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WHAT'S INSIDE: When it comes to women, are you absolutely SURE you know exactly what you WANT and DON'T WANT? Here's a simple way to know.
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ALL THE RIGHT MOVES
I'm sure you've long since noticed that what really catches your eye about a woman is how she MOVES.
There's a certain slinky, feminine, graceful even feline characteristic to the women who really turns our head, right?
Well guess what? The allure generated by movement is NOT gender-specific.
Rob Brinded has a study that shows women are far more tuned in to how a man moves than we've ever imagined...probably even more than WE as guys are when we notice women.
If how you carry yourself, how you gesture when you speak, and especially how you WALK aren't attractive to women, YOU won't be attractive to women.
And on the other hand, if you've got all of that in your favor you're UNSTOPPABLE when it comes to creating attraction.
Tragically, this is what most guys never seem to get right, and it's what leads to the dreaded "hidden detractors" I talk about so often.
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HOW TO KNOW FOR SURE WHAT KIND OF WOMAN YOU REALLY WANT
You already know that I talk a lot about deserving what you want. A big part of doing that involves taking the measures necessary to be the kind of man the woman of your dreams is dreaming of.
And that, in and of itself, is a step most of us fail to take in this culture of "immediate gratification" and "quick fixes".
But based on my interactions with both men and women, there's an even more shocking aspect to how people go about relationships.
The vast majority of us have no idea what we really want.
We may feel as if "we'll know it when we see it" or something like that, but beyond ticking the obvious checkboxes (i.e. "um...really hot and kind of fun to be with, I guess.") we don't ever objectively identify the exact details of who the woman of our dreams really is.
Maybe it's because there's a stigma around being "too picky".
Or possibly it's because we've been brainwashed to believe that either 1) nobody really ever gets who they want, or worse... 2) ...that we're "shallow" for having high standards in certain areas, or all of them.
Well, let me support you 100% in being "too picky". And if anyone ever tells you you're "shallow" for wanting it all, send him or her to me. I've got your back.
So with that formality out of the way, what do you do to make sure you're on the right track here?
Simple. You make an Excel spreadsheet.
In it, you list the TOP TEN traits you deem important in a woman. I don't care what they are. You are the sole judge of what's on the list.
All that's really important is that they're important to you, and that they're incrementally measurable rather than binary.
For example, "emotional stability" or "sexual attractiveness" would be fine choices.
"She's from Italy" or "she's Southern Baptist" wouldn't be. Those are simply "yes" or "no" answers.
Once you've got ten solid criteria in mind, make a column for each trait.
Then, in each of several rows below type in the name of a woman you are currently dating or want to date. You can even list women you've known or dated in the past for reference.
Once you have the names written down, rank each woman from 1-10 under each respective trait in accordance with how you feel she measures up to the ultimate standard you have in mind.
For what it's worth, this exercise will only really work well for you if you're willing to actually issue "10"s where deserved.
A mindset where you think that "nobody ever deserves a ten for anything because that's perfection" isn't really useful here, as you'll see in a second.
So for the purposes at hand, get an idea of what would be the optimal real-world situation for each respective criterion and set a realistically attainable yardstick.
For example, you might have "financially well-off" as a criterion. It would be reasonable to score a woman with a six-figure income, no credit card debt and an 750 credit score as a "10".
She wouldn't necessarily have to be an international billionaire. Remember, you're dealing with real women here and looking for the best one for you.
Then, add up the sub-scores for each of the ten traits for each respective woman. Out of 100 possible points, each woman will have a "grade".
Now I know what you're saying. This sure seems like a stone cold way to evaluate women.
Well it may look that way at first glance, but most of us as guys tend to evaluate women very subjectively.
Going purely by a "seat of the pants" impression of how much we like a particular woman can get a bit confusing--or even misleading--when we know plenty of them, can't it?
This is especially true when ALL of those women are subjectively fantastic, and ALL of them are completely different as individuals.
The "whitelist" I just described to you is a way of grounding your mindset, so you can effectively temper your subjective, emotional response to women with factors you've decided were important ahead of time.
Notice I said, "ahead of time". No fair making your whitelist AFTER you start dating someone.
Even though I did suggest running the numbers for previous girlfriends as a point of reference, trust me when I tell you it's almost impossible not to skew the criteria in your whitelist and how you weigh them in favor of women you WANT to score well if you already know them and like them.
So for that specific reason it's best to have a clean slate.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
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