[X&Y] The One Guy I Can't Help
Published: Fri, 06/19/20
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IN THIS EDITION: Can I help you get better with women? The
startling truth is below.
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THE ONE GUY I CAN'T HELP
I'm going to be as straight up with you in this newsletter as
I've ever been.
If you write me asking for assistance with getting better with
women, I might not be able to help you.
Rest assured, I have utmost confidence in what I teach. I
know for sure that it works, based not only on first-hand
experience but also on the multitude of testimonials received
from others.
But there's still a possibility that I can be of no service to you.
Is it that I see certain guys as "hapless" when it comes to ever
having any chance with women?
Not at all. In fact, I just might believe in your ability to
succeed with them more than YOU do.
So what's up, then?
The problem arises when I get letters that read like this:
Dear Scot:
I've been on this God forsaken Earth for 42 years now, and not one
time have I ever even kissed a woman.
After having failed so heavily for so often, I'm utterly convinced
I have no chance.
That's right. Nothing can change the hard, cold facts: I'll die a
virgin, and that's just the way it is.
I've actually resigned myself to this belief and made peace with
it. I've actually learned to accept the simple truth: Women hate
me.
That's okay, because then I don't have to worry about her cheating
on me and breaking my heart when she invariably finds a guy better
than me (which will be easy for her, I'm sure).
Really, I'm not even sure I even want a woman in my life anymore,
especially the kind of woman who would settle for a slob like me.
She'd have to be completely unattractive, at best.
So at this point I have absolutely zero motivation to do anything
even remotely having to do with getting better with women. I mean,
why try? I'll just fail again anyway.
CAN YOU HELP ME??!!
Signed,
Hopeless In Houston
The answer to the main question on the table is, "No, I cannot."
Surprised? You shouldn't be.
good men are. Isn't it time for YOU to represent the solution they're
searching for from now on?
Get The Big 4 Man Challenge For 50% Off
If that sounds farfetched, it isn't. Think about it: As a man
you are SUPPOSED to attract women. That's about as basic a
truth as there is in this life.
And believe it or not, you can be The Man and get the high
quality women you want.
Yes...even in a world where more and more men are simply
giving up on women altogether and "going their own way".
The Big 4 Man Challenge gives you all the steps you need,
and it's not even complicated.
The special coupon is only valid until midnight tomorrow.
Be bold and take action...once and for all.
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THE ONE GUY I CAN'T HELP
I'm going to be as straight up with you in this newsletter as
I've ever been.
If you write me asking for assistance with getting better with
women, I might not be able to help you.
Rest assured, I have utmost confidence in what I teach. I
know for sure that it works, based not only on first-hand
experience but also on the multitude of testimonials received
from others.
But there's still a possibility that I can be of no service to you.
Is it that I see certain guys as "hapless" when it comes to ever
having any chance with women?
Not at all. In fact, I just might believe in your ability to
succeed with them more than YOU do.
So what's up, then?
The problem arises when I get letters that read like this:
Dear Scot:
I've been on this God forsaken Earth for 42 years now, and not one
time have I ever even kissed a woman.
After having failed so heavily for so often, I'm utterly convinced
I have no chance.
That's right. Nothing can change the hard, cold facts: I'll die a
virgin, and that's just the way it is.
I've actually resigned myself to this belief and made peace with
it. I've actually learned to accept the simple truth: Women hate
me.
That's okay, because then I don't have to worry about her cheating
on me and breaking my heart when she invariably finds a guy better
than me (which will be easy for her, I'm sure).
Really, I'm not even sure I even want a woman in my life anymore,
especially the kind of woman who would settle for a slob like me.
She'd have to be completely unattractive, at best.
So at this point I have absolutely zero motivation to do anything
even remotely having to do with getting better with women. I mean,
why try? I'll just fail again anyway.
CAN YOU HELP ME??!!
Signed,
Hopeless In Houston
The answer to the main question on the table is, "No, I cannot."
Surprised? You shouldn't be.
No matter how convinced I am that any man can indeed improve his
results with women--regardless of his current situation--there is one
baseline prerequisite for change that I have little, if any control
over:
results with women--regardless of his current situation--there is one
baseline prerequisite for change that I have little, if any control
over:
YOU have to be convinced that you can improve also.
I've already learned the hard way that trying to talk guys into it
is about as effective as trying to open a can of beans with a
cigarette lighter.
It just isn't going to happen. I can't work with self-doubt, let
alone self-hatred.
That's right...self-hatred. Once, I actually had a guy call me and
tell me that if I couldn't help him finally get a date by this time
next week he'd kill himself.
Although I can empathize with the deep pain he must have felt, I
couldn't meet that timeline.
More importantly, I couldn't be beholden to his threat. Suffice
it to say that he needed a different kind of professional than I
am, and I handled the call in the only responsible way I could.
Following along these lines are situations where guys have decided
they hate women and can't seem to think positive thoughts about
them.
If you don't think you're worth dating, I can't get women to think
so either. Following logically from that, if you don't think women
are worth anything at all, I can't make a high quality woman get
excited about you.
Hey, I realize there are a several instances of the word "can't" in
this newsletter, and that's uncharacteristic of me as a coach and a
motivator.
But I just don't have a "magic wand".
If you want to get better with women, YOU have to bring the raw
materials. It all starts in YOUR mind.
Even if you feel like you've been beaten down in the past, you've
got to show up with at least a glimmer of optimism.
Then, even though you just might see solid results pretty quickly,
you can't expect a complete transformation to happen overnight.
And, of course, you've still got to actually LIKE women and be
willing to uphold their best interests as well as your own.
If you can check those three boxes, then the answer is transformed
from "No" into a resounding "YES". In that case, I'm excited to be
at your service and you can expect excellent results.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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I've already learned the hard way that trying to talk guys into it
is about as effective as trying to open a can of beans with a
cigarette lighter.
It just isn't going to happen. I can't work with self-doubt, let
alone self-hatred.
That's right...self-hatred. Once, I actually had a guy call me and
tell me that if I couldn't help him finally get a date by this time
next week he'd kill himself.
Although I can empathize with the deep pain he must have felt, I
couldn't meet that timeline.
More importantly, I couldn't be beholden to his threat. Suffice
it to say that he needed a different kind of professional than I
am, and I handled the call in the only responsible way I could.
Following along these lines are situations where guys have decided
they hate women and can't seem to think positive thoughts about
them.
If you don't think you're worth dating, I can't get women to think
so either. Following logically from that, if you don't think women
are worth anything at all, I can't make a high quality woman get
excited about you.
Hey, I realize there are a several instances of the word "can't" in
this newsletter, and that's uncharacteristic of me as a coach and a
motivator.
But I just don't have a "magic wand".
If you want to get better with women, YOU have to bring the raw
materials. It all starts in YOUR mind.
Even if you feel like you've been beaten down in the past, you've
got to show up with at least a glimmer of optimism.
Then, even though you just might see solid results pretty quickly,
you can't expect a complete transformation to happen overnight.
And, of course, you've still got to actually LIKE women and be
willing to uphold their best interests as well as your own.
If you can check those three boxes, then the answer is transformed
from "No" into a resounding "YES". In that case, I'm excited to be
at your service and you can expect excellent results.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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(c) X & Y Communications LLC, 2020. All Rights Reserved.
This e-mail newsletter is a free service of X & Y Communications.
It is never sent to those who have not asked for it. If you
believe you have been sent this message in error, please respond
and we will kindly (and promptly) remove you from our mailing list.