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WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU WANT HER...BADLY
This time I'm going to let you in on what may very well be the "secret of the universe" when it comes to creating mutual sexual attraction between a woman and yourself and acting on it.
Let it be known that this may not fully register the first time you read it. You may need to peruse this whole enchilada a couple of times for it to really hit home.
So with that in mind, let's hurry up and go for it. I'll keep it as concise as possible.
Now obviously, all of us have seen a woman and realized instantly that we were sexually attracted to her. We may have even felt something move in our boxers right there on the spot.
Well, when that sort of thing has happened to you, what was going through your mind?
Somehow I doubt it was to the effect of, "You know, that's one sexy chick. Someday when I feel like it, I'm going to have to get around to having sex with her."
My bet is it was more like, "Whoa...I'd love to get her naked and do unspeakably naughty things to her RIGHT NOW."
Let's face it. Horniness is NOT patient, is it? That's just how biological urges roll. The same holds true for hunger, thirst, breathing, sleeping, etc.
So let's call that impulse in the moment "sexual urgency".
"Sexual urgency" = "fervent desire to have sex ASAP"
This is perfectly NORMAL.
It's just like when you're hungry you want to EAT.
If you happen to find yourself at the bottom of a swimming pool, you'll probably scramble to the surface and BREATHE as quickly as you can.
But unlike other physiological needs we all have, sex is unique: When satisfied in the most fulfilling manner (i.e. not through masturbation), it requires the active participation of someone else.
(For what it's worth, some of you may feel like issuing a rebuttal to that last statement. But ultimately, I find it really hard to believe you'd "rather jack off" than be with a real, live woman. For most men that's a cheap substitute, so I invite you to shelve any bitterness toward women that you may be feeling, if only long enough to consider the real point here. Cool?)
So this means that in order for your desires to come to fruition, she's going to have to agree to help satisfy them.
She's not like the air around you that you can breathe freely without its permission, or the can of ravioli you buy at the grocery store and wolf down without its express consent.
Now, for the record, I'm firmly of the belief that MOST women aren't exactly going to get a room with any and every horny guy who introduces himself and suggests doing the "wild thing" together.
Let me be the first to admit that in the homo sapiens species there tends to be a process associated with any sexual end result.
At this point in the whole train of events, you're hot for a certain woman and yes, you therefore need HER to be hot for YOU as well.
So what many, many guys do is to enact a strategy of exerting SEXUAL PRESSURE on her.
This idea of "sexual pressure" is based on the desperate hope of making a woman give us what we want (i.e. sex).
Welcome to where infamous pickup artist terms like "escalation", "building compliance" and "sealing the deal" come from.
Think about it: Every single one of those terms implies a focus on getting one's own needs met, preferably with as little negotiation and/or resistance from the "target" as possible.
Again, this is actually the LOGICAL, and dare I say NORMAL "knee jerk" response on the part of our reptilian brains to the biological problem we perceive to be at hand.
But it's the WRONG one. In fact, it's the diametric opposite of what's really going to work.
Remember, deserving what you want is almost ALWAYS the key to success with women.
As discussed so far, both sexual urgency AND sexual pressure are all about US and OUR needs. The former leads to the latter.
BUT...here's the big takeaway for you.
The more evolved and more effective way to proceed is to turn your attention from how you might PRESSURE her to meet YOUR sexual needs...and instead consider how you might create a similar sexual urgency in HER.
That's right. Instead of trying to make her "comply", how about influencing her to WANT YOU as badly as you want her?
After all, if BOTH of you feel that sexual urgency, what's stopping either of you (at least at the biological level, if not the social) from acting on it?
This couldn't make more sense, right? There's zero awkwardness, no conniving and certainly fewer hard feelings when we genuinely seduce a woman at her core rather than pressuring her.
Consider how needy and desperate it must look trying to "seal the deal" with a woman by "escalating" her into "compliance". I mean, what part do HER natural, human sexual urges play in all of that?
Such a lame-o strategy is clearly favored only by men who assume they have NO CHANCE at creating real, sexual attraction in a woman.
That's a rookie mistake if there ever was one.
The next time you find yourself sexually attracted to a woman, get a hold of yourself. Recognize your animal instincts, call them out, and take control over both your emotions and your actions.
Relax, take a deep breath, and start trusting your own natural masculinity to create SEXUAL URGENCY in her.
Trust that it will take less time than you suspect, and that because she's a woman your masculine presence will function as nature designed it to.
Be that "big four" man. BELIEVE confidently in your masculine power, and then be sure to help her feel comfortable in your presence. Show enough character to consider her HUMAN role in the whole matter.
Sexual pressure has the OPPOSITE and more detrimental effect, by the way. So less pressure and more masculine charm actually equals a greater chance of sexual activity between a man and a woman.
And what do you know? That outcome is exactly what you wanted to begin with.
Only this way SHE wants it every bit as badly as you do. What could be better?
Be Good,
Scot McKay
X & Y Communications
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