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WHAT'S INSIDE: Not All "JBF" talks are created equal. Here's how to tell what she's really saying.
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IF YOU'RE NOT SUCCEEDING WITH WOMEN...
...And you're seeing frustration in your career and/or your social life too, it's probably related.
See this (2-minute read):
It's All Relationships
Many coaches talk about either relationships with women, career advancement or verbal skills.
But success in one area leads to success in other areas more often than most people guess.
If you have a sneaking suspicion there's a common thread somewhere in your life that's keeping you from getting the results you want, talk to me:
It's All Relationships
I've been there, I get it, and we can turn this ship around.
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THERE MIGHT BE MORE TO THAT "JUST BE FRIENDS" TALK THAN YOU THINK
I fully realize that how to avoid the dreaded "Just Be Friends Zone" is a topic that's frequently discussed. It's covered in The Big 4 Man Challenge, and there was even an entire Masterclass For Men devoted to it.
But right now I'm going to share with you a realization that came to me during a recent Ten-Plus coaching call:
Not All "JBF" Talks Are Created Equal.
What's more, you've GOT to be able to tell the difference between the two different varieties they tend to come in.
Rather, it's so you can once and for all figure out HOW and WHY women are exiling you there to begin with.
Better yet, you'll have more control over your dating life, almost overnight.
Most guys who hear the "JBF Talk" tend to hear it repeatedly.
That's because almost every time a woman delivers the dreaded news, she simply doesn't feel attraction.
Masculinity + Femininity = Sexual Polarity
Without sexual polarity, attraction cannot exist.
Here are the familiar phrases:
"I think we should just be friends."
"I'm just not feeling it."
"I don't want to ruin our friendship."
"You're more like a brother to me."
But the key is her emotional tone.
If she sounds sympathetic or patronizing, you're experiencing a Type 1 JBF Talk.
That means she never felt attraction.
A Type 2 JBF Talk is different.
She once felt attraction, but it faded because something changed.
Often that happens when a man begins chasing rather than choosing. Could it be you let your emotions get the best of you and you started obsessing a bit?
Recognizing the difference, and which pattern you're seeing, can dramatically increase your control over your dating life.
Attract women, keep them attracted, and stay in control of your relationships.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
X & Y Communications
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