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WHAT'S INSIDE: Tyler was all set for a great weekend visiting a woman in another city. But then, THIS happened...
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OUTSIDE THE BOX
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READER QUESTIONS AND COMMENTS
Hi Scot,
This is an unusual question.
I recently reconnected with a woman who I know from my social circle through Facebook. We started communicating a lot.
One thing led to another, and we made plans for me to come visit her in Norfolk, VA this Memorial Day Weekend.
The closer that the date of my flight approached, the more cold, distant and unfriendly she got.
About 36 hours before my arrival I got a text saying her uncle passed away and she had to fly to Aruba.
I expressed condolences. But I'm dubious.
If she wanted a bulletproof excuse not to see me, she now has one.
Perhaps a little too perfect.
Your input please,
Tyler
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Hello Tyler, and thanks for writing.
The "family emergency" excuse is absolutely the go-to flake tactic nowadays.
Your example fits the pattern almost stereotypically perfectly.
The deceased person is usually just outside the immediate family. Travel is involved. No traceable details are offered. And there is no alternate plan suggested.
Really, this tactic has become so common it's nearly a running joke.
It works because it renders the person being flaked on completely speechless. There's no socially acceptable way to challenge it.
Yes, it's rooted in cowardice. Yes, it's uncool. But it elegantly eliminates messy conflict.
Practically speaking, I'd let her make the next move.
And I wouldn't expect much.
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