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WHAT'S INSIDE:  Use this four-letter-word too much around women and
you'll find yourself at a serious disadvantage.  (Hint:  It's not a
brutal curse word...and no, it's not "love" either.)

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USE THIS TIME


By now, it has been repeated over and over how we as men should
use this time of social distancing and "sheltering in place" to BUILD.

To learn more.  To build skills.  To get better.

If having the right women in your life is top priority for you, now is
the time to work with me 1-on-1.

That way, you'll be ready when the "all clear" signal is given.

And yes, you can do this.

I talk to plenty of men who wonder aloud whether coaching will
work for them, or will they end up being the very first guy in 14
years who hasn't gotten results?

Well, chances are I can flat-out guarantee you results.

Talk to me for 25 minutes and get straight talk:



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MOST OF US USE THIS FOUR LETTER WORD TOO MUCH


You're actually about to get the first half of a two-part series from
me.

Instead of just giving you ONE word you should re-think using so
much, I'm actually going to get around to giving you TWO.

They're both "four letter words".  But relax...I'm not your grandma
(at least not yet), and I have no plans to wash your grubby mouth
out with soap.

Actually, you know well enough by now to know I'm not going to
waste a perfectly good newsletter telling you not to curse so much.

Besides, every man of character already knows that apart from a
select few VERY isolated exceptions (e.g. hip hop artist, drill
sergeant), cursing can only HURT your career and your social
standing.  It can almost NEVER help.

Instead, I'm going to give you two words that are actually
all-too-common even among pre-school teachers and Disney
Channel starlets.

The first is "HATE".

Starting right now, work on intentionally eliminating that word
from your vocabulary.

Clearly, of course, full on "hate speech" is on a different level
than casual use of the word.  We're all probably avoiding that sort
of thing already.

But think about it.  People tend to glibly pronounce how much they
"hate" all sorts of things...all the time, all day long.



"Oh, I hate when that happens."


"I hate licorice."


"I hate this commercial"



Hate is a strong word, isn't it?  It's an inflammatory version of
mere "dislike".

As such, when you cut it from your vocabulary, there's a
fascinating and wonderful result. 

You instantaneously and magically become a more positive person.

In a brave new world where more and more people are adopting the
premise of "ridding their life of negative people", it's good to
know you now have a dead simple way to dramatically decrease the
chances of perfectly decent people blotting you out from your
social circle.

You can kind of put what I'm suggesting to the test, if you'd like.
 
The next time you're around a woman who's a cutie and actually kind
of nice, pay attention to how much she uses the "H word". 

In your mind, correlate the frequency with which she uses it to how
positive your feelings are for her. 

I'll bet you a buck that the more she says "hate" in casual
conversation, the less you like her. 

In fact, if you see this phenomenon in action before your very
eyes, you can actually "call it out", as mentioned a few
newsletters ago.

"You know, you hate all sorts of things", you might tell her.  "Why
be so negative."

It might floor you when she tells you she didn't even REALIZE she
was saying "hate" so much.   She may have had no real desire to
come off as such a negative person.

So that's the FIRST word.   And what I said about it probably seems
logical, no?

But on the other hand, the SECOND word is likely to surprise you.  

In fact, I'm going to have some 'splainin' to do in order to even
give you the full impact of WHY you should monitor your usage of it
FAR more than you do presently.

As such, I'm going to save it until next time, when I can give you
the full low-down on it.

But rest assured, it's such a KILLER...especially when it comes to
creating attraction...that you'll thank me for letting you in on the
secret.  Stay tuned...


Be Good,

Scot McKay




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