[X&Y] The Weird But Wonderful Side Benefit Of Meeting The Right Woman
Published: Sat, 06/06/20
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IN THIS EDITION: What you can REALLY expect from having a great
woman in your life, and a little incentive to make it happen THIS YEAR...
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MAKE HER ADDICTED TO YOU
My friend Alex Allman makes his ridiculously long-overdue return
appearance on The Mountain Top Podcast this week. It's an amazing
episode where we seek to define true love, if you haven't listened yet.
Meanwhile, he has posted a video revealing 3 ways to trigger an
addiction-like response in women so her body and mind will become
OBSESSED with YOU.
https://www.scotrecommends.com/alexallman
The tips in this video are totally different from what you've seen in the
past. What matters is they WORK.
This is how you get a woman to sit by the phone, eagerly waiting for
you to call.
It's how you get her to cancel other plans for the weekend for the
chance to see you.
https://www.scotrecommends.com/alexallman
If you've already got the skills to get her phone number and a date,
this will give you the confidence to make a woman adore you...and
WANT you.
There's some PRIVATE material in here, so check out Alex's video
while it's still up and see for yourself:
https://www.scotrecommends.com/alexallman
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THE WEIRD BUT WONDERFUL SIDE BENEFIT OF MEETING THE
RIGHT WOMAN
Not long ago I wrote to you about how lots of guys seem to underestimate
their own ability to achieve greatness with women.
I got lots of feedback on that--some from guys who found that
message to be a tremendous boost, and some from guys who--you
guessed it--think I'm full of it.
So I figured I'd share some of this feedback with you:
First, here's a note from Craig in the UK:
I emailed you a while ago thanking you for giving me the courage
through your work not to settle but to break up with my girlfriend
of 2 years, who although she was a great girl, wasn't my 10.
Well, after breaking up (which was difficult!!) I met a beautiful
girl at the end of August and immediately we both knew this was
IT!! We got engaged yesterday and I have never been so captivated
by anyone.
She has beauty, character, intelligence, humour and believes (like
me) that the guy should take the lead in the relationship. I did
this right from the start - planning dates, picking her up, being a
MAN - and she LOVED it.
What you teach works. Character and being a masculine man who
leads is what every girl wants deep down.
Thanks and God Bless,
Craig
Obviously, I'm thrilled for Craig. But it's odd how just below
Craig's message in my inbox was this anonymous "unsubscribe"
message:
I accepted failure as a human being and gave up trying to have
relationships. I shall spend my days alone and childless. Sux 2 B
me.
Now I have to tell you, there's nothing I'd rather do than reach
out through the Internets and do whatever I could to convince this
guy otherwise.
After all, based on what I've seen out there thus far, I find
myself believing that were you to take a look at Craig and Mr.
Anonymous side-by-side you'd see two perfectly normal guys.
The difference?
One actually TOOK ACTION in his life and MADE SOMETHING
out through the Internets and do whatever I could to convince this
guy otherwise.
After all, based on what I've seen out there thus far, I find
myself believing that were you to take a look at Craig and Mr.
Anonymous side-by-side you'd see two perfectly normal guys.
The difference?
One actually TOOK ACTION in his life and MADE SOMETHING
HAPPEN.
The other implied "trying", but "trying" and "doing" are two
different things.
Think about it. Whenever someone says, "I'll try" to do something,
what usually happens? You got it: NOTHING.
Granted, I could be way off base here about both guys being regular
guys. But I'll bet I'm not. After all, I've seen even guys with
TREMENDOUS bona fide personal challenges do amazingly well with
women.
The bottom line? Whoever you are, I can give you solid information
and coach you to greatness with women. But I can't actually DEPLOY
for you.
I can teach you to "skydive", but ONLY YOU can jump out of the
plane.
So again...I believe 1000% that you can achieve greatness with
The other implied "trying", but "trying" and "doing" are two
different things.
Think about it. Whenever someone says, "I'll try" to do something,
what usually happens? You got it: NOTHING.
Granted, I could be way off base here about both guys being regular
guys. But I'll bet I'm not. After all, I've seen even guys with
TREMENDOUS bona fide personal challenges do amazingly well with
women.
The bottom line? Whoever you are, I can give you solid information
and coach you to greatness with women. But I can't actually DEPLOY
for you.
I can teach you to "skydive", but ONLY YOU can jump out of the
plane.
So again...I believe 1000% that you can achieve greatness with
women. And I trust you do also, and that you are ready to get on with
it...if not already on the roadtrip.
As promised, today I'm going to tell you a great secret: What
happens AFTER you've invited a great woman into your life.
Now look at what I JUST received from Richard in Germany, even as
I'm writing this:
Well Richard, a Power Session on that topic may in fact be in the
works, but for now you've come to the right place.
Because the "great secret" I'm sharing with you is called "The
Leapfrog Effect".
And here it is: Once you have a great woman in your life, your
focus and execution when it comes to what represents your MAJOR
LIFE PURPOSE is about to EXPONENTIALLY INCREASE.
So actually, your life purpose doesn't really happen independently
from having a woman in your life, but in fact is AMPLIFIED by her
presence.
How's that for a mind blower?
Here's what I mean. After my divorce in 2002, I turned my
attention to getting better with women.
But the REST of my life was a MESS.
I won't lie to you. My physical fitness suffered, my relationships
with friends suffered, even my career suffered.
But I accomplished the goal of getting a great woman in my life,
dating lots of women and continuously "raising the bar"...right up
until I met Emily.
But once I selected my "100 out of 100" (and those of you who have
read Wildly Successful Dating Life know what I'm talking about),
THAT'S when I entered the latest (and current) stage of my life.
Today I wake up in the morning changing more lives for the better
than I ever have. My work is more fulfilling, and my sense of
meaning clearer than ever also.
You see, when you recognize that it's time to get your level of
success with women where it needs to be, it's REALLY easy to think
that the be all/end all is having a great woman--especially having
read some of the sales pitches out there.
I mean, some of them would have you think that getting ANY woman
would be the "be all / end all".
But here's the reality: Once she's THERE, you then move on to
GREATER accomplishments with her as your cheerleader.
So it's like WHAM...It's as if you've barely had time to bask in the
glory of getting a great woman in your life, when you realize that
the true gift goes WAY, WAY beyond that.
YES...she most certainly fulfills upon what only a great woman
uniquely can. In the bedroom, outside of the bedroom, everywhere.
She is the jewel in your crown as King Of All You Survey.
No "greener grass" elsewhere. Ever. That box is checked
off...permanently.
And having a great woman in your life means PARTNERSHIP. Like I
said, she's your cheerleader. A great woman supports a great man
in his dreams, and believes in his leadership.
This propels you to GREATNESS. Did you know that all but one U.S.
president were married men?
You are empowered by that woman's utter belief in you, even as you
dare not breach the trust inspired by your leadership as a man of
character.
Her inspiration is the fuel that feeds the engine of your ambition.
And, of course, the greater the woman, the higher-octane the fuel.
End up "settling" for a woman who thinks "all men are dogs", and
you might as well fill your tank with tap water.
If she's the "jealous type", afraid of success or out to make both
of your lives miserable in some other way; pour a pound of sugar in
the tank with the tap water.
If you don't happen to be a "car guy", let's just say "don't try
that at home".
So yes...getting a great woman in your life is an amazing feat of
accomplishment. And make no mistake, it is exactly that.
But in doing so, you "leapfrog" WAY AHEAD of where you'd be in just
about any aspect of life without her.
And you "leapfrog" WAY AHEAD of other guys who don't yet have that
partnership.
It happens at work, on the basketball court, and even in LIFE
EXPECTANCY. Statistics prove that happily married guys LIVE
LONGER.
Now listen up. I'm not telling you any of this to bum you out if
you haven't found a great woman just yet.
Quite the opposite, in fact. I want to ENCOURAGE you that the goal
you're looking at isn't only REACHABLE, but that the STAKES ARE
BIGGER than you perhaps have ever imagined.
In short, this is SO WORTH GETTING RIGHT because "The Leapfrog
Effect" is SO PROFOUND as to affect every single corner of your
life.
So here it is. Much of this year is already water under the bridge.
Decide right here and now to make THIS year THE year.
In 2006 I made the same pact with myself. I was enjoying dating,
but it was time to move on to a life with the greatest woman I'd
ever met.
So you can do this. And I've got your back all the way.
And let me confirm a suspicion you may have.
Yes...you can throw "natural game" out the window.
I, like you, have a brain in my head and realize that there is
learned skill involved here. Telling you how a child prodigy picked
up a violin and started playing at age 3 or something is NOT going
to make you into a virtuoso.
Giving you violin lessons, on the other hand, might.
I want to see YOU meet the greatest woman ever THIS YEAR, and put
"The Leapfrog Effect" into action for yourself.
It all starts with a 25-minute phone call. You can talk to me directly, and
we'll put a plan of action together that's customized for you:
https://www.mountaintoppodcast.com/coach
The only question remaining is, do YOU want this bad enough to make
it happen? If so, there's no stopping until the goal is reached. Period.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
it...if not already on the roadtrip.
As promised, today I'm going to tell you a great secret: What
happens AFTER you've invited a great woman into your life.
Now look at what I JUST received from Richard in Germany, even as
I'm writing this:
...if you haven't already, I would really love for you to do a future
Power Session on the topic of having a life beside women or a life
purpose that is independent of women or at least hear your
perspective on this.
Well Richard, a Power Session on that topic may in fact be in the
works, but for now you've come to the right place.
Because the "great secret" I'm sharing with you is called "The
Leapfrog Effect".
And here it is: Once you have a great woman in your life, your
focus and execution when it comes to what represents your MAJOR
LIFE PURPOSE is about to EXPONENTIALLY INCREASE.
So actually, your life purpose doesn't really happen independently
from having a woman in your life, but in fact is AMPLIFIED by her
presence.
How's that for a mind blower?
Here's what I mean. After my divorce in 2002, I turned my
attention to getting better with women.
But the REST of my life was a MESS.
I won't lie to you. My physical fitness suffered, my relationships
with friends suffered, even my career suffered.
But I accomplished the goal of getting a great woman in my life,
dating lots of women and continuously "raising the bar"...right up
until I met Emily.
But once I selected my "100 out of 100" (and those of you who have
read Wildly Successful Dating Life know what I'm talking about),
THAT'S when I entered the latest (and current) stage of my life.
Today I wake up in the morning changing more lives for the better
than I ever have. My work is more fulfilling, and my sense of
meaning clearer than ever also.
You see, when you recognize that it's time to get your level of
success with women where it needs to be, it's REALLY easy to think
that the be all/end all is having a great woman--especially having
read some of the sales pitches out there.
I mean, some of them would have you think that getting ANY woman
would be the "be all / end all".
But here's the reality: Once she's THERE, you then move on to
GREATER accomplishments with her as your cheerleader.
So it's like WHAM...It's as if you've barely had time to bask in the
glory of getting a great woman in your life, when you realize that
the true gift goes WAY, WAY beyond that.
YES...she most certainly fulfills upon what only a great woman
uniquely can. In the bedroom, outside of the bedroom, everywhere.
She is the jewel in your crown as King Of All You Survey.
No "greener grass" elsewhere. Ever. That box is checked
off...permanently.
And having a great woman in your life means PARTNERSHIP. Like I
said, she's your cheerleader. A great woman supports a great man
in his dreams, and believes in his leadership.
This propels you to GREATNESS. Did you know that all but one U.S.
president were married men?
You are empowered by that woman's utter belief in you, even as you
dare not breach the trust inspired by your leadership as a man of
character.
Her inspiration is the fuel that feeds the engine of your ambition.
And, of course, the greater the woman, the higher-octane the fuel.
End up "settling" for a woman who thinks "all men are dogs", and
you might as well fill your tank with tap water.
If she's the "jealous type", afraid of success or out to make both
of your lives miserable in some other way; pour a pound of sugar in
the tank with the tap water.
If you don't happen to be a "car guy", let's just say "don't try
that at home".
So yes...getting a great woman in your life is an amazing feat of
accomplishment. And make no mistake, it is exactly that.
But in doing so, you "leapfrog" WAY AHEAD of where you'd be in just
about any aspect of life without her.
And you "leapfrog" WAY AHEAD of other guys who don't yet have that
partnership.
It happens at work, on the basketball court, and even in LIFE
EXPECTANCY. Statistics prove that happily married guys LIVE
LONGER.
Now listen up. I'm not telling you any of this to bum you out if
you haven't found a great woman just yet.
Quite the opposite, in fact. I want to ENCOURAGE you that the goal
you're looking at isn't only REACHABLE, but that the STAKES ARE
BIGGER than you perhaps have ever imagined.
In short, this is SO WORTH GETTING RIGHT because "The Leapfrog
Effect" is SO PROFOUND as to affect every single corner of your
life.
So here it is. Much of this year is already water under the bridge.
Decide right here and now to make THIS year THE year.
In 2006 I made the same pact with myself. I was enjoying dating,
but it was time to move on to a life with the greatest woman I'd
ever met.
So you can do this. And I've got your back all the way.
And let me confirm a suspicion you may have.
Yes...you can throw "natural game" out the window.
I, like you, have a brain in my head and realize that there is
learned skill involved here. Telling you how a child prodigy picked
up a violin and started playing at age 3 or something is NOT going
to make you into a virtuoso.
Giving you violin lessons, on the other hand, might.
I want to see YOU meet the greatest woman ever THIS YEAR, and put
"The Leapfrog Effect" into action for yourself.
It all starts with a 25-minute phone call. You can talk to me directly, and
we'll put a plan of action together that's customized for you:
https://www.mountaintoppodcast.com/coach
The only question remaining is, do YOU want this bad enough to make
it happen? If so, there's no stopping until the goal is reached. Period.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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If you like what you've read, please feel free to forward this
newsletter to others. Help a friend out.
In fact, did a friend forward YOU this message? To receive this
newsletter for men from X & Y Communications on a regular basis,
simply visit our main portal...
www.deservewhatyouwant.com
...drop your email in the annoying popup window, and download "Get
The First Date...And The Second Date" for free. Or, just send a
blank email to "xandy@aweber.com". Easy stuff.
X & Y Communications is dedicated to making you the most skilled
participant in the dating world you can be, at whatever stage of
life you are in. It's all about straight talk about the most
creative subjects, somehow encompassing character-based principles
while being neither too shy nor too judgmental to hit the important
things head on. The basic stuff you've heard a million times isn't
rehashed around here. Enjoy!
Please also note that the information in this newsletter is for
entertainment purposes only and is not intended to constitute
professional advice.
(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2020. All Rights Reserved.
This e-mail newsletter is a free service of X & Y Communications.
It is never sent to those who have not asked for it. If you
believe you have been sent this message in error, please respond
and we will kindly remove you from our mailing list.