Most men who reach out to me say some version of this: "When it comes to women, I know what I'm supposed to do. I just don't do it when it matters."

They hesitate. Second-guess. Wait for the perfect moment that never comes.

Or worse, they think they're doing the right thing...and it ends up backfiring on them.

If any part of that sounds familiar, reply and tell me what’s been happening.

I read every response personally. And when I see a pattern I recognize, I’ll give you a straight answer.

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