[X&Y] The #1 Way Guys Blow Their Chances With Women

Published: Sun, 04/05/26

Updated: Mon, 04/06/26

SCOT MCKAY'S DAILY TIPS FOR SUCCESS WITH WOMEN

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WHAT'S INSIDE: As weird at it sounds, you may have been barking up the wrong tree your entire life in an effort to attract women.

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FIRST IMPRESSIONS ARE EVERYTHING...AND WOMEN ARE WATCHING


Most guys concern themselves with how to approach women and what to say to them.

But before you talk to her, you have to walk up to her.

Until now, virtually zero attention has been given to making that all-important first impression.

Truth is, she may even notice you--and make a snap judgment--before you even notice her.

It's a feeling, not a decision. (More on that below.)

And how she feels about you at a deep, primal, female sexual level is largely influenced by how you move.

Even as you walk up to her the die has already been cast before you even say anything.

She's already unconsciously valuing you as a potential sex partner...or the opposite.

That's really heavy-duty to consider, isn't it?

But here's proof: Isn't the same true for us? Don't we make snap judgments of our own about women before we even talk to them?

We absolutely do. And much of it is about the way SHE moves.

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THE UNDISPUTED #1 WAY GUYS BLOW THEIR CHANCES WITH WOMEN


The other night I was on the phone with a great guy who's going through a tough time.

Despite having just about everything going for him, the love of his life has left him.

He really wants to get her back. If only he could TALK to her, he's convinced he could smooth things over.

Well, we experienced a breakthrough while talking. What I'm about to spill here applies whether there's an ex you want to win back, a woman you're currently seeing, or simply a woman you'd like to start dating.

Here's the deal. I talk a lot about the importance of being a "big four" man.

You know, that guy who's confident, masculine in the way women define it, able to make a woman feel safe and comfortable in his presence, and who has strong character.

You've also heard me discuss being a high quality man instead of doing a series of items on some checklist in order to create attraction, right?

That's because at the most fundamental, baseline level attraction is a feeling rather than a thought process.

It's worthless to appeal to her sense of reason and expect to get anywhere.

The bottom line? You can't talk any woman into being attracted to you.

Stay with me here--especially you guys who'd like to reunite with an ex-girlfriend, because what I'm giving you here is golden.

Most guys go horribly wrong in such instances by trying to use pure logic to win the heart of a woman.

But that's not how it works.

She may already know in her mind that you're a "nice guy", you have a good job, you'd make a nice daddy for her future kids, or even that you're handsome, play guitar really well, etc.

But until she "feels it" for you, all of her logic will be tied to supporting her emotional state of mind.

People make emotional decisions...and then attempt to support them with logical reasons. It's not even gender specific.

Maybe you have done this in the past. Perhaps you wanted a new motorcycle, and came up with reasonable excuses for spending the money on what is an inherently unnecessary purchase.

Or maybe tickets to the big game were dropped in your lap, which happened to fall on the same night as a previous commitment. You likely rationalized why you should go to the game instead.

This is exactly how women are processing their feelings for you.

And importantly...it's why good women end up with men who are wrong for them, even as a "great guy" or two is left on the sidelines in stunned bewilderment.

Women either turned on sexually or not, and the rest falls into place from there. Seriously, it's as dead-simple as that.

That's why trying to talk a woman into liking you will never, ever work.

Now, here's an extra-critical point that I don't want you to miss.

It matters little whether or not any particular woman seems to have a knack for making good, rational decisions.

On the other hand, she can be downright flaky, if not fully irrational and impossible to predict. She can even be flat-out clinically insane and living in a separate reality of her own.

None of that matters because whether her logic is flawed or not, it's all going to be aimed at supporting her emotional mindset of feeling attracted to you or not feeling attracted to you.

I've personally watched guys spend hours dissecting and analyzing a woman's thoughts, words, actions and even behavioral patterns in an attempt to decide upon the right chess move to get her back into their lives.

As you might imagine, the more irrational a particular woman's thought and behavior patterns tend to seem, the more frustration a guy is going to experience trying to figure out what to say or do to get her back.

But the problem is that she will never, ever decide anything relative to her level of attraction for you.

As David DeAngelo used to say, "Attraction is not a choice".

Perhaps ironically, I've now given you a logical reason why it's all about emotional feelings.

Figuring out what to DO in response to a woman's moves--what to say, what action to take, whether to call or not--is all utterly irrelevant vis-à-vis getting on the right side of that emotional impulse.

As such, 100% of your attention should be given to being a "big four" man who will naturally cause a high quality woman to crave you.

And yes, like I talked about above your first impression matters also. Confidence, style, how you move.

It's about BEING instead of DOING.

There's no sense in trying to figure her out or to talk her into why she should be with you.

Rather, live as a man who makes women horny without them even understanding why themselves.

Be Good,

Scot McKay

X & Y Communications

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