it ONLY draws from actual X & Y Communications content, not random subreddits and Cosmo articles.
And of course, it'll get you out of any jam when it comes to what to say or do whenever you're in front of a woman.
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WHAT SEPARATES MEN OF CHARACTER FROM THE "WANNABES"?
I have a challenge for you today: Is your character truly as solid as you think it is? Are you where you'd really like to be in that respect?
Here's why I ask. Some men are all about having upstanding character, and they mean perfectly well.
Except they're cowards.
When they get down to it, the force of cowardice overrides any power their character can ever muster. That's because it's hard to have true integrity when fear can bring the whole house of cards crashing down at any moment.
For some guys, it's as simple as shying away from seeing a doctor even when they know something's wrong and they should man-up and get it taken care of.
Or they don't return calls from people who might bring bad news or task them with something, saying they're "too busy", etc.
Other guys chicken out when another man disrespects his wife and his personal safety is at stake. Instead of defending his wife's honor, he simply attempts to brush the whole incident off as if it were "nothing" and tries to convince his allegedly significant other of the same.
Still other men don't waver until a big, potentially expensive decision needs to be made. Only then do they run away and stick their heads in the sand...hoping the issue will go away on its own.
So what's the real problem here? That's pretty simple to define.
Yes...strong moral character is one of the "big four" traits that ignite high quality femininity.
But masculinity is another one. When you lack courage, your masculine nature that women are attracted to comes into question.
That's damaging enough in and of itself. But when you're a man\ who paints himself as having character, that directly implies consistency. However, when you turn tail and run in particularly tough situations, that's anything BUT consistent.
When a woman doesn't know where the boundaries of your courage are, she doesn't know if she can trust you right when she needs to depend upon you the most.
Your ability to make her feel safe and comfortable is completely neutralized.
You aren't confident in the most challenging situations, therefore she follows YOUR lead and loses confidence in you.
See the domino effect at play there? Before you know it, every aspect of the "big four" is compromised in your life, all because you allowed cowardice to loom large over your character.
Want to cure this problem if you can somehow relate to it? It's easier said than done because you're going to have to take a deep breath and man-up a few times here and there where you might have previously done nothing.
But I promise you it will feel GOOD to be the man you already know you should be, following through on your own principles of character.
You'll have formed a new habit that will earn you greater respect wherever you go (except, interestingly enough, from men of low character...go figure).
Before I close, I do have a reliable indicator for you of when cowardice just might be standing in the way of our character as men.
That's when we find ourselves making excuses. Those excuses are the weapons cowardice uses to infiltrate your foundation as a man.
"Well, I would do the right thing, except I couldn't because..."
"On any other day I would have done what's right, but today I had to do something else instead."
Or how about this one?
"Oh, I would have approached her and asked her out, but she probably has a boyfriend anyway."
Yes, even the act of approaching women you know you'd love to meet is a matter of staying true to your character.
Stop coming up with excuses in tough situations and get down to the business of doing what you know deep down needs to be done...always.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
X & Y Communications
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