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IN THIS EDITION: Do you really have to make sure all of your self-perceived "sticking points" are handled before going out with amazing women? Here's what one reader has to say...
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THE GUARANTEE: I'LL BE THE LAST COACH YOU EVER NEED FOR THIS AREA OF YOUR LIFE
Over the last 20 years, men who have put me to work for them have all shared several key things in common.
1) They were great guys with a genuine love for women.
2) They were fed up with turning pages on the calendar without seeing any better results.
3) They all got wonderful results with women that exceeded their expectations...leaving them to wonder why they waited so long to go for it.
And here's the fascinating part. Nearly EVERY one of those same guys started out asking the exact same question:
“What happens if I go for it–put in the time, effort and resources–and yet, in the end I still don’t see results? I’ll feel even worse than if I hadn’t done anything at all.”
That's right, it has been perfectly NORMAL for them to wonder aloud if they're going to be the first guy who I can't help get results.
But they were not. And like I did for them, I guarantee thrilling results for you also.
I realize how easy it is to put off coaching. It's as if there's a weird mental block...even when you really want the profound and triumphant change it will affect in your life.
Many men stay on the fence for one simple reason: fear.
It’s kind of like skydiving. You want to feel the rush, cross it off of your “bucket list” and say you’ve conquered it.
Jumping out of the plane is by far the hardest part. When the door to the airplane opens, you’re consumed with what might happen if the chute doesn’t deploy.
But once you go for it you’ll feel the exhilaration of the adventure and the thrill of conquering your trepidation…especially after you land safely.
That and the real results are why so many men report wishing they had done coaching YEARS ago.
So you’re left with a choice.
You can find the courage and jump, rejoicing with your friends once you float safely to the ground.
Or…you can stay on the plane and land with it, only to look on in disappointment and grumble in frustration as your friends who went for it rejoice together.
In that sense, I'm a lot like a skydiving instructor. Even though this may be your first jump, I've done this countless times.
As such, I can help you conquer the fear of the unknown, encouraging you toward greatness…all the while confidently knowing you’ll get fantastic results like all the others before you.
So what's it going to be? Is today the day you're ready to start getting the results with women you know you deserve?
Write me today at:
scot@deservewhatyouwant.com
..and tell me your story. Whoever you are, I can custom-craft a plan of action for you that fits exactly what you want to do...whatever your dream result is.
That goes whether you want to date several women at once who all adore you, identify and attract the best woman you've ever met, or anything in between.
It's also easy to schedule a quick 25-minute call with me to explore the absolute best way to get you stunning, powerful results in record time.
Let me know you'd like to get on the phone with me by scheduling your call here:
https://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/realresults
A major part of my job as coach is to motivate. So here it is: I know from first-hand experience that you CAN get the woman (or women) in your life you really want.
It's only a matter of when you take a stand and boldly say you're ready to succeed where most guys shy away.
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QUESTION FROM A READER: WHAT TO DO IF YOU'RE NOT "MR. PERFECT"
Hi Scot,
I'm really interested to hear your take on this.
I am a 50 yr. old man, who has been out of the dating scene for a while. I am ready to get back in, but I have been suffering from some thyroid issues that make me extremely tired at times.
I have always been a robust guy, been active and athletic. I am otherwise in great shape for my age.
What I am concerned about is I want a woman who is active, but until I get my health challenge handled, I probably wont be able to keep up with that kind of woman.
Should I wait until my health turns around before dating so that I can deserve what I want? Or should I go ahead and date now and mention my situation only to women who I date more than a couple of times?
This is a bummer because there are times when even a low-key date like dinner and walking around a mall can wear me out.
All the best,
Milo (Glendale, California)
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Hello Milo, and thanks for writing.
I hear stories similar to yours so often that I'm beginning to believe what you're struggling with is common to almost everyone, at least generally speaking.
It seems it's human nature for us to pretty much "wait out" all of our excuses until they're all perfectly handled to our satisfaction before pronouncing ourselves "ready" to date a high quality women.
Well, the very last thing you want to do is wait until conditions are "perfect" before dating again.
The obvious reason for this is that there will ALWAYS be some sort of limiting belief you'll be able to come up with. As soon as one is conquered, another one is likely to sprout up in its place.
But the more subtle reason is that sometimes what we think are major issues really aren't so much to women.
I clearly remember telling myself shortly after my divorce that I needed to cut 30 pounds before I could expect to date. It took a few months to do that, and true to my "limiting belief" I didn't date during that time.
Women indeed enjoyed my company when I did start dating, so I initially felt pretty good about having waited.
But the crazy thing is that I ended up gaining the weight back (no thanks to focusing on my social life at the expense of eating right and working out, which is another newsletter altogether)...and I didn't see any less interest from women.
If anything they were MORE interested, probably because of what I had learned in the interim about how to understand what they're really looking for in a man and how to create attraction.
I also remember thinking that no woman would EVER want to go out with me once she found out I had a "crazy ex-wife". But lo and behold, that never fazed any of the women I met in the least.
In fact, imagine the connection Emily and I enjoyed when we realized that our respective exes were actually on the same medication. Go figure.
So yes...get back out there and meet some women. The last thing any woman expects you to be is "Mr. Perfect". Guys who come off like that give women the creeps anyway.
When exactly you choose to tell them about your situation is dependent upon each individual scenario, I'd say. But I would agree with your suggestion that it's not first-date conversation. Nothing medical is.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
X & Y Communications
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