Here's another thing I've noticed after years of coaching men on success with women.
The guys who feel frustrated aren't missing information. There's a disconnect when it's time to act on it in the moment.
It shows up as overthinking, filtering what you say, trying not to mess up. Analysis paralysis.
When you're playing not to lose instead of interacting confidently, she feels it immediately. And it kills your chances despite all your planning.
What's really going on? Most guys are obsessing over maybe getting something wrong...when if they'd simply done what they already knew would work, it probably would have gone perfectly well.
Am I on to something here? Reply and tell me what typically happens when you're around a woman you're attracted to.
I’ll write you back personally with something practical you can use.
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