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WHAT'S INSIDE: No matter what, some guys have a firmly-held belief that women call all the shots in dating and relationships.
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THE "LOST EPISODES" ARE ALL FOUND AGAIN...IF YOU ACT FAST
Yesterday I mentioned the 67 “Lost Episodes” from the early years of The Mountain Top, back when it was called The Chick Whisperer.
Looking back through them, what struck me most wasn’t just the quality and notability of the guests.
It was the range of conversations:
* How to date multiple women at the same time.
* How to get women to approach YOU.
* What to do when you have no idea what to say to her.
* How to bring out a woman's erotic side.
* Re-inventing yourself as wildly attractive.
* Sexual tension and how to make it happen.
* How to avoid psycho women.
* How to get over your ex.
That's just eight of the sixty-seven topics waiting for you in the Lost Episodes collection:
The Chick Whisperer - Lost Episodes
Altogether it's eight years of conversations from the earliest era of the show, which most listeners today have never heard.
These shows ran from 2007 through 2014. They're gone from Apple Podcasts. Gone from Spotify. Gone from the RSS feed. Gone from the main site.
Now I've opened the vault, and you can name your price for the entire collection.
They're no longer anywhere on the Internet. This is the only place on earth where you can hear them all:
Lost Episodes - Pay What You Want
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WHAT TO DO IF YOU THINK SHE'S GOT ALL THE POWER
Some guys are flat-out convinced that women have all the power, and that's just the way it is.
Usually, such a man has been CHASING women for so blasted long that it's all he knows.
He's doing what he's always done, and he keeps getting what he's always gotten.
Therefore, the notion of women having all the power has become an ABSOLUTE in his mind.
And they think I'm stark raving nuts to even suggest otherwise.
But the irony is that what he's experiencing is really all due to...wait for it...his own leadership.
Remember, women are hard-wired to follow a man's lead, so for as long as he continues to LEAD in the way he always has, women will continue to be repulsed by it.
Here's why.
Women WILL NOT respect a man who cannot be a provider or a protector.
By now you know that doesn't necessarily mean he has to be a millionaire built like an NFL linebacker.
A man who gets the job done here provides by having an answer and a plan for whatever comes up.
He protects by facing challenges with courage and executing rather than running away.
In other words, he wields the POWER of his masculinity.
So here it is: If you automatically cede ALL POWER to women by default, then you've basically led from the start with a loud, clear message that you're the exact OPPOSITE of a "
big four
" man.
I mean, since you're assuming she has all the power, does that mean SHE'S supposed to provide for YOU and protect YOU?
Let's just say that's about as likely a scenario in the female mind as her making you pregnant and having babies for her.
Seriously, no man who believes women have all the power will find much success with them.
Let me spell this out, so it's loud and clear:
Invariably, guys who thinks women have all the power are NOT attractive to them.
Have you ever noticed that?
In order for a woman to get hot and bothered in a sexually polarized way for any man, he's got to be MASCULINE.
That means he's got to at least have enough personal power to make her feel safe and comfortable in his presence.
At least.
Okay, here endeth my rant on this subject.
If you're already a man who's a chooser rather than a chaser, I trust you'll take this as a "pep talk" and leave here with an even stronger understanding of why women tend to love you.
If, on the other hand, you still think I've got rocks in my head allow me to leave you with one final thought:
Do you really think continuing to believe women have all the power is ever going to START working in your favor?
Truly, any man who wants to succeed with women (as in EVER) has got to
take his power back.
It's the very nature of what drives sexual attraction.
There's really no other option when you think about it.
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