{X&Y] 5 Dead Giveaways A Guy Is Terrible In Bed (And Women Know It)

Published: Sun, 05/17/26

Updated: Sun, 05/17/26

SCOT MCKAY'S DAILY TIPS FOR SUCCESS WITH WOMEN

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5 DEAD GIVEAWAYS A GUY IS TERRIBLE IN BED


Most men are shockingly bad at sex, much to the chagrin of perfectly horny and eager women everywhere.

Worse, they don't even realize it.

After twenty years of being a coach, I can tell which guys seriously lack bedroom skills by how they talk.

The crazy part is they not only don't realize they're bad at sex, they also have no idea how obvious it is to others.

Scary, right?

Here are five trustworthy signs:


1) He uses phrases like "seal the deal"


This betrays a belief system that sees the sex act as the focus in and of itself, and the woman as merely a means to an end.

Desirable women won't, um...buy that.

For what it's worth, salespeople with a similar mindset toward "prospects" and commission are usually not crushing it out there either.


2) Macho talk about how little they know (or care) about women in general, let alone sex


I once heard a guy say out loud, "Yeah, put a bag over their head [sic] and bend 'em over and they're all the same."

Of course, such a statement is breathtakingly ignorant at every level, even physiologically.

The truly terrifying part is how he was broadcasting his raw lack of sexual experience, all the while thinking he was looking cool.


3) "Everyone knows p-o-r-n is nothing like real sex"


This depends on what you're watching, of course. Some of it is unrealistic. Similarly, there's no denying a lot of it is outside of what most people fantasize about.

But the most popular adult content out there (research it) is focused on reasonably attractive, sexy people really giving it to each other good.

Sorry to burst anyone's bubble, but those wild, screaming, dirty talking, long-lasting, multiple-O, sex kitten shenanigans really do happen, and it's often a lot like how it looks on video.

But that's only the case if you make it happen, and only if she's loving every minute of it.


4) "Women don't like sex."


I've come to the conclusion that men who repeat this limiting belief might not always want to have their minds changed.

The truth would be too much of a hit to their ego at this point. After all, it's not that women don't like sex....it's just that they don't want sex with THEM.

That, of course, leads to projection of blame on women in general.

The tragic part is how flipping that one simple mindset around is absolutely key to seeing one's sexual reality follow suit.


And the killer...


5) "I've never had any complaints"


Few women have the heart to openly blast your sexual skill before your very eyes.

If they say nothing, or give decidedly tacit approval to the "adequate" Woody Allen sex the two of you just had, that probably means it wasn't exactly a mind-bending, sheet-ripping, lip-biting, toe-curling experience.

When it's good, she's clearly into it. I'd dare say even shy, introverted or angry women can't simply lay there during amazing sex.

If it's great, it's obvious.

And afterward, she's glowing, giggling and going on nonstop about how incredible you are.

Then she goes on nonstop to her friends, but only on those rare occasions when she's not back at your place for more.


Okay gentlemen... I fully realize I'd better put my fire suit on because your e-mails are about to explode my inbox.

I'm about to hear lots of protests.

Some of you are going to feel the need to protest.

After all, the alternative to my being wrong about this is more than some can bear, especially if they've gone around talking as I've described proudly over the years.

But seriously, though. I'm on point here. And it's WELL WORTH coming to grips with that.

The truth is nearly 100% of all men miss out on great sex. In this case, proclaiming "tens of millions of men can't be wrong" is pure rubbish.

Oh yes, they can.

And the few who are right aren't about to let the masses in on their secrets.

But there's good news. I've got your back.

Yes, I've certainly been guilty in the past of making my own sex life more difficult than it ever had to be.

But I turned it all around, majorly. It was as if a veil had been lifted.

That's why I put so much time, energy and passion into Behind Closed Doors.

It's the program that turns mere mortal men into verifiable super heroes in the bedroom:

And right now, you can get your very own copy for 50% off, using the automatically applied coupon code:


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Right now I'll also give you my full Female Persuasion program, just so women will LOVE, LOVE, LOVE you in general.

Most men will never know what mind-blowing sex is really like.

They'll never take a woman to the moon and back on a rising tide of multiple orgasms.

In fact, they won't even have the right woman in their lives to begin with.

Be one of the few and the proud (and the satisfied).

Behind Closed Doors gives you every bit of what you need to make great sex happen from this day forward:


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Be Good,

Scot McKay

X & Y Communications

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