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WHAT'S INSIDE: Have you ever felt overwhelmed when it comes to learning about women and succeeding with them?
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LETTER FROM A READER
Hello Scot:
I have several sticking points.
The first is confusion. There's just a TON of advice out there. Then, when what sounds like good advice on a web page doesn't immediately translate in the real world, I start thinking "I will never get this".
This often leads to having a hard time trusting in the method. In other words, I have a hard time getting to the point where I think my approach has a chance of success. I feel like I'd just rather skip the painful trial and error.
Both of the above probably aren't helped by my deep fears around publicly approaching hot women. Some positive thinking tips just don't seem to stop my body from going into a visible freeze up.
What do you think?
Kevin (Northern Ireland)
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Hello Kevin:
I hear you man. It sounds like you're experiencing a classic case of overwhelm.
It's easy to feel that way when confronted with what seems like a LOT to learn...all at once. It's natural for that to make you just want to throw up your hands and say "forget it".
But I want to reassure you first by letting you know that you most certainly do not have to pressure yourself into getting everything down by tomorrow morning.
You really don't have to ace all of this on the first try.
Even though there's indeed plenty of great content available to you, mastering it doesn't have to be viewed as "painful trial and error".
Nor does it even have to look like it.
The good news is that every single bit of what you learn--from the first day onward--will be helping you get better with women today than you were yesterday.
As such, you'll see results almost immediately, even if you'll be seeing even more of the full benefits in a few weeks or months.
And if you really do "freeze up" around beautiful women today, you'll be able to feel yourself moving in the right direction.
You know, it's not only okay to "pace yourself" a bit, it's actually a good thing to do so.
One of the joys of this life is that the journey is often as much fun as getting to the destination...as long as we allow it to be.
I know for me, I look back at the three years or so I spent getting better and better with women to the point where I felt I had "raised the bar" as high as it could go and consider them some of the greatest years of my life.
I hadn't met Emily yet, but every little increase in success along the way was a total thrill. Had I woken up the day after I first made the decision to get better with women and met Emily, I would have missed out on a lot of great experiences along the way.
I realize that we all think we would love to meet the greatest woman we ever met today, but when you have the mindset that the journey itself is going to be a total blast you can really free yourself up from a world of pressure.
Think about it...once you see the very first principle you learn actually work for you in the real world, it's going to be a total rush. That'll motivate you to learn the next thing.
I distinctly remember it being that way for me...and it ROCKED.
Now, I fully realize that our modern world is one where "immediate gratification" is prized highly. Most of the products you see advertised in the world of men's dating and seduction advice are promising things like this:
"Have sex tonight with the hottest woman you've ever met, and sleep with a different one every night for the rest of your life. It doesn't matter how much of a loser you are, and you won't have to spend any money. By the way, all the women will approach you so you don't even have to leave your chair."
And to be truthful, a lot of guys buy into that sort of promise even if who they're really looking for is a high quality woman to "live the dream" with.
Well, make no mistake about it. "Deserve What You Want" is the concept that X & Y Communications was built on, and that's why I'm not only unashamed to actually print your letter, Kevin, but responding honestly to it as well.
So indeed, it's true that you won't likely be able to assimilate everything right now and have it all firing on all cylinders for you by dinnertime.
I'll never promise you that.
BUT...that said, here's the thing: I certainly don't want you to get intimidated by the wealth of information to be gleaned in my programs or any other of the solid ones I recommend and simply throw in the towel.
Not only will you see some results quickly, it probably won't take you nearly as long to get the full benefit as you think.
The best news of all is that if you can stick with the program early on--even while you're feeling that sensation of "overwhelm you'll quickly figure out that the pieces are starting to come together faster than you thought.
"Overwhelm" will gradually morph into "confidence".
Let me tell you, it's like this for most areas of life that involve gaining competence over time.
In fact, I remember when I embarked on a new adventure in learning myself, and at that moment I felt a lot about that like you are about getting better with women.
For ages I've been fascinated by airplanes and flight, so I decided I'd like to get my pilot's license. And let me tell you, just having read up on the process before me alone was intimidating.
Well, during my very first lesson the crazy instructor actually let me do everything--all on the first day.
We're talking pre-flight check, communication with the tower, sitting at the controls during taking off, flying the airplane to the next airport and even landing the thing (at a major international airport, no less).
I came away from the experience totally overwhelmed.
Being at the controls of a friggin' flying machine while having to concentrate on what the tower is saying, where the altimeter is, what heading we're on and what the heck "trimming the nose" means was just way too much for a newbie like me to process at once.
Now no doubt, the instructor walked me through everything and was there to fill in the gaps where needed.
But make no mistake, when I answered the preliminary question about how much I'd like to be involved with during the first lesson with "everything possible!" I had bitten off WAY more than I could chew.
Although it was crazy to consider that I'd have to be able to juggle all of those tasks at once someday--and more--in order to earn a pilot's license, I was as completely stoked as I was overwhelmed.
Sure, at first there's so much to think about when flying a plane and when faced with doing it all at the same time it's easy to come away thinking I'd probably never get it all down.
But at the same time, I already knew LOTS of things I didn't know prior to my first lesson. And I was already thinking about what I could add to my knowledge the next time I flew.
And importantly, I can also look back to when I was beginning to learn how to play the guitar, surf or (ahem) get better with women and recall feeling the exact same way about all of that as I did about flying an airplane.
But it's been a blast getting better and better at each of those skill sets along the way.
And I promise that if you want to meet higher quality women sooner than later, Kevin, mastering how to do so not only worked for me but also for thousands of other guys.
You'll get better with women, and I'll get better at flying airplanes. Before we realize it, it'll all be second nature.
Go ahead and dive in, and enjoy the journey. And please do send me your success stories along the way. I love to hear them.
Be Good,
Scot McKay
X & Y Communications
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