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IN THIS EDITION: Sure, there's always room for improvement when it comes to skills with women. But have you ever stopped to consider that you might be doing better than you give yourself credit for?
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Here's to a little more weekend action with women in your near future.
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WHY THE "RATIO" IS IN YOUR FAVOR
There are socio-economic factors at play between different populations in different parts of the world, of course. But for the most part, the ratio of female to male human beings in this world is actually about 1:1.
In fact, on a global scale there are actually slightly MORE male babies born than female ones.
Granted, basic biological and societal factors conspire to kill us dudes off at a faster rate over the course of time, but for the sake of the matter at hand let's give every baby boy a fighting chance.
Right on?
Okay, then. As such, that means if you have ONE woman who would rather be with you than any other guy on Earth, you're already doing slightly BETTER than the average man.
Seriously...ONE woman. That's the factual reality of the situation.
Progressing logically from there, that can only mean if you have TWO women crazy about you, then it's altogether necessary that some other guy is going completely without.
And if you have three or four...or fifty? Well, I think you can do the math.
Now, I can already see the wheels turning in some of your heads.
"Yeah Scot, but women can and will date more than one guy at a time."
Right you are. But they generally don't prefer to. If they can find the RIGHT guy, they're perfectly happy to be with him and only him.
Besides, I'd still bet you a cigar there are more men dating multiple women then there are women dating multiple men, which only bolsters my original point.
What's more, if and when most of us decide to get married, it's to one woman, notwithstanding that guy in Singapore who I coached a few weeks ago about how to add a second wife to his family.
And hey, even if you DO consider polygamous cultures, have you ever heard of one where one woman has multiple husbands?
But there's even more to feel good about if you have even ONE woman in your life.
Do you actually LIKE her? Is she attractive to you?
Here's a social exercise for you. Next time you're out, look around and note the number of women out there who you actually find attractive.
If it's even 1 out of every 5 overall I'd say you're relatively easy to please.
But be that as it may, let's use that as a working estimate.
What it all adds up to is this: If there's ONE woman in your life who you think is attractive and who is attracted to you, you're very likely doing better than a whopping 80% of the male population out there.
That's a really heavy thought. And I've just backed it with rather conservative numbers.
So what's the moral of this story?
If you're bummed out because you only have ONE woman you know of who digs you, there's actually reason to regard yourself as FAR more successful with women than you think.
As we all know, when you're encouraged rather than discouraged, your confidence grows.
With an increase in confidence, of course, comes a marked increase in your attractiveness to women.
And hey, if you don't happen to have a woman in your life who you're excited about just yet, stop and consider how statistically significant it'll be when you DO.
By the way, YES...when you fine-tune the "big four" in your life you WILL start attracting the kind of woman you want. I can solemnly promise you that.
So I say let the snowball start rolling. Keep up the good work, and let the guys who aren't fend for themselves.
(Well, either that or those other dudes can grab their own copy of The Master Plan, Female Persuasion and Invincible on the 3-for-1 above.)
Be Good,
Scot McKay
X & Y Communications
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