[X&Y] 6 Reasons Why Women Freak Out Over Porn

Published: Wed, 05/27/20



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6 REASONS WHY WOMEN FREAK OUT OVER PORN


First of all, rest assured you can put your own concerns
about this topic to rest for now.

Since this newsletter is about how to relate to women more
effectively, you need not worry about me pontificating on
whether or not you should be indulging in it.

That said, for what it's worth, I've yet to meet any red-blooded
guy--regardless of where he stands morally on the issue--who
isn't going to look at a naked sexy woman if confronted (even
by surprise) with a picture or a video of her. Enough said on
that.

But women, who are typically turned on sexually by a different
subset of factors than men are, are wired differently.

While they can certainly appreciate sexiness in its visual form,
their outlet for vicarious sexual satisfaction usually involves
stimulation of imaginative fantasies.

In other words, they're more interested in the storyline; the
"build up" to a torrid sexual climax, if you will.

The simple fact that romance novels are nearly as popular with
women as visual pornography is to men is all the proof you need
that this is pretty much how it works.

Okay, so then, what's up with all of this? As far as most of us as
guys are concerned, women can knock themselves out reading
whatever they want. Heck, they can even bust out with a vibrator
for all we care. It won't bother us a lick (literally).

And truth be told, even if women did crave a porno video or six,
we wouldn't care much about that either. In fact, we might be
downright excited about that and get psyched over watching it
with them.

No doubt, some women actually do like porn as much as we do.

And yes, some will even watch it with us. But that's not the majority
of them by any stretch. Most women remain fairly intimidated, if not
flat-out hurt and disgusted by the male fascination with porn.

My guess is you already have a pretty good idea of why that
might be. But just in case there's a factor or two you've never
considered before, I'm going to break them all down for you right
here. Let's go for it...



1)  They might see it as morally bereft


I'll tell you, I get e-mails all the time from guys who are dating
women with a different perspective on spiritual things than
they have, and they wonder aloud if it's a big deal.

You'd better believe it is. Often times it's guys who are coming
from an agnostic or even atheist perspective who trivialize the
impact that their woman's more dogmatic religious leanings might
potentially have on the relationship.

It's a mistake to assume if religion isn't a big deal for you that
it's simply not a big deal in general. It may be a huge deal for
her.

As such, if her world view precludes anything under the umbrella
of "sexual immorality" she's going to have a very different opinion
of porn than you do. And let's just say that since she's not
interested in it anyway, it's going to be very easy for her to drop
the hammer on you over it.

And what if you actually claim the same morally conservative
perspective on sex she does, and are yet watching porn anyway?

Well, in that case you can plan on that hammer morphing into a
wrecking ball.



2)  They might feel sexually inadequate


Here's a fascinating observation I've made. The more sexually
desirable a woman is to a larger cross-section of men, the less of
a problem she tends to have with porn.

Meanwhile, more "average" or even straight-up unattractive women
are far more likely to whack they're boyfriends or husbands upside
the head with a rolling pin for watching it.

Basically, it's a matter of insecurity. If a woman has reason to
believe (even if it's only in her own mind, frankly) that she just
can't compete with the women in the videos you've been watching,
she's going to use that as a convenient excuse to beat down her
self-esteem to a new low.

If you hear her voice assumptions that you've probably been jacking
off over women you wish you had instead of her (maybe even two or
three of them at the same time), then I just hit the nail on the
head.



3)  They suspect you'll be inspired to cheat on them


Maybe you have perfectly solid intentions of staying with the
woman of your dreams for the long haul. It's just that certain
Internet sites give you a chance to get some "variety" without, you
know, actually going out and violating your relationship.

You can't necessarily expect her to see things that way. In her
mind you're probably "shopping" online for what you want in your
next girlfriend, or at least getting some ideas firmly planted in
your mind of what kind of woman you might actually like better
than her.



4)  They actually consider it cheating, in and of itself


You may not think of watching videos as a major breach of
exclusivity, but a lot of women do. Unreasonable or otherwise,
they'll claim if you're watching and fantasizing you may as
well have gone out and done the real thing.

Listen, you and I both fully realize it's not the real thing.

But don't try to tell her that.

In support of her argument, she might even remind you she's
got an insatiable sex drive, and yet you've been spending
precious load-blowing time in front of the computer whenever
she's not around.

Ouch.

Chalk this one up as yet another reason to have a real, honest
talk with her about how your relationship is defined and what the
boundaries are.



5)  They're concerned you'll impose "creativity" on them
they're not ready for



Most women aren't quite as "sexually adventurous" as the
professionals you see on video.  At least not yet.

Suffice it to say that the way to get them closer to that point is
decidedly not to impose your experiences in watching porn on
them.

Interestingly, if you put your woman's sexual needs first and learn
the art of satisfying her fully, she might very well turn into your
own private porn star in the bedroom.

But she'll likely turn in the opposite direction if she thinks you've
been influenced by watching a bunch of other naked women
do stuff she isn't in the habit of doing.

Don't be surprised if she even starts asking you who you're
hinking about when you're having sex with her.

Worse, she may fear you're going to turn really kinky, if not
truly creepy and weird on her.

Think about it this way. How many guys happily disclose their
entire stash of porn when they're "busted" by their chick for
watching it?

And do they dare to share all the details about what really turns
them on about it?

So then, if she doesn't really know what it is you've been
watching, her imagination might get the best of her. She may
start assuming that you've been watching the most twisted,
crazy stuff she can think of...and that you liked it.



6)  They worry that you'll lose respect for them, if not for
women in general



Just because women don't watch porn much (or won't admit to it, at
the very least) doesn't mean they don't know what goes on in it.

I mean, how else do you think they've figured out how to shave
their nether regions like that?

That means they know all about the more misogynistic type of porn
where guys are throwing women around, making them gag until their
mascara runs, etc.

Bear in mind that plenty of women even view being on their knees
and taking a load in the face as pretty demeaning.

With all of that going on so often in the porn videos, they can't
help but wonder if you're going to get jaded by it. They wonder if
you're going to get brainwashed over time into "objectifying" women
even if you're not that kind of guy now.



So what does it all come down to? Ultimately, whatever your
pornography watching habits are, they're probably not going to
change simply because you've read this newsletter.

That said, I'd solemnly recommend getting someone else's help if
you've become so addicted to the stuff that your job performance
and/or real-world social life are suffering.

But at the very least, you'll be armed with the knowledge of
exactly what goes through women's heads when they imagine
you watching it.


 




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