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IN THIS EDITION: If you've been chasing women hoping to get positive results, this newsletter is for you.
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IT MAY BE WEIRD, BUT IT SURE WORKS
It never fails. Whenever I've told you about Rob Brinded, it seems like I end up fielding an endless stream of e-mail questions about how weird what he's talking about is.
I have to tell you, I fully agree.
The first time I ever heard this guy talk I thought he was from outer space or something. It was a David D. interview disc, and I'll admit I actually turned it off and stopped listening.
In fact, it wasn't until I actually met Rob in person that I finally got a clue and recognized his genius.
As you most certainly know unless you've been hiding under a rock, in a truly ironic twist Rob and I actually joined forces several years ago. He's now part of the X & Y Communications team.
Rob's "day job", however, is being the human movement expert to pro athletes all over the world, including high-profile La Liga players.
(Hint: He relocated from the UK to Barcelona years ago to be closer to his best clients).
But his very finest work might just be what he does for YOU.
Going beyond mere "body language", Rob shows you how to move and carry yourself in a way that women instinctively--even primally--find sexually irresistible.
His work is actually SO powerful and edgy that some of his contacts in the sporting world have pressured him to STOP teaching it.
You'll notice his name no longer appears on any of the public pages for his programs. That's why. It's ALL behind the scenes nowadays.
Yet the work continues...all because 1) NOBODY else is teaching this stuff, and 2) it WORKS...and almost miraculously so.
Having given it some thought, Rob's original (and amazing) program Code Of The Natural--the one that started it all--has been so wildly popular with you guys for years that I've decided to go ahead and give it to you when you get The Walking Code.
And that's in addition to getting The Walking Code for 50% off:
Get 50% Off The Walking Code + Code Of The Natural FREE
The Walking Code contains all the secrets to carrying yourself in an innately attractive way that makes women take notice--and even approach you first.
It also includes the bonus audios that Rob and I did on making the best use of his teachings when interacting with women AND in daily life.
But to be clear: You'll also get Rob Brinded's full-on course on attractive body language. This is the original program that covers it all.
Once you get your hands these two programs, you won't believe how much value Rob has packed into it. He may as well have called it "101 Ways To Make Women Want You Right Now".
The bottom line is that this guy is thinking in such radically original ways about body language and creating attraction that it really does come off as completely wacked out at first.
But after meeting Rob personally I finally paid attention to what he teaches. I did the exercises he suggested, and WOW did they work.
You not only LOOK better when you discover his genius, you even FEEL better.
In addition to famous athletes, he counts billionaires among his clients (for real).
Fortunately for you, it doesn't take a billion dollars to get your hands on Rob's secrets:
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I rarely recommend a program as highly as I do these. Everyone I know who has gotten them raves about them.
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SICK OF CHASING WOMEN ONLY TO GET "REJECTED ANYWAY? (READ THIS)
The other day I started really contemplating the idea of chasing women even more than I ever had before.
First off, what's the root cause of chasing?
We chase because we just can't handle the thought of losing an opportunity with a woman.
If we make matters worse by focusing totally on her, the "fear of loss" we feel means we push and push even in the face of longer and longer odds until the woman finally either flatly tells us to "go away" or files a restraining order.
That's not good, obviously. But far too many guys really don't see any other option. They either chase or go home.
I get e-mails all the time from guys who vehemently try to convince me that it's virtually impossible for any man to retain his power with women.
So how in the world did we ever start believing we have no choice but to surrender all the power of "acceptance" or "rejection" to women rather than reserving our right to be choosers?
I mean, anyone with half a brain can see the advantage of choosing versus chasing.
The thing is, I'm not sure we can so clearly see the disadvantages of chasing.
Honestly, I think the truth about a man's ability to have power in the dating world is so cloudy to so many guys because chasing really isn't a standalone condition.
Rather, it's merely a symptom of a bad habit developed over time: seeking approval.
Simply put, men who don't desperately try to get others to approve of them are almost always choosers.
Meanwhile, almost all guys who ARE approval seekers are chasers.
Interestingly, all of us--if we're honest--deep down really WANT others to approve of us. Either that or we're antisocial.
And who tends to get our approval in this life? People we respect and like. People we see as benevolent leaders. People who are making a positive impact on their world.
Who doesn't get our approval? People who bore or irritate us. People who are selfish and don't have the best interests of others in mind. People whose thoughts and ideas aren't deemed valuable.
So put two and two together and you can conclude that the amount a person is starved for approval and therefore voraciously seeking it is inversely correlated to his level of personal power.
Chicks dig a man with personal power. Without it, he really can't present himself to be a leader, provider or protector.
So ironically, the MORE a man apparently needs a woman to approve of him, the LESS attractive she's going to find him.
If you've ever wondered exactly why chasing a woman almost never works no matter how hard one tries, there's your answer.
Yet, guys still try to defend the faulty premise that women have all the power. But you can now see that even if they're proven right, it'll STILL get them absolutely NOWHERE with women. Go figure.
As tragic as this already sounds, it gets worse.
People who chase approval tend to be "yes men". Almost by definition, they say "yes" to every request made of them.
Part of effective leadership is knowing how and when to say "no", even when that means someone else doesn't get what he or she wants.
So then, "yes men" are more easily manipulated and respected less...even as they're TRYING to make everyone happy with them.
On the other hand, studies have proven that saying "no" often actually makes your occasional "yes" even more powerful.
Behavioral Psychology pioneer B.F. Skinner once famously trained a pigeon to peck over 1000 times between instances of actually getting a pellet of food for its labor. Amazingly, the more pecks it took to get a reward, the harder it was to get the pigeon to stop pecking.
Crazy huh? And while pigeons aren't people, the basic premise does indeed transfer to our behavior. The women who get inside our head the most and stay there most certainly are NOT rewarding our every peck with a pellet, are they?
So why, then, when the woman we've been chasing finally agrees to hang out with us do we drop everything and meet with her on HER terms and on HER schedule?
How is it that whatever question she asks, we somehow feel compelled to give her a comprehensive answer on the spot?
That doesn't demonstrate leadership, patience or any other sign of personal power.
It telegraphs starvation for approval because nobody else ever offers any. So why should she be the exception?
There's no reason at all for any woman to respect a man like that. He can't stand up TO her, therefore he can't stand up FOR her.
Can you see the forest for the trees once and for all? Can you see the true amount of collateral damage caused by chasing?
From now on deserve what you want. Count yourself worthy of approval and stop trying so hard to capture it. Stop being a "yes man" and start saying "no" more often. Stop chasing and start choosing instead.
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