[X&Y] The #1 Way Guys Blow Their Chances With Women

Published: Sun, 05/10/20



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WHAT'S INSIDE:  As weird at it sounds, you may have been
barking up the wrong tree your entire life in an effort to attract
women.

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FIRST IMPRESSIONS ARE EVERYTHING...AND WOMEN ARE
WATCHING



Most guys spend a lot of time trying to figure out how to approach
women and what to say to them.

But before you talk to her, you have to walk up to her.


The crazy part is that until now, virtually zero attention has been
given to making that all-important first impression.

Truth is, she may even notice you--and make a snap judgment--
before you even notice her.

It's a feeling, not a decision.  (More on that below.)

And how she feels about you at a deep, primal, female sexual
level is largely going to be influenced by how you move.

In other words, even as you walk up to her the die has
already been cast before you even say anything.

She's already unconsciously seeing you as a potential sex
partner...or she has already decided against you.

That's really heavy-duty to consider, isn't it?

But here's proof:  Isn't the same true for us?  Don't we
make snap judgments of our own about women before we
even talk to them?

We absolutely do.  And much of it is about the way
she moves.

This is why what Rob Brinded and James Knight teach
is so amazing.

You retrain your physique to move in the way women
automatically see as sexually desirable, and the rest
tends to take care of itself.

But until that happens, NOTHING you can say or
NOTHING you can do will matter.

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THE UNDISPUTED #1 WAY GUYS BLOW THEIR CHANCES
WITH WOMEN

   

The other night I was on the phone with a truly great guy who's
going through a tough time in his life right now.

Despite being a man who's got just about every logical strength
going for him in this life, the love of his life has left him.

And needless to say he really, really wants to get her back.

Well, we experienced a breakthrough while talking.  And what I'm
about to spill here applies whether there' an ex you want to
win back, a woman you're currently seeing, or simply a woman
you'd like to start dating.

Here's the deal. I talk a lot about the importance of being a
"big four" man.  

You know, that guy who's confident, masculine in the way women
define it, able to make a woman feel safe and comfortable in his
presence, and who has strong character.

You've also heard me discuss the whole idea of being a high
quality man instead of doing a series of items on some checklist
in order to create attraction, right?

The bottom line?   You can't talk any woman into being
attracted to you.


In other words, you can't focus your energy on appealing to her
sense of reason and expect to get anywhere when it comes to
relationships.

That's because at the most fundamental, baseline level attraction
is a feeling rather than a thought process.

In that respect, it's much like a religious argument whether or
not a woman is attracted to you or not.

Imagine a devout Catholic and a Sunni Muslim sitting down together
to debate whose worldview is more worthy of lifelong faith.  

Can you imagine either one of those guys successfully converting
the other to his way of thinking during such a conversation?

Most likely not.  If you've ever been handed a pamphlet exhorting
you to change your religious belief on the spot, you don't need me
to tell you it probably wouldn't work.

The truth is that if you want to convert the masses to your way
of believing, you've got to live your life in a way that makes
others naturally want the peace, energy, success, happiness,
etc. that you have.

In other words, it's all based on emotional response rather than
logical debate.

Guess what?  Getting a woman to like you is exactly like that.  In
essence, if you'll pardon my rather rough analogy, you really are
out to convert her.

Stay with me here--especially you guys who'd like to reunite with an
ex-girlfriend, because what I'm giving you here is golden.

Most guys go horribly wrong in such instances by trying to use pure
logic to win the heart of a woman.

But that's not how it works.

She may even already know in her mind that you're a "nice guy",
that you have a good job, that you'd make a nice daddy for her
future kids, or even that you're handsome, play guitar really well,
etc.

But until she "feels it" for you, all of her logic will be tied to
supporting her emotional state of mind.

You've got it.  People make emotional decisions...and then
attempt to support them with logical reasons.

Maybe you yourself have done this in the past.  Perhaps you wanted
a new motorcycle, and came up with reasonable excuses for
spending the money on what is an inherently unnecessary purchase.

Or maybe tickets to the big game were dropped in your lap, which
happened to fall on the same night as a previous commitment.  You
likely rationalized why you should go to the game instead.

This is exactly how women are processing their feelings for you. 

And importantly...it's why good women end up with men who are
wrong for them, even as a "great guy" or two is left on the sidelines to
watch.

Women either like you or they don't.  Seriously, it's as dead-simple as
that.

Like vs. dislike is that emotional decision.  From there, whatever
sense of logic they have falls into line with their emotions.

That's why trying to talk a woman into liking you will never, ever
work.

Now, here's an extra-critical point that I don't want you to miss.

It absolutely matters not whether any particular woman seems to
have a rational ability to make good decisions, or otherwise.

In fact, she can be downright flaky, if not completely irrational
and impossible to predict.  Heck, she can even be flat-out
clinically insane and living in a wholly separate reality of her
own.

None of that matters because whether her logic is flawed or not,
it's all going to be aimed at supporting her emotional mindset of
liking you or not liking you.

Can you grasp that?

I've personally watched guys spend hours and hours dissecting and
analyzing a woman's thoughts, words, actions and even behavioral
patters in an attempt to make the right chess move to get her
back into their lives.

It's as if by figuring out how her logical mind works, they'll
somehow crack the code to doing the right thing to get her to
decide to come back...or decide to go out with him to begin with, if
that's the applicable scenario.

As you might imagine, the more irrational a particular woman's
thought and behavior patterns tend to be, the more frustration a
guy is going to experience trying to figure out what to say or do
to get her back.

But the problem is that she will never, ever decide anything
relative to her level of attraction for you.

As David DeAngelo used to say, "Attraction is not a choice".  What
I've now done for you (perhaps ironically) is give you a logical
reason why it's all about emotional feelings.

Figuring out what to do in response to a woman's moves, what to
say, what action to take, whether to call or not is all utterly,
irrelevant vis-à-vis getting on the right side of that emotional
decision.

As such, 100% of your attention should be given to being a "big
four" man who will naturally cause a high quality woman to crave
you.  And yes, like I talked about above your first impression
matters also.  Confidence, style, how you move.

It's about BEING instead of DOING.

There's no sense in trying to figure her out or to talk her into why
she should be with you. 

Rather, live as a man who makes women horny without them even
understanding why themselves.  That's the only way to go.


Be Good,

Scot McKay




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