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IN THIS EDITION: There really are situations when it's best to stop seeing women, at least for the time being...but only five of them.
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READER QUESTIONS AND COMMENTS
Hello,
I have a question. Is there any time when someone honestly should not date? If so, how do they know when to finally start dating?
Monty
P.S. I love your podcasts.
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Hello Monty, and thanks for writing.
I'm glad you're enjoying the podcasts. We have another episode dropping tonight (Thursday), as usual. My guest is returning for the third time and is a crowd favorite.
Anyway, you've asked one of those questions that makes for a good, solid challenge. As such, I went through all the file cards to make sure I didn't miss anything.
When all the dust cleared, I thought of five legit reasons why a person shouldn't date:
1) You are young enough that your parents still have authority in your life and prohibit it.
2) You are pending a divorce, and therefore not really single. This is especially true if there could be consequences in the courtroom for being involved with someone else while still legally married.
3) You are about to permanently relocate far, far away within a short amount of time.
4) You are either psychopathic and/or narcissistic enough to inflict wanton evil upon MOTOS (members of the other sex) without any regard whatsoever for their needs, desires, happiness or possibly even their personal safety.
5) You are dead.
If any of those situations apply you would most certainly want to start meeting and going out with women once the issue at hand is resolved, although #5 would be particularly difficult to overcome.
All joking aside, #4 is rough to get over as well. Worse, the vast majority of people I've known of who are like that aren't particularly interested in changing. Worst of all, they're out there dating anyway, whether they should or not.
But yes, I do believe that one should get back out there and start meeting MOTOS as soon as possible after finalizing a divorce.
I don't subscribe to the typical "wait a year to recover" advice, and here's why.
The longer you wait the more time you have to feel lonely and sorry for yourself. By the time a full year passes, that mindset is likely to become a full-blown habit.
Is that really the best way to "recover"?
I've consistently found, in both personal experience and through observing others, that it's best to build a thriving social life that includes MOTOS without waiting even a minute.
That said, I don't believe in jumping into another exclusive relationship (aka "the rebound") right away. Simply go out with women and enjoy their company.
Bask in their favor rather than staying at home wallowing in some combination of hurt, resentment and/or guilt.
The same exact principle holds true for relocation situations.
Yes, it's a good idea to avoid torturing yourself and some poor woman by getting into some complicated relationship days before moving thousands of miles away.
But it's JUST as great an idea to get out and meet women as soon as you can after moving to a new place.
Just like in the divorce situation, it's all about heading off loneliness and the negative visualizations that come with it at the pass.
Notice that limiting beliefs of ANY type, laziness and supposing that there are either no women around and/or that they wouldn't want to go out with you anyway aren't on the list.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
X & Y Communications
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